We met at a party and kissed. Now what?
Q. Hello :) Basically, i had my first kiss last night, and i'm buzzing. It was at a party and i was talking to this guy for about 2 hours, playing a little hard to get and then it kinda happened. However, this guy is two years younger than me (h...
A. 4 February 2012: I didn't tell him my last name which is probably the thing that kept him interested, so he might have got the jist i dont want to be contacted or something haha.
I know him vaguely in real life.
In any case, i've thought about it today and i'm real... (read in full...)
Boyfriend and facebook issues. Could it be true that it's her fault he dumped me?
Q. Okay this is weird since just a few hours ago I posted comment about how my boyfriend and how he isnt caring and well he just dumped me like 3 hours ago. I um well I feel really empty and depressed.. And upset because I called that mean girl tha...
A. 3 December 2011: I think this is your fault, I'm sorry. Why share something private abut your relationship with the whole of Facebook? How do you think that made him feel!?... (read in full...)
I can't trust my boyfriend after I saw him hugging these girls!
Q. In college, i saw my boyfriend and he hugged this girl saw me and walked off, then while me and my bestfriend went to get some lunch and he was pressing himself up againist these two girls, and he spends alot of time with these two girls, i know he ...
A. 9 January 2011: maybe you should turn it around on him completely- pretend you dont care. even if it goes further that rubbing up against them, ignore it and act like you NOTICE, but you dont care, and that way he'll either take advantagew of that, or come back to ... (read in full...)
How can I get his attention without looking a fool?
Q. Hello, I have somewhat of a dilemma here; I'm on a sports team with multi-age and co-ed players. I'm fourteen years old as the site says and I've almost fallen for a thirteen-year old boy. He's absolutely divine; he is tall with long dark hair and ...
A. 17 June 2010: this is quite funny, i just posted almost exactly the same question... i saw this and was like, have they re-worded me?
i would say.. dont embarass yourself- go up and ask how hes done in his event or whateverrr.. hows hes feeling. its the litt... (read in full...)
Time is running out! How can I get more friendly with this boy?
Q. hi in my computing class i hit at the same table as this boy how is very quiet and shy but around his friends hes a bit of a trouble maker ! i want to get more friendly with this boy before the summer hoildays please help ASAP :(x ...
A. 17 June 2010: laugh with him and make him feel appreicated, hell notice you...
flirt? be jokey around him and make him laugh aswell..
... (read in full...)
Do girls even like masturbating?
Q. Hey, im going into my freshman year, and my friends and i are such pervs ( but im ok with it ), i swear every day at school all we talk about is masturbating. But when i asked my girlfriend about it she said she doesnt because she doesnt like to. ...
A. 5 June 2010: their scared to admit it, honestly, everybody does.
sometimes its nothing to do with sex, but its a greaty stress reliever.
of course girls do it! we cant help it:)
but darling, anything to do with sex is completly normal, unless your getting gree... (read in full...)
If fiancee was drugged said no, and doesn't remember, doesn't that qualify her as a virgin?
Q. My fiancee and I are both graduating college next month and getting married this summer. We are both virgins and both wanted to stay that way for marriage. Problem is my fiancee had a situation about 3 years ago, and now she's saying things to...
A. 26 April 2010: No offence, but it sounds like your fiancee may be lying to you. She might be covering up for the fact she has had sex before by telling you this story. By not ringing the police, or doing anything about what happened, it sounds a bit fake to me.
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How can I still like him in secret without blushing or talking too much?
Q. Every time that this guy talks to me, I get as red as a lobster. I really like him, but I wish I could stay stealthy. Sometimes when he talks to me, he looks uncomfortable, and his eyes sometimes focus into mine, or dart around the room nervously. ...
A. 24 April 2010: allow yourself to blush, its no big deal.
he might like you in secret aswell, and it may end up being your blushing that brings you together or somethign!
dont think too much about what you say, you want to come across as fun and happy and a ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my solicitor's daughter!
Q. I have the biggest problem ever !!! Who could be the worst person to fall in love with?? Your solicitors daughter maybe ! Oh please someone help... this really isnt good... and whats worse, my solicitor is trying to get me work at the same place h...
A. 18 April 2010: its her choice, so tell her and let her think about it. the worst thing that can happen is that she might say shes not intersted, but she might be! ... (read in full...)
