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writes: I need advice/help on what to do. I probably sound stupid but I think that I am in love with a guy who has said that he doesn't want a relationship right now. We also haven't talked in two or three months. I can't seem to get over him and I am to shy to call and talk to him. I know he likes comic book stuff and I like them too and I would like to ask him to go and see the Fantastic Four movie in July but I dont know how to go about asking. Any advice would be great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008): hey girlfriend, i've got a guy like yours. he has no idea that i even care half as much as i do for him. they never do. just be cool, be his sexy friend, dont some on to him bt let him know your there. just say hey so i wanted to see this movie blank but i wanted to see it with you. dont be afarid to be bold, confident, yourself. if he doesnt like you for who you are fuck the bastard. and not only that, then its gonna be that he wants to be friens, your cool, sexy, smart, funny, everything he would want in a girlfriend IF he wanted a relationship. its fucking bullshit. good luck, we all need it.
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reader, Blunt +, writes (1 July 2005):
Just do it. You are not asking him to marry you or anything. It is just a movie.
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reader, Joe Mamma +, writes (1 July 2005):
I say 'lost' is right to tell you to invite him and some other friends. That way, you can all have a good time and you can maybe get a reading on whether he's interested in you. If he doesn't want a relationship, though, don't push for one. Give him time and be his friend. You share a common interest, so it makes perfect sense for you two to hang out together. It could blossom into a romance a little later, when he's ready. Who knows, by then you may have met an even greater guy! The possibilities are endless!
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reader, lost_lover05 +, writes (1 July 2005):
Well I know exactly where you're coming from. Don't worry; you're not stupid. But if you really believe you're in love with him, I say call him. If he doesn't want a relationship right now, try talking to him first. Maybe he will change his mind and want to date you after a while. Ask him if he would like to go see a movie, and if you're too shy to tell him how you really feel, invite some friends to come along so it doesn't make it a "date".(but spend time with him. If you want him to know how you feel try talking to him as friends first and then when the time is right tell him your true feelings. Hope I was some sort of help and good luck!
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reader, becky05 +, writes (30 June 2005):
if you havent talked in 4 months i would try to forget about him, chances are hes not as good as your memories of him may seem. If you are determined to ask him out just give him a phone call, have a chat then ask him. The worst he can say is no.
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