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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I help my boyfriend adjust to his parents' separation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7113 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, My boyfriends mother has decided that she can't live with his Dad anymore and is moving out. This isn't really shock news because they have been fighting for months. However, my boyfriend (16) is feeling unsuprisingly rotten - not helped by the fact that... (278 words)

My new bf keeps warning me not too get too involved... but we have an amazing connection!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7113 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - I am wondering if I am worrying for nothing - just be relationship phobic. New guy I am dating. He has been hurt a lot and is going thru a divorce. Claims he has no past relationships that he has maintained a friendship afterwards. Keeps warning me not to get involved with ... (148 words)

This guy doesn't want a relationship, but I'd still like to ask him out. How do I do that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - I need advice/help on what to do. I probably sound stupid but I think that I am in love with a guy who has said that he doesn't want a relationship right now. We also haven't talked in two or three months. I can't seem to get over him and I am to shy to call and talk to him. I... (105 words)

Work demands are keeping his too busy to see me, but somehow he has time for fun with his mates...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - dear cupid I have been in a relationship with a lovely guy for the last year. Things have always been good between us, he has a very demanding work load which has seemed to double over the last few weeks. We dont live together, but manage to see each other between his shif... (386 words)

I know my friends will tease me about this guy I fancy. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7105 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - I am a tomboy and I fancy this boy and am gonna go out with him but the only trouble is that my friends will all make fun of me and always say "aaaarrrrr" and stuff! And say "Marnie's getting girlie" (thats me). They will also all want to meet him and he is quite ugly - no off... (115 words)

My partner and I hit a brick wall every time we try to discuss our future. He just isn't ready for marriage.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7114 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years we have lived together for 4. We love each other very much but everytime we talk about marriage we hit a brick wall. He says he loves me and wants to be with me but tells me he just isn't ready. I'm happy to take things slowly a... (216 words)

I'm trying to be sensible about my summer-camp guy... but could it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7114 days ago

30 June 2005 (?) - ok so here is my thing. Summer loves...Im sure you have heard a lot about them. Well I went to a camp for a week right? And I met this awesome guy. I can be myself around him, and do whatever, and he still looks at me the same. I looked really gross most the time, because ... (334 words)

For 3 months he was the most considerate guy ever. Then he just disappeared and won't return my calls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7108 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - For three blissful months I have been really happy with my new boyfriend. He seemed to be absolutely perfect- he texts me several times a day, rang me often, gave me lifts to and from work. We saw each other most days and he was always saying he wanted a future with me. I ... (331 words)

Why would I call my girlfriend by her sister's name? I have no interest in her sister!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7114 days ago

30 June 2005 (M) - Hello there. I have a problem, I am deeply in love with my girlfriend but, in the last three weeks, she says that before I fall asleep or when I am really tired I have called her by her sisters name. I really don't recall saying it, but she is quite adamant that I did. I ... (185 words)

How do I stop worrying & being resentful...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7109 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - How can I stop feeling so resentful towards my boyfriends ex-partners?... (11 words)

Six months into our marriage I discovered she's exchanging nude photos with other guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7111 days ago

30 June 2005 (?) - I married my wife last Dec. A few weeks ago I saw her email and discovered she having affair with some guys from the internet and had sex with them few days before our wedding and I also discovered she loves meeting guys from the internet and even exchange nude pictures with ... (147 words)

It's a new relationship and I don't have much experience. I just don't know where to start!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7114 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - I was in a 6 and a half year relationship, I am 24yrs old, female, and only ever slept with my ex. I have some one new in my life, we don't want nothing serious, just some fun. Problem is I don't know where to start. I am absolutely terrified. Please help... (52 words)

His ex girlfriend had a miscarriage and he wants to help her through it, but I might be pregnant too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7114 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - Okay Cupid, I have one for you. I have been dating this guy for almost two months that I met in my Orchestra last semester. We connected right off the bat, my only concern at the time is that he had broken up with his ex-girlfriend two months prior. This would not be a big ... (364 words)

I was sexually inexperienced when we met, but it seems he's had more than his share of women...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7114 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - After a heart to heart with my boyfriend the other day he has confessed to me that he has slept with between 20-50 women, some while he has been in a relationship with other people. I was quite inexperienced when I met him, and am very insecure. Does his past have any bearing ... (58 words)

My boyfriend says he "loves" me, but he's not "in love with" me!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 10 months. Two and half of these months has been long distance. Were about 5 hours apart. It has been hard but I believe in him so much and love him so much that I'm willing to do this long distance thing. I've known for almost o... (252 words)

Things are great when we're together, but I'm always the one that initiates everything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7114 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, ****Should I stay or should I go?**** I have had so much trouble with boys, they're just better off being my friends. I finally met a guy that made me feel differently about having a boyfriend. Now that we are a couple, I feel awkward. I know I'm crazy about him... (156 words)

She and I own a home together, but sometimes I wonder whether that's all we have...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7114 days ago

30 June 2005 (M) - I am currently dating a woman who is divorced and I am as well. We met almost 5 yrs ago and have made and implemented many plans. We purchased a home together, and jointly made a huge financial commitment, which at this point I do not live in with her and her son in this ... (140 words)

