He's jealous because of the sexual things I did with my ex!
Q. i have a question... my boyfriend of 3 years is jealous of the fact that i gave my ex boyfriend oral sex and he ejaculated in my mouth, and ive been with him for 3 years and he has not done it 2 me. first of all my ex boyfriend treated me like a ...
A. 31 October 2010: no your completely right if he doesnt do anthing nice for you you shouldnt return the favour.doesnt seem like your very happy in this relationship should you really be in a relationship like that around your kids as its not gonna show them how to ... (read in full...)
My married man won't respond
Q. Happy Halloween everyone. Well i have a new problem,I know the answer that everyone is gonna say but i just want some reassurance on what i need to do. I have talked to my friends and coworkers and they have said what i think i should do. This ...
A. 31 October 2010: well if he hasnt answered your texts or calls by now then isnt it abit obvious that he no longer wants a relationship with you.no one likes to be ignored but sometimes thats the only way to make people realise when your uninterested.i say take the ... (read in full...)
Scared about getting married....
Q. I am 24yrs old and getting married in a few months. I love my fiance but i maybe having second thoughts about this wedding. I am so confused, i dont know if i want to get married?! I love going out and partying and i love the attention i get ...
A. 31 October 2010: everyone gets doubts but you need to go with your gut feeling.lets face it if your in a relationship but go out for a night on your own with the girls your going to like the attention that other men give you as it kind of makes you feel good that ... (read in full...)
Mistress is threating to tell my wife about us
Q. I feel like I'm about to lose the best thing that ever happened for me behind ignorance. I know everyone's probably going to say I deserve it and I probably due but no one's perfect. I told my mistress that we needed to sto and she's threatening to ...
A. 31 October 2010: tell your mistress how you really feel but to be fair if she cared about you she wouldnt be putting you in an awkward position i dont doubt her for asking you to choose but whatever you choose she should accept and move on but you do need to ... (read in full...)
How to deal with a girl who is always bored
Q. I have a girlfriend that is always bored. before i met her i was never going anywhere or doing anything. she likes to do things bt get upset when she ask me what i want to do but i always say i dont know. what should i do?...
A. 31 October 2010: i have the same problem with my boyfriend he always says that to me and i get upset because i dont always want to be the one to make the decisions.she probably wants surprising for you to randomly turn round and go come on im taking you shopping or ... (read in full...)
Do you ever get over someone you've been with for years?
Q. So my question is about love. After you have been with someone for a long time (years) and things don't work out between you two and you both move on what can you do to get yourself to stop loving, thinking about, and caring for the person that you ...
A. 31 October 2010: I was with my first longterm boyfriend two years ago.I hate him for what he did to me and my son and i still dont like the way he acts now we are not together.I have been in a new relationship for almost two years but i still have feelings for my ex ... (read in full...)
Due for an arranged marriage, fell in love with the guy, and now he wants me to leave him!
Q. im 26 years old, basically im afraid about boys and i hate marriage then i accept my marriage before one year my parents also looking for a guy finally i got one he started to talk, he said he was having one previous love and he cant forget her she ...
A. 21 June 2010: dont marry him hes obviously in love with someone else. youll be in an unhappy marriage if you go along with this. you deserve better and i think he knows this.... (read in full...)
Should I date my teacher?
Q. hi. i have had a crush on my teacher for a while. she is right out of college i believe shes 23 im a 18 year old senior entering my last week of school. i guess she noticed i liked her and asked me to have sex after school. i did and it was amazing. ...
A. 21 June 2010: id say leave it until you are completely out of school as its illegal she could get into a lot of trouble and even loose her career shes obviously worked hard for but deffinately give it a go after theres obviously an attraction between you both... (read in full...)
Problem bonding with my newborn son...
Q. Well I had my 2nd baby nearly 4 months ago now. My oldest is nearly two. the problem is i'm worried I havn't bonded properly with my newborn. I think part of it was to do with the fact that all through my pregnancy I was told i ws havng a girl - and ...
A. 21 June 2010: i think you should talk to your doctor as it seems like a bit of postnatal depression. maybe they can help you deal with this a bit better. alot of women suffer with this, so if i was you i wouldnt be too concerned. your son doesnt hate you, maybe ... (read in full...)
Does he not want to take my virginity because he thinks I am not the one?
Q. My boyfriend is not a virgin, but he knows that I am. He is about five years older than me, but I don't know how many women he's been with... We sleep in the same bed, and we'll make out and get close to going all the way, but he'll stop and say ...
A. 21 June 2010: maybe he wants to make sure that the timing is right and know 100% that you are ready because once yourve lost your viginity you cant get it back.why dont you ask him every time you come close to going the whole way does he say we shouldnt do this ... (read in full...)