I'm really jealous of my best friend's success with guys! What can I do?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm ashamed to admit it, but I'm really jealous of my best friend. She gets so much attention from the guys it's almot impossible for me to find any guy at all whenever we go out. Don't get me wrong, I really love her and car...
A. 16 April 2010: I have exactly the same problem. I'm a model, but yet my bestfriend still gets more attention.
I think the key is to stay confident, which might mean distancing yourself from your bestfriend for a bit so you become confident again. Go out with othe... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my solicitor's daughter!
Q. I have the biggest problem ever !!! Who could be the worst person to fall in love with?? Your solicitors daughter maybe ! Oh please someone help... this really isnt good... and whats worse, my solicitor is trying to get me work at the same place h...
A. 16 April 2010: I don't understand how this is a bad thing.
Firstly, what have you done to see a soliciter?
Secondly, why is it bad you are in love with her?... (read in full...)
He's 50, I'm 18, His ex drives me mad
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together a year and a half. He's 50 and i'm 18(not a problem for either of us). He is currently living with his mother because he's trying to save to get a place for us. He has two children: a boy of 15 and a girl of ...
A. 11 April 2010: Sorry to be frank;
1)hes 50.
2)he still lives with his mum ?!?
3)he has kids
4)he has an ex-wife
to me, this relationship seems doomed from the start. the age gap dosn't bother me at all, its the list it makes. It sounds like this ex-wife... (read in full...)
16-17 year old girl likes 14-15 year old guy?
Q. Right, I'm not sure if this is a typical occurance, but I haven't been able to find any questions or answers on this topic on here yet. Basically, I have a crush on a younger guy. I have been away for a week on an adventurous training trip, and you ...
A. 10 April 2010: if you have facebook or msn; why don't you just get into a conversation, and ask if he wants to meet up with some mates. then say can i have your number so we can stay in touch, and voilia/
if you want to do it outright, so he knows your interest... (read in full...)
16-17 year old girl likes 14-15 year old guy?
Q. Right, I'm not sure if this is a typical occurance, but I haven't been able to find any questions or answers on this topic on here yet. Basically, I have a crush on a younger guy. I have been away for a week on an adventurous training trip, and you ...
A. 9 April 2010: I don't really think your over-stepping the boundary. If you want this guy, tell him and see what happens. If people judge you for it, just show them what a mature relationship you have. Don't do overly intimate displays of affection in public, ... (read in full...)
Do people often record themselves having sex?
Q. My boyfriend and i were talking about trying new things in the bedroom. He brought up how he wants to film me giving him a blowjob. He then said, but thats a bit personal, i dont expect you to do it but id love to watch it over and over. Iam think...
A. 8 April 2010: Lots of people do this, but make sure you trust your partner. There are a lot of brakup sites around where men post their girlfriends naked pics. Just be careful, whatever you decide to do x... (read in full...)
I'm addicted to a brutal type of pornography drawings. How will my girlfriend react?
Q. If I have an addiction to pornography involving drawings of young girls being killed, then...when should I tell my girlfriend, and what response might she have? ...
A. 8 April 2010: As a followup to your second follow-up- i am tolerant. i am different. I just don't see how you would expect your girlfriend to understand that you get turned on my drawings of little girls getting killed? Thats just awful! I understand why it might ... (read in full...)
I'm addicted to a brutal type of pornography drawings. How will my girlfriend react?
Q. If I have an addiction to pornography involving drawings of young girls being killed, then...when should I tell my girlfriend, and what response might she have? ...
A. 7 April 2010: I wouldnt tell her. I, for one, would be out of your arms before you could say sorry.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for being angered by his constant asking for what's on my mind.
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost 6 years. We are engaged now , and are moving in together in a few weeks. I have a few issues and would like someone elses point of view. He is a wonderful man , to good to be true in many ways. he genuinl...
A. 7 April 2010: Maybe you should talk to him, tell him you need space to think. Being in a relationship should mean you can tell each other everything, but you should be able to keep things to yourself without him being suspicous.
i say talk to him and explain your... (read in full...)
Guilt about masturbation!
Q. When I was 12, I didn't know anything about sex. Not a single thing about it. After I hit 13, I hit the point where my eyes finally awoke. It was around that time that two guys, two grades higher then me, asked me if I had ever masturbated before. ...
A. 7 April 2010: Dudee, you need to relax.
first off, masturbating is COMPLETLY normal.everyone does it, and its is nothing to worry about.
