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writes:Insight needed into whether this chic is interested in dating me or just want to hook up for sex. So I'm lesbian, and I think but am not too sure the chic is bisexual. In any event we went out twice before and after that I kind lost touch with her. Now we're starting everything over making plans to go out. Except I just can't figure out what she want at this stage. She's made a few reference to how good I feel in her arms when we hug. We only did it once. But she spoke of how she wanted that again. She speak of us getting together going out. The last time we went out which was our first time that time she started stroking my breast and messaging my nipples. It didn't go further but I thought to myself. ...odd. She haven't said anything about dating and being exclusive or if she is in a relationship. She asked me n I told her I'm single. I didn't ask her. I don't know what to make of her.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 November 2013):
 if she's not bi she's bi-curious... she may find she's not really into girls after all.
she may be looking for some fun and games...the only way to know what she wants other than to be physical with you (that's clear already) is to ask her what her intent is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2013): She touched your breasts and played with your nipples. That indicates she wants sex with you. It doesn't mean she wants a relationship with you.You are asking, because you are attracted to her. Before you get too emotional, I suggest that you continue going out until she's upfront about things, and stops with the teasing.I'm going to warn you. These days, it's hip for chics to makeout with another girl just to experiment. They play these little games; because they are satisfying a curiosity without concern for the possibility they are playing with fire.Stay on the safe-side. Ask her straight-out where she is going with all this. You are not into playing games. You are a confirmed lesbian, not a gay-curious female. Do not express if you have any feelings openly. Just let her know you do like her, but not how much. You have little to go on, but some teasing and a few words. Don't get your hopes up; until she tells you that she wants to "date" regularly. Don't jump the gun by expecting a commitment. That's being needy and desperate.Too many gay people get hurt by people peeking out of the closet. They dump you after your feelings are attached. Then duck back into their closet, and slam the door.Be very weary.
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reader, banditsmom1124 +, writes (18 November 2013):
 you simply need to ask her whats up
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2013): I think this girl is looking for some fun and to experiment and is looking to you for this opportunity?
If shes playing with you like that i guess it could possibly be from
Nerves because it is something new to her.
I doubt she is mabye looking for anything serious which is guna suck if you have feelings for her
Mabye see what happens the next time you both hang out together and if she is hitting on you ask what the story is so you both know where you stand and so most importantly you know what your letting yourself in for !
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