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writes: I was in a relationship for about a year. It was obvious to me and to everyone around me that he was deeply in love with me. I don't know what happenned, but one day he broke up with me using stupid excuses. He's abroad now and we're still in touch by emails based on his and my request!! I am still in love with him and I can't engage myself in a new relationship. When we talk, he is sweet as long as we don't talk about the problem... And he always seem to runaway from telling me why he broke up with me. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2006): He is abroad, for how long? He may never tell you why, a lot of guys just won't talk about it, but my guess is he either met someone else or because he knew he was moving away, he thought it would be easier for him to break it off so that you both could be free to date others.
He is not at the point in his life where he wants to marry, not just you, anyone and he probably just wants to be free, you are both pretty young.
I think you should try letting him go for now so that you can get over him and feel like dating other men....you never know, he may be back in your life sometime down the road, and if not, you won't have wasted your emotional energy trying to figure him out....sometimes there is no good answer, it is just about timing, it happens to all of us, dear.
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