Do I just completely remove myself from her life?
Q. Hey there...so this is a follow up to this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/parents-slip-us-up-when-they-smelled-weed.html I suggest reading that to get the full story. I felt it was alright to make a new Question as it i...
A. 14 January 2011: The best you can do is to leave her alone.Focus on yourself. Find your hapiness elsewhere. Goodluck... (read in full...)
My pregnant friend is getting an abortion and I'm the only one who knows!
Q. my best friend, who im in love with, told me today she thought she was pregnant. When i asked who it was she told it was one of my best friends who knows i love her. she really dosent want a baby because it was a mistake and dosent want her parents ...
A. 13 January 2011: There could be real death in abortion,though are rare. If she doesnt make it,and dies are you going to live with 'this secret and concice' for the rest of your life.convince her to tel her mom ... (read in full...)
Older boyfriend is not interested in sex...what could be the problem?
Q. my boyfriend is older than me by 15 years. when we first got together he took me places,ate out,he would do anything for me. now everything i do annoys him, he gets mad when i am sick,he won't touch me,kiss me,no sex. i can't bring the subject up ...
A. 13 January 2011: Ageing.deppresion.medical issues.psychological? Hes your boyfriend, break up with him.you cant stay with someone who hardly talk to you... (read in full...)
He tells me that he doesn't know what to do because he wants his kids and also wants me. What do I do?
Q. Well here's my crazy story......when I met my husband we had a great relationship he was totally honest with me or atleast I thought he was being honest with me he told ne he had a son and that him and his sons mother had a mutual understanding that ...
A. 13 January 2011: I've been inthe same situation myself, but we were not married: just the baby momma drama(if they cant be together,he wont see his son!) i couldnt sleep with someone whose sleeping with someone else,knowingly. I ended things with him when i found ... (read in full...)
Did she cheat? With son in mind which option will be better for my new family?
Q. Ok this question is going to be lengthy but its important that i get the details out.Please give me your thoughts. A year and a half ago I started seeing my gf.(Jul 31) Right at the end of our summers, I was going into my junior year of college,...
A. 12 January 2011: Its in the past.it doesnt matter now.dont ruin the good thing that is so dear to you by wanting to dig 'the ugly past'...take her word and trust her.dont look back!... (read in full...)
She cheated and I forgave her. Now she's doing it again. How do I deal with it?
Q. Hello, a year ago my gfriend cheated on me. We broke up for a short period then I forgave her. A year later, now, I discover she is still chatting online with the guy she cheated with. Frankly I want to dump her. It took me some stomach to take her...
A. 12 January 2011: Maybe she thinks you not good enough for her but to me shes like a serial cheater.leave her,she doesnt deserve you.good luck... (read in full...)
I never imagined my affair would leave his wife!
Q. I met this man whilst he was away for 5 months on work and we were instantly drawn to each other without really speaking. When we did talk it turned out he was married with kids, although my moral stance as always been very strong on this sort of ...
A. 12 January 2011: Husband snatcher. Home wrecker. How do you sleep at night.huh?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to be a father figure for this other girl's child!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for five years and weve hit some rough spots every now and then. 2 years into our relationship he cheated on me with this girl he worked with. we ended up working through it and stayed together and since then he has ...
A. 12 January 2011: End it and go find your happiness.this guy is just stringing you along.sooner or later he'l tel you they are movinm in together(him,baby momma and of course the baby)so that he could be 'there to help with the baby' full time.i say move on!... (read in full...)
Could this be a yeast infection or is it an STI/STD Title
Q. ok so.... saturday 8th january i had unprotected sex with a guy while i was drunk. It's the first time i've gone back to a guys house after meeting them that night. and ive only slept with 4 people. The thing is i now have an itching / slightly...
A. 10 January 2011: Bad odour? STI. Itchy? Infection. See your GP,get tested ant get treated.regards! ... (read in full...)
A bump inside my breast! Is this normal?
Q. Dear Cupid, Im a 16 yr old normal teen. I've recently started feeling my breast and noticed there was like a bump inside my breast. Whenever i put my finger on that certain area, i can feel the bump. Im super worried because i have no idea what it ...
A. 10 January 2011: See a doctor, soon. My cousin had a 'it' , then later it was discovered of a breast cancer.she was 18,a virgin.she had her right breast removed.take is seriously, see your health practitioner. Regards... (read in full...)
