I'm sleeping with a married man and he wants me to stay at his house. Should I?
Q. I am seeing a married guy 3 or 4 times a year we meet in cities away from home in Fl and or Ca I am 69 and he is 40. When in Ca I have dinner with him and his wifr, I am goig to Ca next and he suggested I stay at his home. Good idea ?????"??...
A. 23 May 2011: I know you already know the answer to your question. You did not make it to 60 not knowing how to cross the street. I would like to ask you a few questions that may just maybe jog your senses!
What you the purpose of your staying at the home he ... (read in full...)
He doesn't care if he sees me before I go on vacation, but wants me to buy his groceries for the next month! Am I right to be upset?
Q. I need advise from guys who can relate to my bf's kind of thinking. I am about to go on a vacation and I was thinking of spending more time with my boyfriend at least during the weekend. However, he told me today that he will come home on monday a...
A. 18 May 2011: You have every reason to have concern about your boyfriend being too busy to spend time with you before you leave for vacation. On the other hand, I would express to him that you wanted to spend time with him before you left for your vacation. L... (read in full...)
How do I know he is serious about me?
Q. I have been having an emotional affair with a married man. I have fallen in love with him. I have been in an unhappy marriage for the past few years and I have finally told my husband the truth about the way I am feeling. I am prepared to leave my ...
A. 16 May 2011: I am trying hard to understand what is going on here. I am going to try my best to answer or give my advice as I see things going on with you. First of all, you took the first step by telling your husband you are unhappy. You immediately said you ... (read in full...)
Contacted by my first years later, and he wants me to behave like a whore
Q. I am 55 yrs. old. Out of the blue and old boyfriend of mine from high school, contacted via facebook..He was my first. I was 17 years old and was what i thought was true love. I was inexperienced and scared back then. Throghout many years I have ...
A. 16 May 2011: I take my hat off to you because you have displayed a great sense of self esteem and you know who you are and where you have been. You know that it does not take a man always in our lives to be happy. You have given great thought and worked thru ... (read in full...)
How do you end an affair when you are "the other guy"?
Q. I posted a question similar to this one a while back, but I can't seem to motivate myself to end this, even though my mind is saying enough is enough! I've been involved with a married woman for a couple of years now, and I don't feel like I live in ...
A. 16 May 2011: Relationships are always hard to end and even harder when you have deep feelings for the person and when the relationship is so enjoyable. Of course, you know that a relationship wirh a married woman is a dead end. I am sorry that you got involves... (read in full...)
I have four kids and I am afraid to leave. Should I stay just for the kids?
Q. Hi. I have four kids under 5. My relationship with my husband has gotten cold and I feel extremely lonely. He has been looking online, as I found out not long ago for a companion, because he feels lonely too. He did not tell me anything about it. He ...
A. 16 May 2011: It is always difficult to leave a reltionship when children are involved. It is difficult to leave relationships period. But sometimes we have to think outside of the box and decide if a move will bring about more happiness and peace than staying. ... (read in full...)
Why would he still want to meet me if he's back with her?
Q. So my ex knows I'm meeting new guys... I got a text from him about meeting up with me and I agreed because I'm still not over him... My ex went and met with his ex a few days ago who is still completely in love with him and he texted me telling me ...
A. 15 May 2011: I can not believe your ex would text you and tell you these things. What wae the purpose of him doing so? Was he trying to make you jealous? Was he trying to hurt you? Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too! There is no reason for him t... (read in full...)
Hygenic to go back and forth between 2 places?
Q. I have a fantasy about having half anal sex and half vginal sex as in in and out of one for a bit then in the next hole, but is that hygienic!?...
A. 15 May 2011: No that can create problems for both you are your partner. It is important to use a condom and change it when you change sexual positions. There is different bacteria in the vagina and different bacteria as well as faecal matter in the anus. At ... (read in full...)
We're supposed to go on a two month trip together but now she's got feelings for another guy!
Q. I started dating this 27 year old mother of two girls, 9 and 10, back in November. We were in Spanish class together at the local community college and spent a lot of time talking about travel. A month later we booked a trip to south america for ...
A. 15 May 2011: It was a blessing that this woman told you that she rekindled a relationship that she had in the past. She could have continued to string you along and not tell you.
It is amazing that the two of you have continued a relationship as though i... (read in full...)
How do I get this man to wear deodorant?
Q. I am an American female and I've recently began dating a man from Saudi Arabia. I don't know if this is a cultural thing or a personal thing, but he does not wear deodorant and I am wondering how I might get him to start? He doesn't identify with a ...
