Boyfriend hates oral: I can't cum without it!
Q. my boyfriend hates giving me oral sex and thats the only way i'm able to orgasm, i have vibrators and other various things. has anyone got any suggestions ...
A. 23 October 2008: If he's off sex all together then it could be a sign that your relationship is winding down.
Tell him he has to talk to you about it, as it's not a problem that's going to fix itself.
Don't be afraid to end things before they get too bad thou... (read in full...)
How can HE be happy?
Q. I am still sad, but finally angry. I was married 30 years. Five years ago, my husband walked out very abruptly. I didn't learn till after the divorce that he had met someone on-line from Malaysia and was going to bring her here. (This was a good ...
A. 23 October 2008: Are there any support groups that you cold go to locally?
Unfortunately your husband turned out to be a horrible man and I'm sorry but horrible people exist.
He's lost his kids, and his wife and I'm guessing his new dial a bride will not m... (read in full...)
Lost my confidence when my gf and I broke up! How do I get it back?
Q. Hi over the last few months I had some problems I broke up with my girlfriend and I have been made redundant I have lost all my confidences and worst of all my ex has destroyed most of my friendships with my friendp with my gf-- in a quick ...
A. 23 October 2008: Call your friends, they will have you back once you grovel a bit.
As for the job, I know the economy is in a mess at the moment but there is work out there, you just have to think outside the box.
Don't look for the job you've always done, loo... (read in full...)
Caught my husband doing my sister!
Q. I left work early cause I didn't feel well. And I caught my husband doing my sister (now my pregnant sister who I'm not talking too). Here's a surprise he's drunk again. We also have a 3 week son who's very needy. I'm so upset I threw my wedding ...
A. 23 October 2008: I'm sorry to hear this happened to you. But I think Icelordess is right... this is not something I could ever forgive of either of them.
Contact a lawyer and get him to call the husband saying to stay away or you will get a restraining order. Y... (read in full...)
Her words don't match her actions! What to I do?
Q. Hi Everyone, I am really confused by this girls actions. I have a new neighbor she is 20 yr old. I am 40 and single. She came over and introduced herself the first week and asked if she could her laundry since she does not have a washer/dryer. I ...
A. 23 October 2008: I really don't think she is acting in a planned or malicious way. But think about it....
You are a girl, new to the area, and this guy is lovely to you, listens to you, replies to all your texts so you get chatting all day and all night, makes yo... (read in full...)
I can't afford him any more but I can't kick him out either!
Q. Well, my problem is with my lazy, unambitious boyfriend, he went to london for 2years where he had the time of his life, he worked, he travelled europe no that he's back in south africa he's so depressed.... he's been back for two years.... he hasnt ...
A. 23 October 2008: You've got to tell him that he has until the end of the month to pay you some money towards the house and for the money you gave him.
Have you told him you are failing exams because of him? Does he not care about your future and educatio... (read in full...)
Her dad is very overprotective, and won't even let me speak to her anymore! Help!
Q. Okay, so I met this girl awhile ago, and we didn't really talk until about a week or two ago. The fact is, we both really matured and we both REALLY like each other, I mean I have never ever felt this way about a girl before. I just want to be ...
A. 23 October 2008: Are you the same kid who keeps asking for advice on this?
My advice is to take the advice you've already been given. Back off and be her friend.
You are too young to be able to get around her parents. She has to respect what they say for a f... (read in full...)
He keeps asking for sex. Do you think I should have sex or should I wait?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my BF for 5 months and we have known each other for 1 and half years. We have not have sex yet. But we have french kissed and cuddled. He keeps asking for sex. He says that we should take it further because it is a ...
A. 23 October 2008: Yeah I bet he says lots of thing about why he should be allowed into your pants.
You need to tell him you are not ready and want to wait for a while longer.
If he keeps nagging then he is not the guy to lose your virginity to and you should l... (read in full...)
Boyfriend hates oral: I can't cum without it!