Is this age difference acceptable?
Q. The girl im in love with is 14, and im 18... Are these feelings i have too much of an age difference?? And im not sure if it is ok to act on said feelings.. Any advice would be awesome..........
A. 9 January 2011: Just befriend her.shes way too young to be a gf.if you care enough for her, surely you will wait for her to be legal... (read in full...)
Is it normal to want to have sex at 14?
Q. i am 14 year old boy. Sometimes i feel like i want to have sex even though i am 14 :/ is this just my hormones or something else. I don't feel comfortable talking about this to my mom or dad can anyone help ?...
A. 9 January 2011: Normal.just learn to have full control on those feelings,otherwise they can land you in trouble,like being on the wrong side of the law as you are still illegal and being a very young father or a bearer of uncurable STIs.make your choice... (read in full...)
He's bottling up his emotions after his friend's death.
Q. Hey guys. Um, my boyfriend and I have been in a real rough place lately. We've been together since freshman year (now we're juniors in HS) and everything's always been pretty great. About 5 months ago, one our really good friends unexpectedly died. ...
A. 7 January 2011: Write him a love letter. Tell him you want him back, to work thru your friend's passing together since you are equally affected. Ask him to open up, talk to you coz his bottling emotions up will do him more harm than good.tell him you so in love ... (read in full...)
My wife makes me feel worthless...
Q. I don't know what to do. My wife makes me feel like a loser and she wants nothing to do with me. I have been unemployed for about a year but am going to school to complete my degree. I am a stay at home dad to keep the cost of daycare down. I want ...
A. 6 January 2011: Is she cheating?suspicious?... (read in full...)
Will a woman be truly satisfied with an average guy if she has had large lovers in the past?
Q. If a woman has had very large lovers in her past , can she really be truly satisfied with an average sized man later in life? ...
A. 6 January 2011: Yes, they still can be satisfied.its not the size that matters, but the act itself... (read in full...)
Planning on losing my virginity but scared about a lot of things!
Q. Im 13 year old and im planning to loose my virginity to a 16 year old soon ! Dont know what to do! I love him but i got doubts im scared he'll leave me or change towards me , i honestly am confused , his never offered for sex but i feel like i am...
A. 6 January 2011: My angel, please stay a virgin till you are legal,for now you are still very young. You dont wanna be a parent at this young age.do you know of STI's? After all loosing your virginity Hurts! Talk to your mom before you do it ... (read in full...)
Help needed ASAP!
Q. Please help Tomorrow in school I'm sitting next to a boy who I have a crush on and I've fallen out with him because he ignores and he deleted me on blackberry messenger !!!! What should i say ? Should i ask him why he ignored me ? Please please h...
A. 5 January 2011: Ignore him.,respond straight to the point if he happens to talk to you.hope it helps... (read in full...)
Are pimples a turn off?
Q. Do guys get turned off a girl if they have pimples on there chest and back?...
A. 4 January 2011: Not at all.pimples are part of our 'growing up'...they fade with time... (read in full...)
The man I'm falling for is everything: sweet, kind, funny...and has a girlfriend...
Q. Dear Cupid, Should I cut my losses a move along, or should i just have more faith and determination?? I've fallen head over heels in love, for the first time properly, with a friend I have made at university. I've thought I'd been in love before b...
A. 4 January 2011: You dont want to be labelled a bf snatcher...stay away from men who are taken... (read in full...)
Why is my wife so regimented about sex?
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Ever since our honeymoon over 30 years ago, my wife has always insisted on making love at some prearranged time with at least a week before our next assignation and it usually lasts for about an hour - certainly no more. It was not like this ...
A. 4 January 2011: Hey dude.im sory your wife is denying you the sex you needed.join her to the masturbating world, make her jelause,lol but yes,it works... (read in full...)
What do you think of this as a Valentine's Day gift idea?
Q. Valentines Idea Basically I really want to do something special for my crush. I know its elaborate but I wanted to do something different. I wondered what you girls (And guys) thought of it and how it'd make you feel. I was thinking of the ...
A. 4 January 2011: Roses, romantic dinner, cruise can also do well.goodluck ... (read in full...)
I was told by my GF :"Girls don't like it when guys last long, they get sore and it hurts down there". Really???
