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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi friendsI need some helpthe thing is one of male friend developed feelings for me though he has never directly said anything his behavior makes it visible. I used to consider him only friend. Am a person who is very sensitive and I donot like lossing friends.He behaves very weirdly with me and sometimes treats me like a stranger.I get hurt I get botheredas we are classmates I have to face him dailyBecause of all this am not able to concentrate on my studieswhenever he ignores me I get emotionalI know one thing for sure there is no relationship possible between him and me because our nature is oppositebut I miss his friendshipAm waiting for day he would talk to mebut he is busy ignoringIf he has developed feelings for me what is my fault why is he punishing me by snatching away his friendship from me?Is there any way I can get him back? Please tell me some way to not get depressed and lead happy life please
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (2 August 2014):
 He is not punishing you. He is doing whatever he needs to do to move on, to throw you out of his mind. You should do the same by ignoring him not because he is a bad person, but so that you can concentrate on your life and do things that make you happy. If you want to know a way to not feel depressed, it is actually very simple. First you have to not take this personally. Then you realize that you found a type of guy you can be attracted to, that's good. Unluckily that there is something that made you two incompatible. Then your next target is to find a guy that has similar background and personality to yours. Once you have an image in your mind what kind of guy would be suitable for you, or meets you and your family's criteria, you can look forward to that in the future.
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