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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi most of the time when i have sex with my boyfrnd lots of water comes seems to come out my vagina...now he thinks i am cheating...is it normal or its a disease or is it something else? I am not cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2014): He's not used to a truly sexually-responsive female; and knows nothing about female anatomy and female ejaculation. All he knows about is how to have sex. If he keeps acting crazy and falsely accusing you, stop having sex with him.
You must not have been with this guy very long, he doesn't seem to know much about you. Surely this has happened before?
Don't give yourself to men who accuse you of being a cheat. He doesn't own you. It is a very bad sign when someone makes wild accusations based on outrageous evidence. He's trying to make you think he can tell when you've had sex with another man. Guys who do this are crazy jealous and you had better pay attention to any other signs of his controlling nature. He's totally ignorant.
I don't think there is anything wrong with you; but jealous boyfriends usually cheat themselves.
You better go get testing for STD's and talk to your gynecologist; so you yourself can learn more about your own body. Seek direct medical opinion so you can ask your own on-the-spot questions and know the facts.
Please don't rely on the internet for medical information.
You need to be asking your doctor when you don't understand how your body functions. Your doctor knows your medical history and when to test to see if there is anything wrong.
You will also find out if there is any unusual issue and prove to your stupid boyfriend you are faithful to him.
I strongly recommend you practice safe sex and use condoms. He may be cheating himself. He may be infected and trying to blame you for giving it to him. If you don't know your own body, you'll look guilty when he accuses you.
I don't think he is intelligent enough to go read anything and make any sense of it. He's stupid. If he was educated, he'd know something about female orgasms.
The guy needs to learn about how a vagina works. If he is that ignorant about women, I think you're ignoring other red-flags about the guy; because you want to be with him so bad.
Nothing is more dangerous to a woman, than an ignorant jealous man accusing her of cheating.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (3 October 2014):
 You are a lucky girl and he is an ungrateful sod. You can tell him from me that he is ignorant about women, even if his loving is causing you to orgasm so very well. Because he has no idea what is really happening.
What is happening is something that most men would like to see happen but rarely can see and experience it.
Why is this so?
Because only about 3 percent of women can do what you can do.
It is certainly not evidence of cheating. Quite the opposite.
Despite him being a suspicious ungrateful sod he is probably a very good lover. His loving is causing you to have an orgasm that indicates that his loving is very satisfying for you.
Because what is happening is called Squirting. This is rare in a female. It is a female orgasm that takes it to a level, a level that few can reach and few can reach very often.
The loving you are enjoying with your lover is clearly exceptionally satisfying for you. Thus you are experiencing a female orgasm that results in squirting.
Here is an explanation of squirting.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation
Tell him to be completely grateful that he is lucky enough to have a girl who can squirt. Most females can only do it rarely or not at all.
It is NOT something to be ashamed of.
Certainly it would be most tasteless to boast about it. It is a hidden treasure that you can cherish between you and your partner.
You can ask him to keep it as a private special ability just between just the two of you. Warn him there will be consequences if he does not respect that your ability should be private. Between just you and him.
IF he boasts about it to others then I would drop him as a man incapable of respect.
It is something that makes you very unique and special and a special treasure that he is fortunate enough to enjoy, probably because he is a good lover.
You may find that you cannot squirt with a lover who does not excite you as much as your current partner can.
Though I do not think you want another lover, I think you like your existing partner because he does make you feel so very good, when you make love with him.
And your body is the best evidence of your satisfaction with his loving.
In NO way does squirting indicate that you have been cheating and you have not been cheating.
Tell him to read the article on squirting above. He needs the instruction to better understand your very special ability.
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