Q. Hi, Happy New Year by the way! So, when I have sex with my girlfriend, first I pleasure her for about 7 minutes until she finishes, then we have sex and I last for about 1 minute on a good night. Now, once I kept "doing it" for a while after I wa...
A. 2 January 2011: It doesnt matter what the media says.do whats best for your gf.as long as you get satisfied.goodluck... (read in full...)
I can't tell him what happened. And I can't face him. What should I do?
Q. Long story short I had sex with my friend last night and he came in me.. It's 9 days after my period so I'm assuming I'm pregnant.. He bought me the morning after pill and I took it asap.. I guess about 18 hours after we had sex.. How do I even look ...
A. 2 January 2011: Explain to him that your period is late.ask him to go to the clinic with you for a pregnancy test or you buy a home tester.sex happens to lots of best friends,just brush it off.decide if you want to be fwb with him or it was just a once off ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with her but its illegal!
Q. I am a 14 year old virgin and my girlfriend is 17 and isn't. I want to have sex with her but it is illegal and I am worried I wont be good enough. what should I do?...
A. 2 January 2011: Wait till you are legal and pschologically ready.it could turn into the most traumatic experience since shes older and not a virgin anymore. ... (read in full...)
I'm in my mid 40s, but my overbearing mother won't back off!
Q. I'm trying to figure out how to deal with my mother. Quite a bit of the following is venting, so you may want to skip to the question at the end. I'm in my mid 40s, but she still tries to tell me what to do constantly. There are many thing...
A. 1 January 2011: Sit her down.explain to her of her 'wrongs'...also tell that if she doesnt stop interfering in your life you will cut all contacts with her, including her seeing her grandson.unless she has/ its a disorder of some kind,then she'l need some therapy... (read in full...)
Alone again on the New Year...how do I get through this??
Q. I've been sngle for the last 3 years around new years and all that and the last couple of years i completly had melt downs cause i was so sick of being alone. all my friends are going out of town and i will be alone yet again. i was wondering how i ...
A. 31 December 2010: I'll be in my house alone.iv organised some booze,wil order pizza and il do with my favourite dvd. Its safer indoors than out with the bunch of 'friends'... (read in full...)
Is it ok to take a secret lover?
Q. Im 39 yrs married with two kids-sometimes i feel very lonely in my marriage -my huby very boring -iv tried to emphasise on how i want to be loved-very stubborn not romantic at all-am really bored-is it rite if i can a secrete lover? To overcome this ...
A. 31 December 2010: No.thats cheating... (read in full...)
Should I let my BF go lower?
Q. My boyfriend wants to go lower(fingering and eating me out). But idk if i should ? I feel as he is rushing into things. ...
A. 31 December 2010: Tell him not to if you are no ready and comfortable with the whole thing.its your body, you have a final say.goodluck... (read in full...)
Boyfriend going to move out because my mom asked for $100.00 a month
Q. I'm 20 years old. I live with my mother and father. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and yesterday my mom asked if he would start giving her 100 dollars every 2 weeks to help pay for food and bills. He automatically said he wouldn't and that ...
A. 31 December 2010: Hes a spoilt freeloader.he cant have all for free(food,bed,roof,water,sex,chores), forever.let him move if he wants to. ... (read in full...)
He met someone else and broke my heart
Q. How can I fall out of love with someone when I have been in love with him for years and was willing to move overseas just to be with him. Now he has met someone else and I am left broken hearted and lost. What should I do? ...
A. 30 December 2010: Falling out of love when the 'one you love is taken' is the most painful thing.all you can do is just to keep your mind at ease.always remember that nothing lasts forever,that you'll heal with time.goodluck... (read in full...)
After you break up, should you get rid of any gifts?
Q. I have two questions. When you break up with a boyfriend, especially when it was a serious relationship, do you trash/give back gifts, or anything that reminds you of him? And by getting rid of those things, does it make you get over him faster, ...
A. 30 December 2010: I would not give them away, for memory's sake.and that they were given to me.some are very expensive to destroy.put them away, allow yourself to heal then you'll be fine.goodluck... (read in full...)
