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writes: hello all new to this, so ill majke it quick!a few months ago my best friend was in a relationship with a girl which ended peacfully. a few weeks after this i ran into his ex at the petrol station and we arranged to go out for a drink to catch up. since then however we have been seeing each other almost everyday, this is coming on to around 4 months now.i never had feelings for her, that i knew about anyway, but then 1 night after we had been out, she was drinking i was driving she propositioned me and we ended up back at mine.due to the fact that she was drunk i never really said anything about it for fear of embarrasing her, but it has since happened again, when we were both drunk.she asked me the next day if it meant anything to her and i told her it did. and she said she would talk about it with me. this has not happened and it was a couple of months ago now.recently i cant stop thinking about her i want to tell her so much but i dont want to lose what we have now. she is a good friend, and i feel that we have gone too far as friends for anything to happen?should i tell her or keep it to myself, i really do not like rejection.some one please help
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reader, anon2907  +, writes (31 July 2006):
 hey,
You don't say too much about what she's doing in the meantime for me to get a feel of what her take on the situation is, but.......
I think if she genuinely wanted to be with you, then she would have already discussed it with you. You said this happened twice, she asked how you felt, you said it was important, she said she would discuss, but hasn't and then nothing has happened since. Is that right?? If yes, then I think maybe she's not really interested in you long term, maybe as a fling only - which isn't very considerate if she hasn't discussed it with you beforehand.
Tell me more about her actions and behaviours since and we can get a better idea.
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reader, kaiser +, writes (31 July 2006):
kaiser is verified as being by the original poster of the questionby the way, i am 24 year old male and she is 19 year old female
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