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writes:i split with ex 10mths ago and have slept with him twice. I saw him 2nights ago when there was a leaving party. I didn't drink. I spoke to him and said i was sick of the way he treated me. I was better than him and I won't ever let anyone treat me like that again. He kept looking at me all night. At the end, i gave him and 3other a lift home. My ex puked down my car. He then said he loved me when drunk but quickly changed subject. I refused to clean my car. He's doing it on Monday. Can't i get him back?
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reader, luvme247  +, writes (24 February 2007):
 Can you get him back... I guess the question is do you want him back? Are you sick of the way he treated you? Do you want to continue being treated that way? Of cource not, so I'd have to agree with India on this one. Take your car in to get cleaned & have him pay, or if he is set on coming over then bring him out the bucket of rags & have him leave them by the door when he is done. Don't even talk to him. That is my opinion. You set the standards for yourself & don't need to lower them for him. ;) Good Luck to you & you'll find someone else that'll treat u right :)
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (24 February 2007):
 Stick by your guns, girl! You said that you were sick of the way he was treating you, that you were better than him and you won't let anyone treat you the way he did again. Well, girl... DO IT. Don't let him have the privilege of seeing you again. He was drunk, he told he he loved you... well, he was drunk. He was a drunk, pathetic loser who THEN followed up by doing you the favor of puking in your car.
Let him clean your car, tell him you want to have it professionally cleaned, let him foot the bill then never see the scumbag again.
Don't do it, girl... I think you'll regret it. You said it once that you were better than him, don't take yourself back down to his level! Find a guy who will treat you right.
xxIndia
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