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*issmylips
writes:Hi, i'm an Indian. I am 20 years but i didnt ever travelled out of India. But soon i am going to visit some countries. My problem is I want to date with a white girl. But i am worried about do they like me or not. I am shy to approach them. One of my friend (he travelled out of india many times) said me that "many of the white girls dont like indian guys". Is that true ? PLEASE HELP ME
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reader, WhenCowsAttack  +, writes (4 July 2014):
Hey, I'm a white girl, and one of my fondest past relationships was with an Indian guy named Omar. He was sexy, funny, super handsome and easygoing, and we had a blast. If I weren't married I'd date another Indian guy in a heartbeat!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2014): No it isn't true. My sister in law is white and dated an Indian guy for 2 years. It all comes down to personal taste. Some people date outside their race, and some don't. I recommend taking the risk of being rejected over not talking to women at all. You are bound to find one who will like you back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2014): I don't know why you specifically want a white girl. You shouldn't discriminate. But yes, white girls can like indian men. In fact, one of my white female friends is marrying an Indian man today.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 July 2014):
 Why do you want to date a "white girl"? I think you need to ask yourself this question and come up with some valid reasons for why you are being somewhat discriminating. No "white girl" wants to be your girlfriend if you just want her because of her skin colour.
I can tell you that girls with white skin don't have anything against men with darker skin. But girls, in general, don't like to be treated like objects. Saying you want to date a "white girl" is objectifying a woman, making her worth nothing besides her skin tone.
Now Im not saying you're objectifying women, I don't know you. Maybe you came off the wrong way. But the clue here is how you present yourself. Right now I am put off by you, not because you are Indian, but because you seem very shallow and only interested in a woman because of her skin tone, as if she doesn't have a personality, isn't a person... She's just something you want as a pretty accessory.
So please rethink why you want a "white girl". Who is a white girl? What does "white girl" mean to you? Why are you so interested in the colour of a persons skin?
As a final piece of information I can tell you that people in general tend to prefer a partner who is similar to them. Similar in culture, mannerism, or looks. I found it difficult to date people of a different culture than me, based on how different ideas about the world we have. And mostly, because women for most part and NOT being treated as equal to a man, so men from a different culture than me might not treat me the way I want to be treated... So it becomes a problem to have a relationship. For example I am very put off by immigrants to want to dirty dance with me in a club, just because I am out on the dancefloor. They seem to think I am a slut and will have sex with anyone, just because I dress nice and am out at a club. It's a difference in culture, maybe women who do this where they are from will be easy and will like being felt up. But you need to keep in mind of people of that particular culture behave!!! There is no such thing as "white girls". The women are Norwegian, British, American, Canadian, Spanish, Greek, Russian etc etc etc...
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (3 July 2014):
 Don't waste your time and mental energy generalizing "white girls." If you want to interact with "girls" (young women) then do so. Don't go in with a predisposition that any one of them (or, all of them) is/are not going to be interested in you just because of your background.....
Good luck... and happy travels...
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