People are saying my new boyfriend speaks bad about me behind my back, what am I to believe?
Q. okay so my name is courtney So this is really hard to explain! I went out with this guy 5-25-10 then i broke up with him a week later! i felt bad part me still liked him part me said not to! when we broke uo he cut himself cuz me! his name is eric....
A. 21 June 2010: depends how you really feel for him do you have a bad feeling about him if you do then i wouldnt stay with him.i wouldnt be suprised if he was saying stuff about you he obviously has issues if he cuts himself do you want to be involved with someone ... (read in full...)
Help! My wife found out about an affair I'd rather forget, how can I get her back now?
Q. F*^ and ! Sorry for my language but everything is horrible. The woman I had the affair with some how found me on the internet and sent me a message. Say how she wished the night ended differently and how even. Though it was only a couple mintues ...
A. 21 June 2010: you have to take responsibility for your actions its her call now whether shel take you back or not is another thing.ofcourse its going to hurt her she wanted to have a happy family with you and your daughter not expect to find out you have done the ... (read in full...)
It was my first time and I was bleeding alot, should I be worried??
Q. Hi I'm 18 and I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time but then during the sex I was bleeding alot. I used a condom but I'm afraid, am I'm going to get pregnant?...
A. 21 June 2010: your not going to get pregnant unless the condom splits so you dont need to worry about that but if your worried maybe you should go on the pill aswel as using condoms then you deffinately cant get pregnant well it would be a very very slim chance ... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of getting my belly button pierced, opinions?
Q. I've been wanting a new piercing for a while now, and I was recently considering my belly button. I'm on the thinner side, so I am a little worried about the future (for instance in ten years if I get pregnant will the hole stretch and look awful?). ...
A. 21 June 2010: only you can make that decision i should think if you were more on the thinner side it shouldnt make so much of a difference after child birth im a little overweight and have had two children and i got my belly button pierced when i was about 18 the ... (read in full...)
She let her ex stay at her house!
Q. I have been with my girl freind for 4 months now, She did tell me during our initial days that she is still good freinds with her ex, on saturday her ex and a few other common freinds had dinner while i was with my freinds watching a game, the ...
A. 21 June 2010: everyone does silly things at times without really thinking about how there partner might feel about it but it wasnt like she hid it from you she was open and honest about it and thats the main thing she respects you enough to tell you.ok so you ... (read in full...)
How do I make my husband want to have sex?
Q. Hey every one ........... Need a lil advice on how to make my husband want to have sex with me. its bin 2 months now that i try to make the moves on him and he rejects them ive gone as far as going oral and he brushes me away by saying oo babe c...
A. 21 June 2010: i know sex can calm down alot when you have been together for a while i think his just being lazy but instead of letting him tell you its all in your head sit him down and say you cant deal with no passion affection intimacy wotever its not making ... (read in full...)
I don't enjoy giving oral sex, is this normal?
Q. I don't enjoy giving my boyfriend a blow job. Is that normal? Last night i kept trying and then gagging within a few seconds. He knows i don't enjoy it and can't understand why. Last night he told me that i should enjoy it really which made me feel ...
A. 21 June 2010: theres nothing wrong with you im the same i cant stand giving my boyfriend a blowjob i put it off as often as i can.i know what you mean about gagging i do too if i go down too much but now i dont try deep throat.i put my hand round it at the bottom ... (read in full...)
I recently found out he cheated on me, should I give our relationship another chance?
Q. Hi, I have recently found out that my now fiancee of 5 years cheated on me 2 years ago in a one night stand. We went through a really awful rough patch for most of 2008 and this is when he cheated on me. We decided to have time apart when ...
A. 21 June 2010: well i seem to hear of this alot my ex done the same to me cheated on me when we were going through a rough patch however i think he was just using that as an excuse to make it not sound so bad but iv heard of him cheating on me plenty of times when ... (read in full...)
I want my baby but my boyfriend wants me to abort. Help!
Q. Okay so I'm 16 and 5 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend is 17. Just hear me out okay (: Although my boyfriend of 19 months and I had talked about having kids, our baby was not planned. We weren't careful at all with protection and so inevitably, I fe...
A. 27 March 2010: whether his mother is religious or not its not her choice its down to you and your boyfriend to decide your not the only young person to fall pregnant it happens to loads of girls and generally the parents arent best pleased but they come round to ... (read in full...)
Will he get in trouble for having sex with me?
Q. I am turning fourteen this year, my boyfriend is turning sixteen. We've had sex, but im worried about when his finally legal. Will he get in trouble for having sex with a fourteen year old? PLEASE HELP! He turns sixteen before i turn fourteen...
A. 26 March 2010: for different states and countries the legal age varies however i no it definately isnt legal for you to have sex not atleast until you are 16 but in other places the legal age is above 16... (read in full...)
