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Is it normal for the head of a man's penis to feel REALLY sensitive after orgasm?

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Question - (1 August 2014) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 August 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi Aunts and Uncles,

I was wondering, is it normal for the head of a man's penis to feel REALLY sensitive after orgasm? My boyfriend says that, after climax, any stimulation at the head of his penis feels painful.

Does this happen to all men? Or could it be because he is circumcised??

Also, sometimes I finish him off with my hands and/or mouth, but this is a bit difficult because I feel like I need to know EXACTLY when to stop, because if I keep going for a second too long, it hurts him. On the other hand, I know that the average male orgasm lasts for 15 seconds, so I don't want to stop too soon because I feel like that makes an orgasm less pleasurable.

So, my questions are:

1. For men, is it typical for any stimulation to feel painful after orgasm? and

2. How can I know exactly when to stop any manual/oral stimulation after my boyfriend finishes?

Thanks!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2014):

yes it is true but only after it gets soft, after orgasm. if you want to really heighten his pleasure, push your clasped hand downward against the base of the penis during climax in a way similar to when a guy tends to push his penis deeper inside the vagina during climax.

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A female reader, WhenCowsAttack United States +, writes (1 August 2014):

Yes. It's normal. I have had many partners in my lifetime and the sensitive head is a constant. It's completely true.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (1 August 2014):

Tisha-1 agony auntJust tell him to let you know when to stop.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (1 August 2014):

Tisha-1 agony aunt1. Reading the resources about your question, it sounds perfectly normal.

2. How to know when to stop? Isn't this obvious? When he asks you to stop. The moment he says "enough" then stop.

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