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writes:i am currently 12 weeks pregnant i am 19 years old i have known the father for 6 years now of which he is 23 and we have been in a realtionship for the past 4 months, when i found out i was pregnant we were both so excited, my hormones started getting the better of me and i started getting angry i would turn around and shout at my partner for no reason what so ever but he still stood by me now i am feeling better and my mood swings have stopped my partner has turned on me he tells me he wants to split up with me and he needs to talk so il go round to talk and we will get back together then he starts it all over again saying he doesnt want to be with me.He's now at the stage of completely ignoring me he wont answer phone calls or anything, i feel so lost and dont know where i stand with him and it doesnt help that i am having a baby beacuse i really dont want my baby comming into a unstabalised family please can you help because i am in so much need for help. thankyou xxx
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reader, fallenman +, writes (24 February 2007):
 Hi, It is possible that he has been put off by your early emotional responses to your pregnancy. That said, You have my fall agreement that hormones can drive us wild in more ways than one.
Before you get into a full blown panic, may I suggest that you gently remind him that he is your unborn child's father and regardless of how he currently thinks about about the relationship, he has a responsibility under law to support you and your unborn child. Life is not so cheap that he can just walk away because it is not convenient.
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reader, si101 +, writes (24 February 2007):
 having a baby at a young age i could imagine is a scary thing to his point of view he might think that he can't do most of the things that he used to and that this is a BIG responsibility for him just give him time but i can't really say much about the matter except he needs to come to terms that he has a son/daughter hope this has been of help and congratulation's mum :-)
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