As for looking at girls in public, what? you cant look at them because your masturbate? of course you can!
As a 15 year old ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to frequent chat rooms at my age?
Q. I'm 15, and i use chat rooms to release my sexual tension.... Is this normal? i find it a real turn on... Im confused. ...
A. 3 April 2010: your right,
you sign on and dozens of men go 'asl?' (age sex location)
i would never give out my personal info, or meet them, ever. im not interested in that.
thankyou, i will heed your warnings x... (read in full...)
I wearing my fiance's clothes and she doesn't know!!!
Q. I wearing my fiance's clothes and she doesn't know!! Ever since I can remember I've found myself really aroused by the thought of being sexually dominated by another man. Then a couple years ago I finally started watching gay porn - I immedia...
A. 30 March 2010: This may be hard, but maybe you should hold off your engagement- it sounds to me like you are hiding your sexuality, but they only person that can really tell is you. I think you should experiment in some way before getting married, rememebr... (read in full...)
My molester is going to be at this dinner. Should I go?
Q. today me and my boyfriend will be going out to dinner along with his mother and brother it was all payed for his brother's company. ok here is were it get's interesting i found out last night that my mother whom i dont get along with will be there ...
A. 28 March 2010: you are 26 now (it says). if you are over and not traumatised by this man and your experience, go and show him your stregth, but dont go if your uncomfortable.
good luck whatever you do.... (read in full...)
How to get in the mood for sex???
Q. me and my boyfriend of one year have decided to start having sex. but for some reason every time we try i cant seem to get wet enough?? we have tried forplay but nothing seems to work? therefore he starts to take it personally and thinks hes not ...
A. 28 March 2010: I know this sounds weird, but you could try using porn to get you turned on before hand.
If you are opposed to that idea, use lubricant. its easy to buy, and easy to apply, so there are no problems there.
Hope this helps x... (read in full...)
Did he really mean it when he said he loved me?
Q. Hey, I'm 16 (female) and would really appreciate some help. right so the thing is ive been best friends with this guy for about a year and a half now, he's gay and we both had relationships with boys in the past. we do everything together school,...
A. 28 March 2010: I think it means that he needs to experiment before he declares himself fully gay- sensible thing to do really, and its common, people need that experience to make up their mind.
i'd love to hear what happened, mail me?
... (read in full...)
How do you touch a woman so she knows your interested without being too forward?
Q. How does a man touch a woman to communicate interest in her without being too forward or too stiff?...
A. 27 March 2010: Wow.
To the male poster who posted previously, who talked about expellation, i dont tink he means he wants to rape her or abuse her, i thought he just meant make contact as in meet her and date her.
Just tell her how you feel, maturely and seriousl... (read in full...)
I want my baby but my boyfriend wants me to abort. Help!
Q. Okay so I'm 16 and 5 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend is 17. Just hear me out okay (: Although my boyfriend of 19 months and I had talked about having kids, our baby was not planned. We weren't careful at all with protection and so inevitably, I fe...
A. 27 March 2010: Think about your life aswell as the babys.
University will become hard. Having a career will become almost impossible as a young mum.
Do you really want this child right now? Don't you want to live your life?
I also agree that the child has a... (read in full...)
Are irregular periods normal?
Q. omg my period comes 2weeks or sometimes 3weeks..is this normal?? for example: this month it came again after just 2weeks after ive gone of it.. and nest month it will come 3weeks. am not on pills or anything. thnx..x is this ...
A. 27 March 2010: Completly normal, i have exactly the same thing since i started.
It just means it would be harder to tell if you were pregnant etc, but its nothing to worry about xxx... (read in full...)
Unreasonable???
Q. I need URGENT advice here, Me and and my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years were due to view an apartment this evening which had been planned a few weeks ago. We were hoping to move into this apartment on 24th April, very soon. There has been a lot of ...
A. 27 March 2010: no, i dont think you understand yet.
I get you miscarried, and that is hard.But if it is really making you unhappy, what sort of commitment are you giving by not telling your boyfriend how you feel?
seeing someone give birth is breathtaking, an... (read in full...)
I want to chat with her but I don't know what to say
Q. Hallo agony aunt, i read your letter with your advice... i kissed her and it was so nice. i did it on hers birthday..! i thought taht she really liked it but i don't think so know... i'm so confused i love her... but she acts strange... she d...
