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writes: I hav been seeing a guy for 4 weekends now and at the start he persued to be with me.There was an attraction there for many months before we eventually got together.He said at the beginning that he didnt want a relationship.The second week he was looking for me again and i was with him for the second time.After that night we exchanged numbers and stayed in touch all week.It was great,he was just as keen as me and said the loveliest things.This happaned again a third week running and again we had a great time together.However at the weekend he looked for me again and we went back to his again.I think i have made a big mistake because i have told him i have feelings for him which has caused him to back off from me.He has said that it doesnt think it will work anymore because of how i feel.I feel so hurt as i really like himI know he has had a horrible past with women and is terrified to commit.What should or can i do.Karen x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2006): Have you had sex with him? If you have, sorry to say that may be all he really wanted.
If you have not had sex, well, best thing is to just leave it alone. He has told you he doesn't want a relationship, and the fact that you revealed you have feelings for him - which, after only four weekends, is much too soon anyway - has distanced him even more.
Nothing you can do now except let it go, allow yourself to heal, learn from it and chalk it up to experience.....
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