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writes:There's this girl that i'm crazy about and i know she is about me too, we've both agreed for now that we cant be together at the moment for lotsa complicated reasons, but now not being with her is just gonna drive me crazy, any advice?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2007): This sounds so like the situation i myself am in. And i know exactly how you are feeling its really frustrating. I don't know why its complicated but if you like each other and your meant to be together then eventually you will be. You can want someone so badly it drives you nuts and you can't stop thinking about them, trust me i know. I tried to get the other person out of my head by trying very hard not to contact them by text or e-mail or even calling him. It was very hard and i lasted about a week. So lately i started writing him one letter a day just writing down what i been up to and everything i would want to say to him but i don't send them. I find it helps try to put that distance between us until thigs seem clearer between us. It sounds strange but it did help me. Its an old cliche but if its meant to be then it will be. But its also hard to live life just waiting. Does this girl know how you feel?
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reader, nologo  +, writes (20 May 2007):
 Both partners are either in a relationship or not.
You say "agreed for now that we cant be together".
As you don't tell what these complicated reasons are, I guess that the actual reason lies someplace else.
In case there is distance between you two, it could be helpful to start a long distance relationship.
But it requires that both partners should have deep emotional involvement with little affection.
My opinion: this girl is not so much in love with you as you believe; talk to her to find it out.
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