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anonymous
writes:When my boyfriend comes, I always swallow it. Is that bad for me? Is it unhealthy to ingest and can it make me sick? This only happens once or twice a week. Sometimes my stomach feels upset, but I'm not sure if swallowing is really upsetting my stomach or if I am just psyching myself out.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (4 August 2013):
 It's not bad for you, but if it's making you sick, stop doing it. Sex isn't about what you can do for him, it's a two-way street. It needs to be enjoyable for both of you and feeling sick is NOT worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2013): I think its psychological. It made me sick when I was with a guy that I didn't feel completely comfortable with during sex and was pressuring me to do it. Being pressured to do something made me half hearted. But when I am with a guy that I am crazy about, I love it and do it on my own and he has never asked but seeing how much he enjoys it adds to my own enjoyment
The question to you is why do you still do it if it makes you sick? Do you believe sex should be an activity that is mutually enjoyably or enjoyable for only one partner? If a guy pressures you to do it or guilts you into it then that is all the more reason to stop. Sex should be an intimate bonding time, not a time for one partner to be going ewwww whole the other is getting satisfied without care for causing disgust and ruining it tor the other.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (3 August 2013):
 If you do NOT enjoy swallowing, then don't do it.
I'm guessing you becomes queasy out of more of a psychological reason not because it makes you sick.
I suggest you have a tissue/kitchen-towel handy and spit it into that. Swallowing it doesn't MAKE the BJ better -after all he's already "done".
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reader, Got Issues  +, writes (3 August 2013):
 I don't think it will do anything to your stomach as such. I have swallowed all of one time and I had to force myself to do it. I felt sick for ages afterwards because quite frankly it was disgusting to me. I know women and men who genuinely enjoy it but to me the smell, taste, texture and idea of it were enough to really upset my stomach. I don't think I could ever bring myself to attempt it again.
Out of curiosity, is it something you like doing or something your boyfriend likes you to do? You really don't have to do it if it disagrees with you. The list is not that long but none of the guys I've ever been with has objected to what I do, which is to just let it run right back out of the corner of my mouth again. Usually at that point they're not really paying so much attention to exactly where it's going.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (3 August 2013):
 I doubt it's upsetting your stomach, but if it's upsetting you then stop doing it. It's not obligatory x
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (3 August 2013):
 you don't have to swallow,so why do it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2013): Your answer is no. The boy juice is made of water, sugars and proteins and can't make you sick. But the fact that you can't tolerate it in your stomach leads us to the conclusion that you don't like it. So, why do you swallow? Is it something you enjoy? Or are you just trying to please the boy?FYI, girls don't always swallow. Most of them only do it for the special guy in special occasions, not twice every week.And more FYI. Guys enjoy watching the girl swallow for 2 reasons. 1: The guy feels insecure that the girl may not like everything about him. watching the girl swallow assures him that the girl does love everything of him. 2: The guy is the a..hole type and enjoys degrading the girl by making her swallow. You don't want to upset your stomach for such a..holes unless you are submissive. For type 1, it's OK, but only if you like it too.
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reader, Scotlass65 +, writes (3 August 2013):
 No it's not bad for you at all, but don't do it if it makes you feel uncomfortable you don't need to prove anything.
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