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writes:I am just starting to realize that I have married a momas boy,he cant take a dump without asking his mom and dad first,the woman even had the nerve to try and pick out our bedroom suite a few weeks ago,my husband tells me shes just trying to help but shes a spitefull old bitty,she puts on a show like shes all high class when in reality she fools no one but her self.we cant leave the house that my husband doesnt find a reason to run to their house for something every christmas I have to drag up there and sit all day and night with these fake people who act like there better than everyone else,the way i see it i didnt marry his mom and dad i married him.how do i get him to realize its time to grow up,it even tell in the BIBLE when you marry to leave you parents and cling to your wife.they know everything about how much we have in the bank to how many times we have sex a month im not sure how much longer i can take it
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for you guts responding to answer no his mother isnt paying for it,i have christmas dinner here also ,his mother and dad never come.i feel she was just playing one of her little mind games with the bed thing,anyways weve not gotten one yet .a word of advice dont get married because all a man want is a replacement for his mother ,they will stop treating you as if your a woman,they forget the meaning of the word romance and it's as if they never heard of the word forplay......
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reader, IAMDONE +, writes (13 May 2011):
WOW!!! It is unfortunate that you did not observe these things going on before you decided to marry this guy!! I wonder if it would have made a difference in your decision to marry him or not to marry him. Personally, I dont think it would have made a difference because you love him. Now that you are married it is a little difficult for you to handle the family thing!I am always sharing with my son that there is a big picture when it comes to marrying someone. Not only is it a commitment to the wife, it is a commitment to her family as well in spite of what the Bible says. It is just the way things work. If you want to take a even closer look at the Bible...the story of Ruth! Now in my book, Ruth was a bad sista. That story is a classical example of family and inlaws. Read it when you have the opportunity.Did your mother in law try to pick out your bedroom suite because she is footing the bill? Just askin??? If it is a purchase that you and your husband are making then I am sure you know that it is a given that you will buy and pay for what you like. I would certainly listen to any suggestions that she has regarding the purchase. Sometimes knowing small things such as how the wood wears, the brand, and the construction can be helpful in making a decision on what to buy.It is unfortunate that you feel that you are being dragged to your inlaws house for Christmas. What about your family? Where is your family? Have you ever thought about entertaining for Christmas at your house and inviting your inlaws to your house for Christmas? If you entertain for Christmas then you are in the comfort of your home with these so called "dreaded" people. Your own turf might make you feel a little better. After all, Christmas and all other holidays are days that families come together. Personally, I would have the holidays no other way.It is important to realize...when we marry someone, we marry that family as well. It is mjust the way that it is.How much money you have in the bank and how many times a week you have sex is not something they should know unless you and your husband are always borrowing or asking them for money. I would discuss with my husband that them knowing these things makes you uncomfortable and that you would prefer that they dont know these things. It is important for you to let him know these things as soon as possible.Good Luck...family is always going to be around!
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