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Tips for making out and making a guy cum?

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Question - (18 November 2013) 8 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, *inkRosesBloom writes:

I really need tips for how to make a guy cum during a makeout session. Of course we can grind top and bottom, but I'm specifically looking for tips on how to make him cum just using my hands (through his pants), or grinding in different positions...I want to see how much I can tease my bf just using my hands and through his clothes only, I really like to messing with him, lol. But I still want to make him orgasm from it.

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A female reader, PinkRosesBloom United States +, writes (20 November 2013):

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PinkRosesBloom agony auntSoVeryConfused: Maybe some boys would be like that, but my bf and I tease and prank each other all the time, so I know it would never be a big deal to him.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (20 November 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntso you are willing to tease him and piss him off and then go back to your regular routine or has he asked for this "punishment" cause trust me guys would find this sort of teasing as punishment....

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A female reader, PinkRosesBloom United States +, writes (20 November 2013):

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PinkRosesBloom agony auntI appreciate all the answers!

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Cerberus: I meant that I would only be touching him through his clothes, not that he'd literally have to cum into his own clothing. There's other ways to take care of that.

If it truly bothered him that much, then we would just go back to our regular sex life. The whole point of my asking this question IS finding out to mess with my bf, and if that makes things a little messy, then lol, that's the point.

Anonymous: As for blue balls, I think a lot of guys exaggerate that. Even if it were to happen, then we'd either go back to our regular routine, or if I was feeling 'mean' then I'd tell him to go jack himself off and mess with him even more after xD.

SoVeryConfused: I'm not a cock tease. These ideas are for my bf and I only. If he doesn't like being 'teased' then we'll go back to our regular routine.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (20 November 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntSo you want to be known as a cock tease? not a very nice term for a young lady,....

teasing is cruel.... if you are not going to follow through do not give him hope.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2013):

No offence but that's a tab childish. OP he'll mess his pants, it won't be a good orgasm at all it'll just feel like he pissed his pants because it's not skin on skin.

It'll basically kill the mood and he'll have to go off and clean himself up and if he's at your place then that means he'll have to go home.

OP a tease by definition is not bringing him to climax, that's the fun of it. getting to just the point where he wants to rip your clothes off then stopping.

If you think ruining his pants to the point where it may seep through and show is going to be fun for him, then you're not a whole lot of fun yourself to be honest. A tease is one thing but having to go to trouble of showering and changing is not very sexy and he may well just stop letting you do that kind of thing altogether.

Besides he'll most likely just throw you off him before it happens anyway.

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A female reader, PinkRosesBloom United States +, writes (19 November 2013):

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PinkRosesBloom agony auntThose are excellent tips, I can't wait to tease him, thank you!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2013):

Just be aware most of the previous suggestion, without any intention of going further is actually pretty cruel.

Guys like to be teased but only if their is going to be a payoff. You can't dance aaround naked in front of him and then not give him a proper outlet. It can actually be painful for a guy to get all worked up and have no release. It is called blue balls.

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A female reader, shna Ireland +, writes (19 November 2013):

shna agony auntTricky one .... Its not going to work every time !

You can make it work out so this boy has all his clothes on but u are completely naked! main rule being that he is NOT allowed to take his clothes off what so ever

You can always tease him kissing down his body as if your going to

Give him oral but ... nop !!

You can always try not letting him touch you when your naked that will be really frustrating

I cant promise you'll make him come doing these things but you will defiantly tease the hell out of him !!

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