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writes:heyim in high school and one of my best friends since i satrted the school, is a really hot, funny girl. i have asked her out, but she said she didnt like me in that way. but i cant stop thinking about her. being with her etc. i wanna ask her out again but she ent attracted to me. an it wouldnt hurt our friendship in any way.please help man
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reader, kenny +, writes (20 May 2007):
 you are crushing on this girl big time, soon this mad feeling you are having about her will naturally die down, although it does not seem like it now.
You asked her out once so the likellhood of her saying yes as second time is somewhat remote. Why don't you make a friend out of her, chat to her, offer to carry her books ect. Who knows she may one day see you in a different light.
Good luck
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reader, Dawn_14  +, writes (20 May 2007):
 one of my best guy friends asked me out at the beginning of the school year and i told him i just wanted to be friends but ever since i can't stop thinking of him its like i had never thought of him in that way but now that the idea was put into my head it kinda seems like a good idea. now i'm not sure if he likes me anymore because we never talk and i think i like him. she might be like me just flirt with her and if you think her feelings have changed ask her how she feels about you it won't hurt to try, hope this helps
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reader, nologo  +, writes (20 May 2007):
 You tell that she "is a really hot, funny girl".
It helps me to understand your situation a lot.
Well, she is not attracted to you, because she maybe wants someone who is also really hot and funny.
Just now you should agree to stay friends with her, because later even that may be quite difficult.
As you say "i cant stop thinking about her", it means you are not able to let her go - it's a crush.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (20 May 2007):
 You can't make someone your world if they're not ready to be your world. If she doesn't see you in that way, then all you can do is either distance yourself from her, or be the very best friend that you can be.
Cheers,
Dv1
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