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writes:Hi cupids, i previously wrote a post about being badly treated in the past by men, cheated, used , abused and how its affecting my relationships now.well there is a new guy in my life, or so i thought.My insecurities got in the way and i think i scared him off big time.I thought i blew it big time. but then after a few days of no contact, i sent a message asking how he was and if he was ok. he sent one back within the hour, asking how i was, and i was on his mind.i did reply but since....nothing in about 5 days, again no contact.Do you think hes still mulling it over or is that it? Reply to this Question
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reader, answerfromtheheart +, writes (4 August 2013):
 5 days of no contact that's a bit cold.
I wouldn't hold my hopes too high for him to come back.
Sorry, but there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Make sure you work on your pride and value. Being insecure is very difficult on a relationship because it puts a lot of pressure on the other person. Take this opportunity to work on your self esteem.
Meaning, tell yourself that you are worthy of a great guy, and if this one doesn't see that you are a great girl, it's better that he walked out of your life, rather than staying in your life and hurting you like some other men did in the past.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2013): Sorry, but i need to be super harsh and truthful to my opinion. Based on your story I have a hunch he found someone else.
he is taking you for granted because he found someone else.
so forget him. he ain't worth it.
remember a guy who is into you, will never have the heart to keep you waiting even for a an hour.
Why because he sincerely thinks about you. If he don't which is your case with this guy he has someone else on his mind.
But definitely not you
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