A. 27 March 2010: MATE DONT BE SO DESPERATE!
first things first!
as a 14 year old girl, i know that as soon as a boy gets desperate, i get bored and annoyed.
please distance youself more, talk to her, but dont go into a classroom specifically to see her. just ch... (read in full...)
Unreasonable???
Q. I need URGENT advice here, Me and and my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years were due to view an apartment this evening which had been planned a few weeks ago. We were hoping to move into this apartment on 24th April, very soon. There has been a lot of ...
A. 24 March 2010: To be honest, i think you are.
HIS BROTHERS HAVING A BABY.
why would he not want to be there? your house viewing can easily be rescedualed, stop stressing.
(:... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex, and now worry of the consequences. Please help me!
Q. [Moderators Note - Helpful advice only please] ok this is really long but ill try to make it short: alright im fifteen,i went out with a guy for what would have been a year on feb. 27 this year but he kept breaking up with me an begging me to ta...
A. 23 March 2010: Not particularily sure how to answer this. The first thing to say is calm down. Everyone has a rush of passion that can make them do stupid things sometimes. second, talk to your mum if you can. i know its embarassing, but she'd be please... (read in full...)
How do you touch a woman so she knows your interested without being too forward?
Q. How does a man touch a woman to communicate interest in her without being too forward or too stiff?...
A. 23 March 2010: In my opinion, theres no need to touch perfectly. TELL HER. The most annoying thing for me is to not know where i stand with a boy, and i'd ar rather they'd just tell me so i can decide for myself instead of having to figure out specials signs h... (read in full...)
What physical attributes do you like in a man?
Q. What physical attributes (body parts) do you like in a man? Ladies, here is a question which I hope you take your time in answering. I bet you Women hear that most guys love a women's "butt" or Breasts" or even "Height"...so now its your turn....
A. 23 March 2010: To be honest, the first thing i look at on a guy is his shoes. then face, then clothes. I prefer hairy legs to unhairy, and actually i prefer lean guys with a bit of muscle than massively musclely guys. I like guys hair a bit messy, lover eno... (read in full...)
I was attacked and now I am pregnant, I don't know if I should keep the baby
Q. Hi im in a bit of a mess, i am in a relationship with a person i have a son with. i was attacked about 4 weeks ago and now im 2 weeks late my partner doesnt know i was attacked no one does. I am in debt of 6k and im out of work im struggling ...
A. 22 March 2010: if your partner really loves you, he will love the baby as much as you.
But dont bring the baby into a world of hate, where all you can think about is that the father attacked you.
I agree with the other 'aunts' though, you seem very collecte... (read in full...)
Did he really mean it when he said he loved me?
Q. Hey, I'm 16 (female) and would really appreciate some help. right so the thing is ive been best friends with this guy for about a year and a half now, he's gay and we both had relationships with boys in the past. we do everything together school,...
A. 22 March 2010: Oh gosh, i don't know!
the first thing to do is talk to him about it. be straightforward!
then, decide whether you like him, and if yes, go for it for a while.
hope this helps a bit,
xxxx... (read in full...)
Confusing life... badly need help!
Q. 4 years ago,i was going out with a boy for three months...i was the one responsible for our breakup...i was afraid of my father because he's a strict man and he don't want to hear any boyfriends type of things from me...for him, at that time i had ...
A. 21 March 2010: hey.
tbh, i dont know how to help, but here gos.
your boyfriend sounds nice. direct, he loves you.
try talking to him. dont corner him just ask him if hes happy. how his studies are going. then ask, babe, are you angry at me? tell me, because... (read in full...)
Am I being bullied?
Q. There is a man at work who may be bullying me. At first he was really nice and charming and went out of his way to make me feel special. He knows that I am in a relationship but he spent a lot of time telling me I was nice / attractive. Then I ma...
A. 21 March 2010: he is a dick.
just ignore him. you are better than him, and show him that by holding your head up high.
x... (read in full...)
Molested by dad's friend?
Q. My friend let's call her "Giselle" and myself were touched by my parents friend. Last Friday my parents were having a small party most of the people there were grown-ups that worked at the University with my dad. Anyway half way through the party my ...
A. 21 March 2010: what a complete dickhead.
Just tell your parents right away, they won't care that hes their friend, they love you and will care more about you than him.
think about the fact that he will probably do this to other girls, and the fact that you are ... (read in full...)
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