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writes: Hi guys, I need help with this one. I'm 14 years old and last year I saw this guy who was in sixth form. The big problem is, is that I love him and I think he loves me too, but we have never spoken! I know it must sound stupid that I love him because I have never spoken to him, but there is just something about him that draws me to him. I have seen him smiling and staring at me on a couple of occasions. He's left the school now and I don't even know where he lives and I am still trying to find him. Do you think I am wasting my time? Plz reply back to this bacause this 'mysterious' boy is ruling my life as I can't stop thinking about him. Plz help! thanksxxxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for all your help, all of your answers have helped me to figure out how i am going to go about this situation. thnx alotxx
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reader, doublethink +, writes (31 July 2006):
 Sorry to burst your bubble but I don't think you can be in love with someone you've never spoken to. You don't know him well enough. Ok, so you can know ABOUT him, from observation, gossip, mutual friends etc, but that's it! You have to get to know him, or else what's to love?Sounds like you've got a huge crush on him. Sounds like he might fancy you. Unless you can actually meet and get to know him, though, don't let yourself get carried away. Find him if you must - does anyone still at school know him, his family, his neighbours etc? - but don't get too hung up on it - it may never happen.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (30 July 2006):
 Well I think that you shouldn't worry that much, It happens to everyboody, it happened to me when I was 17, I was the whole summer staring at an idiot that used to stare at me, I even thought he could understand what I was thinking... It is cool to imagine a person is perfect and that stares at you because he cares and is shy but reality is that he was flirting a bit to get his ego grow, I decided myself to meet this guy and seriosly he was an idiot unable to talk properly, I was really down on having wating so much time thinking of such an idiot. He soon got off with a girl who had slept around with all his blokes, seriousLY platonic love is fun but reality is different, 2 happens is all for the best years ago his aunt told he had got married and that his litte cousin who looked so lovely by his side when I liked him had tried cocaine because of his nephews and maybe him, I'm 29 now, it is good to let imagination go and imagine ideal love but what really minds is you're ok and don't worry if he's the one he'll turn up again
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