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*eanneboyer
writes:I'm 16 and want to move out with my boyfriend he has his own place, but my mum wont let me move out. If i go is there anything legal she can do about it if i just go? I really don't no what to do. Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (25 February 2007):
please re think what your doing. so you love him and want to move in, moving in will hurt and upset your mom and damage the relationship you have with her. so when you brake up with this presumably older guy and have to move out with no money, where do you go?.. your mom has your best interests at heart, she wants to kno ur safe and make sure you go to school. two years isnt a long time to wait to move out, focus on school, love your mom and stop trying to grow up faster than you should
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2007): ur 16 and im sorry to say it but i dont think u know what ur doing. why would u want to rush into things right now.u will regret it if u do. ur not ready for a relationship and love at 16. sure u may think ur in love but who doesnt when at 16. ur missing out on a wonderful life right now of having fun with girlfriends and just hanging out. i dont mean to sound so negative, but it may not work out and then what are u going to do? try and date for a few years before u make such a big decision like this
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reader, leanneboyer +, writes (24 February 2007):
leanneboyer is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok thank you! but i know tis sounds silly but i was watching the bill and there was a situation where this 16 year old girl had moved out with her older boyfriend and something happend and her dad wanted her home but the police couldnt do anything to get her home legaly? im confused? please help
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reader, cd206 +, writes (24 February 2007):
 Unfortunately yes. You can only live alone before 18 with your parent's permission. I know it probably doesn't seem like it but I bet your mum is only doing this because she cares about you so try and cut her some slack and compromise. Tell her she's right (she'll like this) but maybe you could sleep there a couple of nights a week. It's not long til you're 18 so hang in there.
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