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writes: hello thereI am 13 and I really like this guy who is 14. I recently asked him to be my boyfriend in a text message but he hasnt answered yet and it has been 2 weeks! Do you think he is too embarrassed to text me back or why hasn't he answered? He doesnt go to my school either. I met him at the park and I always see him there but he hasnt been there for ages.He might not want to be my boyfriend but he could have replied. Do you think he might not want to be cos of the age gap? It's only one year, that's not much, is it? I just don't know. and I know he did get the text message cos one of his friends told my friend, but there's know point asking him cos he never talks to me and I dont see him ever.I just want to know what to do! please help me.byedeppressed kid
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reader, curlygurly +, writes (1 July 2005):
Maybe asking him out by text wasn't the best of ways to ask him out...if you did it to his face he would have to give you a straight answer and ignore you for the rest of his life!
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reader, QueenKatofTypos +, writes (29 June 2005):
Next time, ask face to face, don't text. You can't show any emotion in text messages, not to mention your message may not arrive (I've sent more than one text out and had someone not receive them). And as you can see, it leaves you going nuts over his response, or lack of.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (29 June 2005):
I think he might be embarrassed, I used to get embarrassed at that age when people asked me out. On the other hand he might not fancy you which is hard but it also gives you the opportunity to meet someone much nicer who DOES want to go out with you! good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2005): Maybe he already has a gf and doesn't want to hurt you. Maybe he thought it was a joke and you were winding him up. Or maybe he is just embarrassed as he has never had a gf..There are lots or reasons. Just play it cool and give him space.
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reader, thats1foru +, writes (28 June 2005):
I think that it time for you to move on and don't waste you time waiting on someone! If he wanted to be your boyfriend trust me he would have called you by now.
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