A. 15 May 2011: I work in the Casino Industry and lots of employees I work with are from foreign countries and I share the same problem that you have expressed about them wearing deodorant. The stintch is very offensive and the air when they leave smells ter... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend has been acting distant!
Q. I have been in a relationship with this guy for the past 10 months. I love him more than anything and love keeps on increasing every moment. Initially, even he used to be very expressive of his love. Since we are in a long distance relation and ...
A. 15 May 2011: LDR are very difficult and require a lot of nurturing to stay alive. It is not known why all of the sudden change in your relationship and why the communication has slowed to almost none. Perhaps, one day he will share that with you and you will be ... (read in full...)
How long should I leave him to have his space?
Q. Well it seems every relationship i have ends up a distaster! Been with my bf for 4 months so not that long really but we get along great and we also work together in the same company so share mutual friends. Recently hes been distant with me ...
A. 15 May 2011: I believe you did the right thing by allowing your BF to be alone to get himself together. Males certainly have a different way of handling problems and it is many times difficult for them to talk about the problems because they are always trying to ... (read in full...)
Does he want me to chase him?
Q. So ive been seeing this guy for 5 months now. Things started off great, he would contact me every day and we would see eachother every few days. We admitted feelings for eachother, but he also told me he hasn't had a girlfriend in 4 years and the ...
A. 15 May 2011: It does appear that perhaps he does want you to pursue him when he said that his heart has a lock on it. It might have been good idea if you had told him right then and there to call you when he decides to unlock his heart because you are looking ... (read in full...)
Does he want me to chase him?
Q. So ive been seeing this guy for 5 months now. Things started off great, he would contact me every day and we would see eachother every few days. We admitted feelings for eachother, but he also told me he hasn't had a girlfriend in 4 years and the ...
A. 15 May 2011: It does appear that perhaps he does want you to pursue him when he said that his heart has a lock on it. It might have been good idea if you had told him right then and there to call you when he decides to unlock his heart because you are looking ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for a guy who doesn't want a relationship!
Q. Hey guys............ Ok, so the obvious has happened, I've fallen for a guy who Doesn't want a relationship. His 4 years younger then me, been single for 5 years and sleeps with lots of women...his honest and upfront about it. (which I appreciate) ...
A. 14 May 2011: Perhaps he does like you...he just does not like you enough have a relationship with you. In fact, he does not like you enough to even get upset if you have sex with some other man. He does not even like you enough to not share that he is seeing and ... (read in full...)
He puzzles me. Why Can't he show love for me? I miss his smiles. He doesn't listen and ignores me.
Q. Hi I have been married for 3 years, blessed with a son. The only problem is my husband.. he rarely smiles at me now, doesn't talk a lot with me, never spends his precious time listening to my "evening chat". When I married him 3 years ago, he wa...
A. 14 May 2011: Such a big age difference. I have heard that age is just a number but I certainly feel that age has a lot to do when it comes to relationships. Of course, there is a point in life where age difference does close in a bit. I personally belie... (read in full...)
How could he say this to me!
Q. My husband and I fought over something stupid on Mother's Day...we have not talked to each other about our child since then. On Monday our son had his last soccer game. We all went and some man held the door open for us as he was going out. I said ...
A. 14 May 2011: What a rude and terrible thing for a man to say to his wife. Where is the respect and love? I am certainly confused here as to why a jerk would say such a thing to his wife. Do you always allow him to talk to you this way? It is time that you st... (read in full...)
Ex took off when he found out I was pregnant, but I'm thinking of taking him back
Q. 14 months ago me and my bf were in a great relationship. we had so much love for each other it was unreal. however, i fell pregnant. he said he would stick around and support me even though he didnt really want it. anyway, that night he took off. he ...
A. 14 May 2011: What a complicated situation...You get pregnant by a man, he is told that is the father of your unborn child and he runs away for many months. You meet another man soon after he leaves and he steps up to the plate and plays the role of lover and ... (read in full...)
My married boss asked me out?!
Q. Am a girl and my boss is asking me for dating.he is married with two kids.what will i do....
A. 13 May 2011: You are a man and you are a woman...It appears that there is some attraction there. Your boss is asking you out and you dont know what to do is an indicator that both of you find something attractive about the other.
The fact that he is married ... (read in full...)
I married a mama's boy!
Q. I am just starting to realize that I have married a momas boy,he cant take a dump without asking his mom and dad first,the woman even had the nerve to try and pick out our bedroom suite a few weeks ago,my husband tells me shes just trying to help ...
A. 13 May 2011: WOW!!! It is unfortunate that you did not observe these things going on before you decided to marry this guy!! I wonder if it would have made a difference in your decision to marry him or not to marry him. Personally, I dont think it would have made ... (read in full...)