We have a real chemistry, but he also has issues with alcohol... Do I try to help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7114 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - I met a man over the internet and we had an instant chemistry from the start. We decided to meet and the meeting was incredible! True chemistry. Soulmates for sure. Problem is this. There is quite a distance of states between us and he has a child. I have also learned ... (118 words)

He's with another woman, he's violent, he's given me sexually-transmitted diseases, and he's bi... but I just can't leave him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7114 days ago

29 June 2005 (F) - I have been with this man now for 8 months on and off. I love him I really do, but the problem is him. He is married with a baby mother and bisexual. He claims that he doesnt have sex with his babymother, yet he is by her house everyday. Don't get me wrong, I dont have a p... (290 words)

Ever since we kissed, I can't think of anything else but him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7114 days ago

29 June 2005 (F) - Last week I kissed this lad who I have always liked but didnt think he liked me in that way. Ever since that kiss all I can think about is him. Does this mean I'm in love with him? ... (43 words)

We're having sex and he doesn't want a "relationship", but I'm in love with him...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

29 June 2005 (F) - I'm a 19 year old girl and have been sleeping with this guy for nearly a year and half. My feelings are growing stronger for him but he doesn't want a relationship. I recently sent him a text telling him what I really for him but he didnt reply. I've seen him since but I'm ... (91 words)

I'm married... he's married, but he said he was "madly in love" with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7114 days ago

29 June 2005 (F) - I have been seeing a married man for about 7 years. It all started as a bit of fun with a sneaky cuddle here and there and a few trips to the cinema. In the last year I myself have married my partner of 10 years and had 2 children. Just lately things have changed between ... (193 words)

My sister disdains her own adult daughter, and Sis's problems are causing difficulties for everyone in the family!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - My older sister is 53 yrs old. She's a bright, intelligent woman with much in her life to be thankful for. Since we were kids, she has struggled with low self-esteem and weight problems. She married at 19 to an alcoholic had one daughter, divorced him when her daughter... (560 words)

Both of us are disappointed that I can't seem to orgasm during sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7084 days ago

29 June 2005 (F) - I've been with my bf for over 2 years now and I have never orgasmed during sex. He has given me orgasms in other ways and he knows what I like. I do enjoy the sex, well especially at the beginning, but sometimes after a while I just think "just get it over with". It's g... (82 words)

I think my boyfriend might be (or might become) an abuser...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7115 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - Question for Bev You responded to the question "What are the trouble signs of a potential abuser" I am in this situation. My boyfriend has many signs, and the sad thing is, that he believes this is perfectly normal for a man to be. He is very insecure, with our ... (231 words)

My gf says she feels "claustrophobic" and that I'm around too much...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7114 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years, and living together for the last 5. When we first started going out with each other, she didn’t know anyone in the area as she had moved here as a student, so I tried to spend as much time with her as possible. In the last year sh... (137 words)

I feel for an older guy, then we broke up. Now I'm with someone else and my feelings for my ex are back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7111 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - I met "Chris" when I was 17-he was 42. Everyone thought I was crazy but we had such a great relationship and are still very close. We split up 2 years ago then I met my current boyfriend "Dom" whom I have a great relationship with. But, I visited Chris recently and have fal... (80 words)

For no reason I can tell, he just broke it off and says he wants to be friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7114 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm so sad and depressed at the moment because I was with my boy for months and I fell totally in love with him, but then he called me for no reason and said he just wanted to be friends. I can't stop crying and I see him everyday still, and we flirt. The other day he w... (120 words)

He's 48, but he says he'll wait two more years, until I turn 18...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7113 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - hi...I'm a 15 year old girl who has really strong feelings for a 48 year old man, and I know that he feels the same, as we text and talk to each other every night. He's told me he loves me and I know that I love him. He's told me that if we want to get together, he's willing ... (126 words)

Was my boyfriend just tired, like he says... or was he trying to get rid of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7114 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - Dear agony aunt, Am I just being paranoid or is there some truth in what I'm feeling? Is he cheating on me? i I've been with me boyfriend for five months and everything was going really well up until a couple of weeks ago when he started to get distant with me. When I question... (206 words)

The talk about us getting married has dried up, but that's all I've ever wanted!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7114 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years, we get on well. Up until now, I have always assumed we will get married as he talks about it a lot and it is always him that brings up the subject. However, the other day, while having a generalised chat, he claims he will nev... (139 words)

My husband masturbates and he thinks it's perfectly normal...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - Is it normal for a happily married man to masturbate? My husband recently admitted that he still masturbates and thinks this is perfectly normal behaviour we have a good sex life, is it normal for happily married men to masturbate? ... (41 words)

I feel sexually unequal to my girlfriend, ever since I found out that she's slept with a lot of men...

