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anonymous
writes:Hi. I recebly move in a new house after a recent break up with my 2 years boyfriend. I noticedt hat one of my house mates started flirting with me.one day he suggested to watch a movie in his room. We made out twice it was leading to sex but I was too stressed and shy to do something so he stopped by him self.the third time there was foreplay. I though we were gonna have sex. It didn't happen cause he suddenly stopped and said that we both have to wake up Earlie the next morning.I don't know if the fact that I was not doing anything cause I was stressed and shy turned him off. We slept after that together and he was still cuddling me and hagging me and staff. After that he hasn't called me to his room or talk about it.Also back that time he didn't know I had broken up a and the day after that I saw a picture of my ex and anoyher girl. I went to his room and told him about it. I assumed he knew but he didnt. I slept in the same room but in the sofa this time. He didnt try anything.he was even talking to me about that girl who met and he was saying to me what she was writing to him on Facebook. He was even texting her next to me.he keeps on mentioning things about his old relationships.we still talk and cook together and everything but I don't know what happened. Do you think I should talk to him about it. Just to say I like you as friend and I don't want our friend ship to end but I want to know what happened that night? What do you think.. Any ideas?
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reader, will13  +, writes (31 August 2014):
i think he got a booty call, and that was what he was looking for. it is what it is. Sometimes in life you have to not have sex with people you cherish as friends cause you don't wanna go down that road and lose a good friend. I think if you step back and really look at this, you might have just lost your friend, because of a booty call. Sit down and talk to him honestly and see what he has to say..get his side of the whole affair and ask how he feels about you. think this over and process it, listen to what he has to say, go from there. If he is a good friend he might feel awkward about what you two did and may not know how to approach you about it. Hope this helps.
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