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We broke up, but he's still the one I talk to - will I ever get over him this way?

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Question - (21 July 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2014)
A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hello. I'm a 16 year old girl.

I was in a relationship with this guy but we kind of 'broke up' when I had to move away last year December.

We still kept in touch and all through skyping but then it got lesser until a point when we just messaged each other. And we no longer say any I love you's.

I visited him during April and then again in June. It's always the same cycle where during the first weeks after I leave, he would be constantly messaging me and saying sweet things but then after a while, he somehow stops trying as hard.

Then again, I have to clean up my feelings and feel really bad for a while as I try to sort myself out.

I'm really confused because every time we meet again, it's like nothing had ever changed. I love him, I'm sure of that. But what kind of love it is, I'm not sure. I cherish him and don't want to lose him but I'm wondering if this is the right thing to do.

Every time we talk, it's like we're still dating. I just want to talk to him because he makes me happy, but I don't want to be so emotionally attached to him that way. Because I feel like I would be so lost without him, and if he's busy or not online, I would have a hard time dealing with my own feelings.

I really don't know what to do and I don't have anyone to talk about it to.

It would kill me to not talk to him and I would miss him so much but then again, I wonder if talking to him and not getting over him would cause me more harm in the future.

I'm really confused. Please help me. :(

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