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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2011): I was in a position where I really fancied my boss and wished he would ask he out on a date. He was married with kids. He flirted continuously with me and the attraction between us grow very strong. However, he remained very professional and never did. I have now left the company and we continue to be in touch but nothing has never happened.I dont see any harm in a social drink with you boss but keep it out of the view of others. DO NOT ALLOW HIM TO USE YOU SEXUALLY as he is married and you will get hurt.If you find yourself like me really attracted to him, you may what to leave as it will build and build the more you see him. People will start to notice as we can not always control our body language. If he is in an unhappy relationship become his friend and confidant and let him talk to you.A lot of people meet their partners at work.(So what if he is the boss). On this site everyone immediately puts their backs up when you mention the word married and become very negative. There are lots of married people in very unhappy relationships and just stay for the kids and for fear of being alone. There is someone very everyone and we only live once!I would never allow a married man to use me and I would never want to be classed as a home wreker.Be there as a friend but try to avoid creating any kind of gossip.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2011): Just ignore him, he just want to use you. I have been there and I am about leave my job because of this.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (14 May 2011):
 Tell him that you are very flattered but under the circumstances( HE IS MARRIED, HE IS YOUR BOSS) you are unable to accept.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2011): don't do it find another job and say your with someone or just say your gay that always works but it is going to be awkward
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reader, IAMDONE  +, writes (13 May 2011):
You are a man and you are a woman...It appears that there is some attraction there. Your boss is asking you out and you dont know what to do is an indicator that both of you find something attractive about the other.
The fact that he is married means that he is not available and is off limits. So there is no reason to wonder what you should do. This is certainly a huge problem that you can nip in the bud right now!!! Stay away from a married man. He is married and a husband to his wife for a reason and it is now because he does not love her.
Look for a single man and enjoy his company!!! Stay away from fire!
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reader, KeighleySky  +, writes (13 May 2011):
 Do not say yes.
He is your boss, both of you could get into trouble, but that isnt the worst of it is it?
he is married and has children. If e threatens to fire you then you quit.
He is not worth your time at all.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 May 2011):
You say no. Don't lower yourself to his level.
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