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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I am a 19 year old girl and I am sooo confused! I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years now, I love him to bits and would do anything for him.. However, lately we went on holiday abroad with his family, and his cousin who is married brought along her single friend who is a girl.. We got on really well, all went out in a group every night.. She is beautiful, I might be imagining it (which I probably am) but I thought she used to stare at me quite a lot... I don't know if this was because she was attracted to me, or whatever.. But now we are back I just can't stop thinking about her. She added me on Facebook, and I haven't spoke to her, we have just liked a few posts of each other's. I feel so guilty, I can't stop thinking about her, I feel bad on my boyfriend but I can't help it.. This might sound crazy but it's gone as far as when me and my boyfriend are doing stuff in the bedroom I'm thinking about her... I really wish I didn't but I can't help it.. I literally can't get her out of my head.. What do I do? Is it possible to love two people at the same time? I don't know what to do, I know I couldn't follow my feelings because I am in a relationship, but what do I do? She is probably straight.. But I'm always going to be thinking what if... My head is a mess!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2014): Either you're gay of bisexual. If you're thinking of someone else while having sex; you're not into the person you're with.
Don't excuse yourself by falsely claiming you love your boyfriend to bits; when you can't get someone else out of your mind. What you described is more than a crush. It's not love either. It's lust.
I guess it's time to come out of the closet. Let him go now. I don't think you're being totally honest with your boyfriend about how you feel about him. You may as well be honest with yourself about your sexual preference, and set him free.
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