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writes: I met this girl at the gym who I liked the look of. She was on her own and I went over to her, havign seen her there a few times before. We got talking and seemed to get on really well, and considering it was the first time I'd spoken to her, we spoke for ages! She was happy to talk and in the end I said that I had to be off and maybe I'd see her again there. I walked off then I realised she was walking with me, out to the car park where her mum picked her up. The next week I saw her there again, and again we spoke, this time she was with her mum, and I spoke to the both of them. Since then, I have seen them around, maybe in the car, or in the shopping centre and random places and its always good, we talk so much, make each other laugh, have a lot in common. I also went round to her house to take her a card and everything seemed fine. Well then I gave her my number and asked her to text me, even if it was just a blank text so I would have her number as I didn';t feel it was the right time (or was I just nervous) to ask her out directly. She didn't txt though. Next time I saw her she was all chatty and like "sorry, I didn't txt you, etc", and she said she would. But still nothing. Then I saw her again at the gym and she came over to me and spoke to me for ages. It seems to be her approaching me all the time and she (and her family) is so friendly. I have never seen her with a phone, nor have I seen her socialise with anyone else. I think she may be a bit of a loner and wondered, maybe to some people, texting is not such a big thing? Maybe I should go to her house again if I don't see her at the gym? If she wasn't interested or was just been polite, why would she make an effort to always come over to me and talk to me for so long? Basically what I want is opinions on how important you think texting someone is, or is it not really any big deal *confused* (we're both 20 by the way and she comes over as shy:)
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reader, Tray-c +, writes (31 July 2006):
 Just ask her out man I bet she says yes. The whole thing with texting could be a load of things, she might not feel ready to give you her number, she may of forgot, as you said maybe too shy and maybe she doesn't even have a freaking phone. So the next time you see at the gym ask does she want to chat longer and maybe go for a drink after the workout, if she can't suggest another day. Don't look into the whole texting thing too much, good luck man!!
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