Why did he disregard the conversation and not call back?
Q. I am wondering why my boyfriend just hurried to get off the phone by telling me he had an important call to take. I was just getting ready to break up with him and I had started the conversation and he was participating in the conversation with very ...
A. 13 May 2011: Thank you for your responses. I am still in the relationship with him. It has been almost 5 months since I have seen him. I am not making any more calls to him and I am not sending any more texts. I am backing back as far as I can. There is a trip ... (read in full...)
Please give me suggesstion what shall I do?
Q. i am female of age 20. i am in love with man who is married and has three kids. he love me first and put proposals. i refused and said its not good. then he said me he cannot live without me. he will die, but still he says me he wants his family as ...
A. 13 May 2011: Oh my darling, you have fallen prey of a married man and you are caught up in his web. I am so sorry that you have such an issue to deal with.
First of all, married men are off limits!!! There is nothing a married man can offer you other than sex... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend buy me presents? I do it for him!
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I had learned that I had been so selfless in relationship. I had always bought him stuff, when I go to the mall, see something he would like, I buy for him. But he has never did anything like ...
A. 12 May 2011: It sounds like you are a very kind hearted and thoughtful person. I like your style sweetheart! But everybody is not deserving and many people will take advantage of people who are kind and giving, and some people have no self consious.
Perso... (read in full...)
Should I stop replying to my ex's texts?
Q. It's been two months since my ex and I broke up. We broke up because we had some communication problems which we both believe we could fix, though we decided we both don't want a relationship right now. He has said he wants to give us another ...
A. 12 May 2011: When a relationship ends it is not always easy to maintain any type of relationship with that individual. I often question...Why would I still want a relationship with someone I broke up with? Am I intrested in having a relationship with that person ... (read in full...)
Why am I to blame for everything?
Q. why does it seem that i am to blame for everything in my relationship? Any argument that we have, any fall out it is always me to blame, even when its not my fault ! My girlfriend and i have been together for a few years and on the most part have ...
A. 12 May 2011: Boy!! This is usually a complaint that women surrender all the time. Few men ever really take the necessary steps to find out what is wrong in a relationship when they feel things are not going right. We as women are always trying to be the ones to ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to deal with spouse's emotional affair
Q. please help im trying so hard to deal with my husbands emotional affair/flirting with a woman at work. we have only been married 17 months and im really trying but im so hurt and upset about it i cant stop the sadness. a few months ago when i was o...
A. 12 May 2011: I certainly understand why you are upset and sad. I would be in the same shoes had I experienced what you have. Cell phones can create so many problems for relationships when they should be a God sent device when it comes to keeping us in contact ... (read in full...)
I haven't heard a thing. Is it time for me to move on?
Q. i am feeling so depress right now.. i really need someone to tell me what to do.. i am so freaking out here..i have a bf online..we been in a LDR for 16months now.. the relationship became really serious.. we talk about our future and we even plan ...
A. 5 May 2011: What makes the internet so grand is the fact that we can get online and be whomever we want to be and the person on the other end does not know who we really are and may never know. It appears to me that your relationship seemed to be going along ... (read in full...)
I want to have a threesome but he has cheated in the past...
Q. I want to have a three sum with the man im planning on spending the rest of my life with. I trust that we can find someone that we are both comfortable with but... He has cheated in the past (we have gotten over it) an i have some issues with him ...
A. 5 May 2011: Thank you for informing me. I think my mate and I are very sexual people, at least we would like to think we are, and we have not had the desire for others to be in our bedroom. But I am open minded to the fact, each his own. Personally, I believe ... (read in full...)
He wants me to be one of those women who cleans the house and have dinner ready for their husbands; but I have a full job with a lot of stress and responsibilities.
Q. My relationship is going downfall. My bf and I don't get along. We disagree on pretty much everything. He is conservative, I am liberal, he plans everything, I live by the moment, he likes to eat at home, I like to eat out, he watches reality ...
A. 5 May 2011: Yes...start all over @33. Might be a good idea to do it as soon as possible if you feel that you can not make the relationship work with your present BF. I have certain ideas about a relationship and how things in a perfect world should and should ... (read in full...)
I want to have a threesome but he has cheated in the past...
Q. I want to have a three sum with the man im planning on spending the rest of my life with. I trust that we can find someone that we are both comfortable with but... He has cheated in the past (we have gotten over it) an i have some issues with him ...
A. 4 May 2011: First of all, help me to understand why you want to have a three some. I am 50 plus years old and perhaps I am way behind time here but I really want to know. I want to know what the excitement is? Who does what? Is it to be 2 females and a male or ... (read in full...)
My b/f keeps pushing me away. Why doesn't he just end things then?
