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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi. Im really confused about my sexuallity.A few nights ago, I had a few girl friends over. When it was time for them to go, one of them stayed behind. We started cuddling up together. She was stroking her hand up my leg and was so close to stroking something else, but I didn't stop her!I was really turned on. What should I do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): sexuality is fluid, try not to label yourself, it might just be that you where just attracted by the sensation, or your might happen to like the odd girl. enjoy the experiance ancd if you can get a variety of experiances. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2007): It's easy for cuddling to turn into something else, and it's easy to be aroused when someone touches you. First of all, don't panic. Take a deep breath, step back and think about it.
Are you attracted to her, or were you simply aroused in the moment? Bodies react to stimulus.
If you think about it and find yourself wanting to do it again, go for it. You're young and experimenting is perfectly normal.
I find it extraordinary the way that people feel a need to put a label on everything straight away. Coming out and saying "I'm a lesbian" the second you kiss another woman is more political than anything else. Don't be afraid. Love shows itself in many forms and is nothing to be ashamed of.
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