Do I keep this relationship going? I haven't seen or heard much from her since we had sex
Q. I was seeing this older women for awhile as a friend. We would go out and have fun, she didnt want sex at the time because we were just friends she said. One night as it happened she ended up having sex with me and i havent seen or heard much from ...
A. 28 December 2010: Ask her whats on her mind.dont sound so pushy,be gentle,.maybe shes afraid of emotional atachment. ... (read in full...)
I feel so alone. Week before Christmas he left because he needed 'space'
Q. On Monday, only 5 days before Christmas my husband and I got into a huge argument. It was really over nothing, he was drinking and going on and on about nothing. I asked him to be quiet so I could get some work done at home (I work from home) and ...
A. 27 December 2010: Hey, im sorry that things turned out this bad. Why did you call a cab inthe 1st place?,paid 1/2 the fare?and kept asking him to leave you alone? Now he respected your decision, HE LEFT YOU ALONE.! You need to show him how sory you are, Beg him to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is being a jerk, my mom blames me that I'm not married!
Q. Hi, I need so much help that I don't even know where to start. First of all, I need some help understanding my boyfriend. Secondly, I need help dealing with my mum in response to my boyfriend problems. My boyfriend of 10 months has been ...
A. 26 December 2010: Leave him... (read in full...)
I have an online friend that I confide in rather than my boyfriend. Is this wrong?
Q. Hi everyone .. Please help me think.... Ok...I've been living with my boyfriend for 3 years now. We love each other. We like doing things together and spend 24 hours a day together coz we have the same Job and work at the same place and same ...
A. 26 December 2010: Does yo bf know that there's some1 you 'trust' more than him,that you can tell all what your bf doesnt have to know? Do you show your bf your back and forth emails for 'this online friend? Emotional affair: CHEATING.just stop it ... (read in full...)
I lied to my boyfriend about getting raped and being pregnant and he wants me to help raise the baby!!!!
Q. Okay, I'm 14. My boyfriend (who's 13) and I are really close, so we tell each other everything. One day, I saw him talking to his friend, who I SWEAR was hitting on him (she was touching him and everything)!! So I (obviously) got upset... I didn't ...
A. 24 December 2010: You created the stage, now dance on it.! Tell him you were just longing for his attention,and that you are sorry. Next time never play with such things, its aint cool ... (read in full...)
Is it cheating to self masterbate in front of a massage parlor attendant?
Q. Is it cheating to self masterbate in front of a massage parlor attendant? She offered to do it but I wasn't comfortable with letting her. She encouraged me to finish myself. I enjoyed the experience, but i'm feeling the guilt....
A. 24 December 2010: Did your significant other knew that you were seeing the masage parlour? You pulled your dick for another woman to see? YES, thats cheating, hence the guilt... (read in full...)
Is the invitation really to watch a movie, or is it something else?
Q. I went on a blind date recently. It was great. There was a second date, a couple of days later. At the end of the date he finally kissed me for the first time. The guy seems to be very respectful and gentleman like. For our third date , he invited ...
A. 24 December 2010: Hey. If you are not comfortable to go there, ask him if you can bring your friend.just explain him your fears before hand.goodluck... (read in full...)
She's controlling, bitchy, bad in bed, and I love her to pieces. Should I stay or should I go?
Q. this will likely be pretty lenghthy so bear with me...figure i'll get it all out. there will be a multitude of questions throughout so feel free to answer one or all of them. i have been involved with my "situation" for the past 6 years. started o...
A. 24 December 2010: Listen to your heart. Do whats best for you but ill advice you to leave.some one that you love will never cal you immature and asshole. You are far better off without her ... (read in full...)
I feel really bad, I got my boyfriend aroused but went no further. Did I do something wrong?
Q. I'm 13 and don't really know what love is and know that I wont find my true love for a long time. so I don't really want to be involved sexually but at the same time I do. And I'm allowed to. My mom will get birth control pills and everything. ...
A. 24 December 2010: You did the right thing. Wait till you are ready.... (read in full...)
My husband of 14 years had an affair with a stripper 4 months ago. How do I forgive him?
Q. My husband of 14 years had an affair with a stripper 4 months ago. I just found about it 2 months ago. He paid her $200.00 for sex in a motel room. (Isn't that protitution?) I also found recepits where he bought her jewelry three different times. ...
A. 23 December 2010: Give him another chance but put some therapy in between... (read in full...)
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