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writes: Last week I kissed this lad who I have always liked but didnt think he liked me in that way. Ever since that kiss all I can think about is him. Does this mean I'm in love with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, becky05 +, writes (30 June 2005):
You cant fall in love after one kiss. How much do you really know about this boy? It's when you know all someone's personal quirks both good and bad that you grow to love them. You are infatuated!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (30 June 2005):
 One kiss doesn't necessarily mean love and you could just simply be infatuated with him. Only time will tell.
Under normal circumstances, love takes time to develop. It comes through getting to know and understand the other person and loving who they are. Then you feel as if you want to be with them all the time and your mind may well be constantly on them. Love is a very difficult concept to describe and can often get mixed up with other things.
Give it time, see how he feels and take it from there.
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reader, lucy +, writes (30 June 2005):
It doesn't mean that you are necesserily in love with him, but for sure you like him a lot! It's a lovely feeling to kiss a guy who you have liked for a long time, as you no know that he feels the same way! Take it slowly and see what happens. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2005): It depends on you, really. If you have liked him for a long time, you may just have the "I am with him finally" feelings going on. Give it time, that is the only way to know for sure. Sometimes finally getting what you have desired for a long time makes you in love with the feeling, not the "lad". Good luck in whatever happens, just make sure that the feeling is mutual before you invest too much of your heart into it.
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