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writes:I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time the other day, and I was a bit...loud. Couldn't help it really! Anyway after it was over, all he said was, "Wow...you were quite loud." I always thought that was supposed to be a good thing, but the way he said it made it seem like he didn't enjoy the noises or anything. Should I be quiet during sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, DV1  +, writes (19 May 2007):
 As a guy, part of me would want the girl to be expressive, but there's that saying that "only porn stars are that loud". He might have felt like you've been with more people than you have, and it might have triggered of feeling of inadequecy...DV1
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (19 May 2007):
 Being loud, if it is real, is great. You are enjoying yourself and it is what is coming out naturally. He may have been a bit suprised, but that doesnt mean he thinks it is a bad thing.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (19 May 2007):
 Some guys find loud girls a turn on, others don't. Ask him if the noise bothers him, my guess is that as long as he's getting some he doesn't much care if you whisper or scream but I'm not him. Ask him and if you want to change then change but never feel like you have to change for a guy. Change if YOU want to.
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (19 May 2007):
 NO, loud is good! as long as your not faking it, its letting him know your enjoying it! sex is ment to be pleasurable, why not express it? :P
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