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writes: I'm 20 and having a sexual relationship with a 51 year old man. He is very attractive and fit for his age and treats me with respect. We've not told any one because of the age gap, i like him but i know we have no future. I've also stopped looking at other men. Its new year and he's not coming to our party. Is this a chance for new start? i don't know what i should do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): hi, i have the same problem as you. I am 17 and my boyfriend is 59. it would be nice to talk to someone who is in a similar situation. if you agree send me your email.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2007): This seems like a huge age gap to me being that men usually die at a younger age than women, and if you are serious about finding a life partner and you have stopped looking at other men due to your sexual bond with this man who is old enough to be your older uncle, then I think realistically you know what is best for you.
Are you sure this man is not taking advantage of you, he is not being a great boyfriemd if he is not telling anyone about you or attending your social and or family functions.
I know what I would do, but the decision is yours to make.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2007): it is a chance for something different just think when he is 60 and nearly retiring u will be in your prime and still wanting to enjoy life .u should find someone closer your age 31 years older is a huge gap it may seem ok now but a few years it could become problematic when u want to go out he might not want u to etc .just think long and hard
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