I'm going to the club without my boyfriend, am I doing anything wrong?
Q. me and bf have been together for 2 years, in the past couple of months he has decided he no longer wants to go clubbing. i still enjoy going out and dancing, i really enjoy dancing with him but he says he will no longer go. we came to an agreement ...
A. 26 March 2010: what he needs to realise is in a relationship he should be able to trust that you wont do anything with anything else.its his choice about not coming but you shouldnt stop yourself from going and celebrating your best friends birthday.your not doing ... (read in full...)
His depression affected our relationship and my confidence. Please advise.
Q. I am absolutely head over heals in love with my ex boyfriend. Even though we've decided just to stay friends because things had drifted with us, I look in his eyes and all I feel is love and remember everything we've done together. The first two ...
A. 26 March 2010: depression can put you off sex and at that point your not going to be very loving towards the person your with as all you can think about is being in a dark hole you cant get out of you kind of push everyone away and stay in your own litte world so ... (read in full...)
My family doesn't approve of my boyfriend and I fear I will be all alone if we break up!
Q. I feel so alone! I've been with my bf for just one year and we're quite happy. Lately though we've quarreled more and more. Nothing too serious though, and he's always very sad afterwards and we make up quick. Anyways, this quarreling is making me ...
A. 26 March 2010: you need to explain to your family that although you love them you love him too and there not necessarily going to approve of everyone you choose to date and if he is not your right for you, you will realise in the end and you dont like the ... (read in full...)
I am scraed something is going wrong with my pregnancy
Q. Ok I think im going crazy. Im 15 weeks preg.... and I have pains. And im haveing cramp like pains. Some times if I move 2 quick its a sharp pain. It don't last long less then 3 sec... and also if I sneeze pee comes out. Also sometimes I feel like ...
A. 25 March 2010: you should be safe from about 12 weeks pregnant.if your concerned speak to your doctor or midwife but its normal to get pains from time to time its just your body going through some changes.im 38 weeks pregnant at the moment im getting discharge and ... (read in full...)
Is it safe to have another abortion when my last was only in December 09?
Q. I recently went through an abortion in December of last year. The baby was my current boyfriend's. Well, I'm extremely worried that I could be pregnant again. I'm not 100% certian. I'll take a test in about a week. But I'm having similar symptoms as ...
A. 25 March 2010: It's quite safe although abortions have their risks as you probably know. My friend had two abortions in the space of 8 months so you should be fine as she was, just try to be more careful in future if you are pregnant because the more abortions ... (read in full...)
My loyalty is to my deceased wife, ... so how can I stop other women hitting on me!
Q. I have four beautiful daughters who mean the world to me. They range from 13 months-8 years. I became a widower 8 months ago and my daughters and I are still dealing with the shock and grief. There isn't a second that goes by that doesn't make me ...
A. 25 March 2010: this woman should have more respect!i mean your still grieving its only been 8 months not even a year and getting over someone who you love takes a very long time.next time she tries to hit on you tell her that the only thing you are interested in ... (read in full...)
He lies, cheats, drinks, watches porn, and wont have sex with me. What should I do?
Q. help my partner wont stop lying. drinking. he has cheated on me with a woman from his work. have found text messages from another woman he lied and said it was his sister. he barley wants to have sex with me, once saying i was too fat, so not true. ...
A. 25 March 2010: sounds like he is doing everything in his power to make you leave him because he is too much of a coward to do it himself.how can you stay with someone who treats you like this you should get some self respect and leave him you deserve better... (read in full...)
My boyfriend makes me feel insecure
Q. I love my boyfriend to death - I feel like we're perfect for each other and we communicate really well and love each other so much - but we have a huge problem. Firstly - Because of our culture we do not have sex, but we are soon to get married. ...
A. 25 March 2010: should you really be marrying someone who makes you feel low in self confidence and who basically is telling you that sooner or later he is going to cheat on you and talking about how sexually attracted to other women he is.this is no way to be with ... (read in full...)
I'm still a virgin at 18, should I be putting myself out there a bit more?
Q. well, the thing is im just 18 and im still a virgin, and all my mates as far as i know have done it. im worried about being one of those guys who doesnt loose it until im in my late 20`s early 30`s. i know people are going to say "dont do it for ...
A. 22 March 2010: when you are ready to loose your virginity you will just because your mates have already doesnt mean you have to aswel.if you want to loose your virginity id say get yourself out abit more and get to know girls a bit better its perfectly normal to ... (read in full...)
My husband says he is not in to me, yet does not want a divorce or to work on it either.
Q. I have been married 24 years. About 12 years ago we started to grow apart. Intimacy became less and less. My husband's attitude towards me was that of disdain. There were in-law problems (they don't like me, I wasn't their choice). This became ...
