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writes: I don't understand what happened, but he seemed like he liked me lots and l liked him. We were together almost a month. Then he went away for a weekend came back and it was all weird, he said he was really busy working etc and we couldn't get together. So I don't know if he met someone or what but how do you go from being really into someone and 5 days later not? We haven't discussed it, from what he said to a friend he felt like we were rushing, and I was getting too attached and that kinda scared him and he didn't know if it was gonna work. So I'm more or less letting him call the shots and leaving him pretty much alone. I just want to get revenge in some way. Not mean or anything, but how can I make myself look so good that he'll regret acting like he is? Especially if its cuz he got interested in someone else, I want to really stand out as better and make him wish things were like before. Any ideas?
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reader, anon2907  +, writes (31 July 2006):
 Blimey, I know *exactly* how you feel!
Been there, done that, got the t-shirt (still wearing it occasionally....)
These guys are right, do as much for yourself as you can, look great, act great. Don't keep calling or SMS'ing cos it don't look good. If you see him, act nice, pleased, but with a smidgeon of nonchalance - you know, busy busy, seeing people, having fun, that sort of thing.
Then he'll see what he's missing and call you if he wants to meet up. And if he doesn't you'll still be looking great and no doubt attracting a load of admirers in the meantime!
(Hey, I should take my own advice!)
Good Luck!! Let us know how it goes!
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reader, Apple +, writes (30 July 2006):
Keep your pride. He isnt worth it, if he cant see how amazing you are now then no game will bring him to you. It is best to do as you are doing and leave him be. If he wants you he will come running! In the mean time be fabulos and have fun, its his loss if he is missing it!
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (30 July 2006):
 Well this happened to me a couple of years ago, I felt horrible about the situation, I was analysing the situation for ages thinking it was my fault and kept on phoning and sending sms to him. It was a loss of time, if the guy doesn't want to commit he is not worthy unless you want him only for go, if this is not the case let him get away and try to move on. If he is unable to love you as you deserve and takes profit of your interest on him to hurt your feelings and takes you for granted then he is not the ideal man for you, maybe he is giving you the chance of your life to get a really good relationship with somebody who loves you and cares enough...believe me the best revenge is to take time for yourself, to look like a princess, go shopping, travel and of course flirt... appreciate all good things you already have then you can date him to show off about how wonderful you feel, and the best is you will; maKe him feel like an idiot for thinking you couldn't do without him!!!
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Astrid
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