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - Hi this may seem strange. My girlfriend recently revealed to me that she has been with a large number of men and has had a large number of one night stands (between 20 and 30 of them - I didn't pry for too much info). I am having a truly hard time dealing with this. It's not... (234 words)

Is it the distance between us that's causing the rift, or is it something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7115 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - I have a long distance relationship that has been going on for 3 years and 2 months to date but lately it has been going up and down between us. We hardly see each other due to the fact that we are so far apart but take full advantage when opportunity knocks. Lately we've be... (143 words)

When we went to the club, everything went great! Now I text her and get no reply...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7115 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - I’ve come out a long-term relationship about two months ago, since then ive had a fantastic social life. My female friend that ive known for ages (who i dont hang around with) said if I ever wanted to go for a drink with her and a few mates we could. so I took her up on the ... (431 words)

My boyfriend just isn't ready to come out yet. When we're in public it's like I don't exist!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7116 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - I met a man two months ago. He told me he wasn't "out" yet but was ready to come out soon, so we saw more of each other and a relationship soon started. I then learned that he isn't ready to come out. I know it must be hard for him coming out but when we go out clubbing... (195 words)

I thought we were happy, but my boyfriend has been spending hundreds of pounds calling and texting another woman...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7115 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I thought we were really happy, but last night when I was trying to read a message from a friend on his mobile I pressed the wrong button and he had naked pictures messages from another girl. I looked at his mobile phone b... (158 words)

I texted him and asked if he'd be my boyfriend... but I haven't heard anything in 2 weeks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7113 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - hello there I am 13 and I really like this guy who is 14. I recently asked him to be my boyfriend in a text message but he hasnt answered yet and it has been 2 weeks! Do you think he is too embarrassed to text me back or why hasn't he answered? He doesnt go to my school eit... (177 words)

What are the trouble signs of a potential abuser?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7115 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - Question for Bev: I have been checking out your advice on this site. It seems like you know all the red flags in relationships that could mean your guy is an abuser or a potential abuser. What I want to know is this: Do THEY know? When you say that they first isolate the vict... (200 words)

Will my fiance's anger issues fade when he can get back to work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7116 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - I am thirty-five, divorced, and I have three children and own my own home. I have a problem with my fiance. We have been engaged just over two years. Just after we got engaged, he moved into my house. He was then in a serious accident and was temporarily disabled. Things... (369 words)

If he thinks I'm so hot, why won't he dump his girlfriend for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - Hi, Here's my problem, this guy I have known for about 4 years always flirts around me. He tells me I'm special, sexy, high up in his books and would make a great gf. He has even said he loves me but he has a gf. He has had this gf for the whole time I have known him so why w... (67 words)

Will my new guy's little daughter accept me if I date her daddy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7116 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - I really like this guy and he likes me. We dont live that far away but he has a 3 year old daughter. I cant decide if I get this this guy that I will be accepted. I have always wanted a baby but this wont be mine and she may find it hard for a new women in her daddy's life.... (62 words)

My new wife constantly needs validation of her appearance, and somehow that's my fault!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7116 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - I can’t win, ever! My new wife (age 27) of three weeks… yippee!!! …. and I (age 36) am struggling through an old issue that I thought might be partially resolved through our committing our lives to each other. She has admitted that she has always dealt with low self-esteem ... (940 words)

Falling for my boyfriend's best friend. Help!

This question has 158 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriends for a couple of years now but I have fallen in love with somebody else: his best friend! What do I do? I love his friend but do not think he loves me. Do I just stay with my boyfriend and hope that it is just a passing stage or do I talk to the f... (65 words)

We can't agree... I want a house, THEN a baby. He wants the baby first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7115 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - This is a toughie. I've been with my guy for 7 1/2 years. We were engaged about 4 years ago...broke it off and got back together. We have lived together for a year now, back at each other's parents, but now looking at houses together. I've always wanted children and unti... (191 words)

Am I wrong to be upset because my boyfriend takes me for granted?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - I'm having some problem with my boyfriend. I think he is taking me for granted and has no respect for me. For example, he plans to do something with me then he changes his mind for his friends. Obviously I go mad. Is this right and am I wrong here?... (52 words)

Why did my guy get so distant, so suddenly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - When a man pulls away from you emotionally...what is going on? I was dating a man for a long time. We had a nice relationship but then he suddenly would get cold and distant with me for no reason. It was usually after his ex-girlfriend with whom he had a very unhappy ... (130 words)

Neither of us wants to leave, even though I think our relationship is reaching its end...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7112 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now but it has begun to feel like this relationship has reached its end but, neither of us want to leave or so I believe. Am I staying for the wrong reason when I just don't want to leave her and be by myself?... (55 words)

I don't feel like I can talk to anyone about my problems and my depression...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - I am 16 and suffer from depression. I have attempted suicide twice. I cannot talk to my parents or friends about my problems. I can only speak to my girlfriend who is also my best friend. We have been together 7 months and I love her but she has just told me that she may be ... (88 words)

I'm pregnant, working 50 hours and week and exhausted., but my husband says I should "get over it"!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - Help! I just got married .. I mean like three weeks ago .. and I am already ready to leave. My husband is so much different than who I thought I married. I feel like I am raising a second child. I am now pregnant and have one infant and feel like I am going to die of ... (330 words)