Q. My boyfriend has been acting strange for the past couple of weeks! He keeps pushing me away more and more.. The other day he told me he is tired of me and told me not to come over to his place. He needs to focus on himself and not the relationship. ...
A. 4 May 2011: Apears to me that when boyfriend told you that he was tired of you that was the end of a relationship between the two of you. It also seems like this guy is very self centered, verbally abusive, and confused. We all have our ups and downs in life ... (read in full...)
After 3 years fiance says we aren't compatible and doesn't want to marry!
Q. I have been with my fiance for over three years. This was my choice as I wanted to be sure I loved the real her and she loved the real me. Asked her to marry me in June of this year and she happily accepted. We were scheduled to be wed in ...
A. 4 May 2011: You are very lucky that your to be wife let you know now that she no longer wants to marry you...better now than later when there is a marriage that involves children, a home, retirement plans, and bills. It is not so easy to walk away then because ... (read in full...)
Shall I fly over to plead with him to reconsider not breaking up? I don't know what to do
Q. My husband had to go to a conference. I even helped him pack. And put some sweet notes into his case so when he unpacked he would know i care. We had a bad patch last year when he was unfaithful when he promised he would never never do it again. I ...
A. 3 May 2011: Oh my...I feel your pain and I know your heart aches. It is not easy to accept a break up when you love the person owho no longer wants to be in a relationship. It appears that Angie and your husband have continued this affair and have made plans ... (read in full...)
Why do they go soft when we try to have sex? Is it me?
Q. dear cupid i have been with my boyfriend for a while now everytime we start to make love hes try to inter me and he gets soft on me and leaves me hanging. he is 50 years i am 53. i have had this same thing happen t me in the pastwith other m...
A. 3 May 2011: It is not uncommon for men starting in their 40.s to have problems with erections and keeping an errection. I understand that the better care a man has taken care of himself has a lot to do with this issue. Another possible cause could be the ... (read in full...)
Why did he disregard the conversation and not call back?
Q. I am wondering why my boyfriend just hurried to get off the phone by telling me he had an important call to take. I was just getting ready to break up with him and I had started the conversation and he was participating in the conversation with very ...
A. 3 May 2011: I would have loved to have broken up with him face to face but he is an over the road truck driver and it could be months before we see each other again...this is a LDR. He did call back about 3 hours later and he was fine. In fact, he proceeded in ... (read in full...)
When Does the Art of Compromise Become Compromising?
Q. I have been dating my BF for about 9 months and our relationship is getting very serious. We are both 33 years old and have had our share of bad relationships and no luck in love until we met each other and are now looking at taking things to the ...
A. 2 May 2011: I believe you are thinking in the right direction when you wrote that you are worried about being married to a man who denies the things that you like to do with friends. It is important, rather married or in a relationship with someone that we dont ... (read in full...)
I miss him. Please can someone tell me how to get through this?
Q. I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 25, we have been together for seven years and he has been in the army for the last 5. We are really happy together and love each other so much that we are ready to take the next step and buy a house. I've never bee...
A. 2 May 2011: I have been dating an over the road truck driver for nearly 5 years now and I only got to see him once a week when he was here in the city I live. We usually spent the evening he was here in a local casino, had dinner together, and spent the night ... (read in full...)
How did my boyfriend move on so fast? I can't even forget him! Please Help!
Q. Me and my boyfriend (now ex boyfriend) have been dating on and off for a year.The first time we broke up was over me being on vacation and him having trust issues and him wanting me to come home early so we decided we wouldn't talk for awhile .Well ...
A. 25 February 2011: I am so sorry that you are hurting and going thru relationship withdrawls. It is a difficult process to rid ourselves of feelings for other human beings who have been an inticate part of our lives. I do believe that time heals us.
As far as your ... (read in full...)
My husband gave his blessings for my having an affair. Opinions?
Q. Okay, maybe I shouldn't have to think so hard about this, but I'm in a predicament...I'm married to a wonderful and kind and loving and a man who thinks the world of me and an acquaintance friend of ours (we're all the same age)wants to get toge...
A. 25 February 2011: Oh my...it seems to me like this may be a wonderful thing for you and the new lover, if you will. What man is willing to allow another man to have sex with his wife? In my neck of the woods where I come from that is something that a husband would ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to love two women?
Q. Can a man really love two women? I'm in love with two women and don't know which to choose, its hard one is my baby's-mother. I'm so confused!...
A. 25 February 2011: There are so many reasons why we fall in love and love someone. Personally, I believe that loving more than one person is very well possible. It is a situation where someone gets hurt. You many not have to make a decision between the two of ... (read in full...)
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