A. 22 March 2010: if he could hide an affair from you then why should you be honest although it is not going to sort out your situation and you need to think about your children.if you are both not happy in the relationship then maybe you should file for divorce as ... (read in full...)
I feel horrible that my wife was crying whilst we had sex! Does this mean she finds me repulsive?
Q. hi this is driving me nuts. me and my partner have been together for about 5 years we have children together and seem happy we have are ups and downs no big deal.but are sex life has got dull and not a lot of it i mean big gaps.we both made jokes ...
A. 22 March 2010: you need to ask your wife how she feels about you i mean there is a chance she could be crying out of guilt maybe for cheating on you and knowing how much your going to for her,maybe she was crying because of the intensity in which you had sex maybe ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance I could be pregnant even if he pulled out before he ejaculated?
Q. Hello my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex but he pulled out a minute before he ejaculated.. i'm concerned now because i'm also ovulating.. i have been for a couple of days.... is there a great enough chance i could be pregnant even if he pulled ...
A. 22 March 2010: there is a chance you could fall pregnant just because he didnt ejaculate inside you a bit could have come out while you were having sex and remember there is always pre cum which he may not feel coming out and i know you can get pregnant from that ... (read in full...)
How can I relax during sex after having been abused?
Q. I've been in therapy the past five years because I was sexually abused repeatly. Things are recently getting better but sex still makes me very nervous at times. I've been in a relationship with my bf for two years now and is very supportive in the ...
A. 22 March 2010: being abused makes it hard to trust no matter how much you want to.i was abused at 16 i suffered from nightmares, the thought of having sex sickened me made me really nervous and i felt dirty however my partner at the time was very supportive of ... (read in full...)
The man I love is gay.
Q. i recently told my best friend that im in love with him. he confessed to me that hes gay about 2 months before i told him. i dont have any problem with gay people but it frustrates me when he tells me stories about his experiences. i feel like hes ...
A. 22 March 2010: you need to understand that his gay and its not going to change yourl never be able to change his feelings for you no matter how you try.his never going to see you in that light always as a friend, you will eventually get over him and move on but i ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get over my wife leaving me?
Q. So I'm nearing my divorce. It's been almost 2 yares since I woke up one morning and my wife told me it was over. She was seeing some one else at the time . She has dated a few guys since then.Me no one. Why can't I ever get her off my mind.When will ...
A. 22 March 2010: its hard to get over someone that you have genuine love for, its even harder when you loose someone you love but doesnt love you back because it makes you question why arent i good enough.i think your holding out for the chance that she might come ... (read in full...)
I want to break up with my GF, I'm so unhappy and I don't trust her, but I keep failing
Q. *OP's own title* I'm in a 2 years relationship. basically, i do not trust my GF. i'm sooo unhappy, i have been trying to break up with her for the past three months. all attempts failed. in fact, sometimes i end up having sex with her when im...
A. 22 March 2010: whenever a relationship comes to an end its upsetting so you have to expect the tears it doesnt matter what way you end a relationship it will always be difficult but sometimes you have to be strong and hold out even if it is harsh why should you be ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend does not seem interested in my sexy texts. Why?
Q. I am trying new sexual things w/my boyfriend because he brought it to my attention. But when I try to send him a sexy text message he just goes to bed or seems uninterested. why???...
A. 22 March 2010: maybe the textes you are sending him arent as sexy as he wants them to be or maybe he doesnt know what to reply to them with... (read in full...)
Has he already lost interest so early on?
Q. So, I'm a little confused about a guy I have been dating. We've only been on 3 dates and I know it's still VERY early in the dating stages but I can't help but wonder what his intentions are. For instance--he is a great guy, VERY gentlemanly and ...
A. 20 March 2010: his free to do as he pleases maybe he might be a little shy which is why he isnt contacting or initiating a kiss he might want to take things slowly.some guys dont really like texting or calling that could be another reason.id say let him do the ... (read in full...)
Long-distance boyfriend ignoring me?
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. We used to talk almost all day, everyday, but naturally that has stopped being the norm now. My problem is this: I write to him, but it takes him a week to answer me. He says he's busy with ...
A. 20 March 2010: long distance relationships can become distant if he isnt making the effort to make as much contact maybe as before then maybe you should ask him if there is a future between the both of you as you deserve to know where you stand.... (read in full...)
I'm concernd about the size of my penis?
Q. My current girlfriend, who had sex with one person before told me that he had a small penis, but she later told me that it was 6 inches, which I certainly don't consider small. She also told me that having sex didn't feel good at all with him. She ...
A. 20 March 2010: no everyone has different sizes whether it is to do with length or girth.it all depends on how you use it i guess... (read in full...)
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