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writes:Yes after my boyfriend of 14 months cheated on me with his ex gf who he has a child with....then she calls him and tells him that she is pregnant and that it might be his...I was enraged to see that he broke our trust...I hated both of them...he has never given me a reason not to trust him..I have struggled everyday...he has begged for forgiveness...I know this woman is not stable..he has told me, plus I did some investigation on my own, and found out that she is a compulsive liar...and has children for the child support has 4 with 4 diff fathers...my bf is the only fool paying child support, don't get me wrong, he is the father so its his obligation to provide for this child...well this female after making us go through hell about this pregnancy, she called on Monday to tell him that she had lost the baby and a d and c was performed...I don't think she was pregant, he thinks this wasn't his child because he wanted a paternity test performed after the baby was born..this woman is a liar and wants to break us up..I would like to talk to her and tell her to keep her place but everyone tells me she is not worth talking too...I know my bf has to put her in check...he says he has learned a tremendous lesson after this fiasco...My dilemma is he has visitation rights for vist the 2 year old. he hardly gets to see him because he works doubles at his job, and she dictates when she can see him, she doesn't want to abide with what the courts have specified, plus the days my bf can't make because he has to work, so he is at her mercy...and she loves this...how can I talk to her...should IJust the thought of him going over there to visit his son gets me sick. I love my bf and his son, its her presence there that worries me...my bf says not to worry...but look what happened!!! what should I do??? i want him to bond with his child...but she makes his life difficult....help!!!!!!
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reader, cd206  +, writes (19 May 2007):
 You shouldn't do anything. It's very noble of you to want to help him and his son and make her realise how much she's hurting everyone involved but this is your boyfriend's problem. It's his child and his battle if he wants to spend time with him. If you say anything the woman will just make it harder for your boyfriend because she resents your intrusion and it'll probably damage your boyfriend's pride. If you want to help just be there for your boyfriend when he needs you with plenty of TLC.
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