Q. my boyfriend hates giving me oral sex and thats the only way i'm able to orgasm, i have vibrators and other various things. has anyone got any suggestions ...
A. 22 October 2008: He may hate it but he could put up with it for you every now and then. Find out what he hates about it... would it be easier for him if there was less hair or if he did it when you were fresh from the shower?
Also, fair is fair and if he doesn't ... (read in full...)
It's killing me waiting for her to move on....
Q. My gf and I broke up 6 weeks ago. She hasn’t gotten over it (i.e. she keeps sending me emails and we keep “accidently” running into each other) and I miss her a lot. I don’t think she’s the one (she's not a life partner - too irresponsible, ...
A. 22 October 2008: Well since you have decided you are on the hunt for a wife and not a girlfriend then you just have to move on with out her.
Go out and find a girl who's up to your standards and get married.
Your ex will have to learn to move on but you are c... (read in full...)
How can I get rid of the excess fat on my belly?
Q. ok. im 16 years old im about 5ft5 / 5ft6? and i weigh 10stone... FAT I KNOW! what is the best way to get rid of my fatty belly, and tone it up if not get a 6pack abs? i dont want to go to the gym. i would rather do it at home or on the park...
A. 22 October 2008: Eat healthier food and exercise more. That is all there is to it. Do some crunches and make sure you aren't getting hungry, just eat healthier stuff when you feel the urge.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is four months long enough?
Q. i have been with a guy for nearly 4 months and im happy but he is asking about sex. im not sure if im ready and is 4 months long enough?? its just that everytime we're alone together we come so close to having it and i have to stop because im not ...
A. 22 October 2008: It it right once you feel you are ready to give yourself up to him.
But you need to be honest and tell him if you are no where near ready, or he is going to keep getting his hopes up and then getting frustrated. That's not fair to anyone. ... (read in full...)
How much longer do I have to live like this?
Q. hello , i'm a 38 year old guy living in nashville ,tn and i've been divorced ever sence i was 30 , i have had some brick walls to climb over to get where i am today i went to two boarding schools when i was younger and got pstd i ...
A. 22 October 2008: Hi this question really should have been rejected by moderators as you have mentioned suicide. We can't help you because you clearly have an illness and need medical help to get through this before you even think about sorting out the emotional ... (read in full...)
Her dad doesn't want her to date...
Q. Alright, so I have PRACTICALLY been dating this girl for about 13 months (we have never called each other boyfriend and girlfriend). We do a lot together, especially talk on the phone, haha. She had gotten her phone taken away by her father 2 wee...
A. 22 October 2008: You just need to back off and be her friend.
And try and get her to invite you round to her house for tea so you can meet her dad and show him that you can just be a male friend to his daughter and respect him (fear him) enough not to push tha... (read in full...)
Are my friends just jealous or genuinely worried about me?
Q. I was a perfect size 8 but because all of my friends are bigger than me (sizes 14+) I thought well I'm never going to be as big as them so I'll eat what I want when I want.. but recently I have put on around TWO stone!! I am now a size 12. A lot ...
A. 22 October 2008: If they say they don't want you to diet because it makes them feel bad then they are just jealous.
There is nothing wrong with eating healthily.
However, diet pills are either going to be at best, some useless herbs, and it worst, something... (read in full...)
Our relationship is being ruined by this guy!
Q. Hi, thanks for reading. I've been going out with this guy for about a month. Let's call him Bob. I love him to bits and he's really sweet. And then there is this other guy. Let's call him Ted. He has this insane crush on me and he won't leave me a...
A. 22 October 2008: I don't think your boyfriend will leave you unless he's very weak. Why would he be threatened by this when he knows this boy is just a psycho?
Tell Ted to leave you alone or you will tell a teacher he is harassing you.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How can I stop her from keeping baking me cookies?
Q. Hi, I'm 13, my mum keeps baking cookies for me and I don't like them. I've spoken to her about this but she insists on baking them. The other day I opened up my lunch box at school and there they were, her home made cookies. I can't stand the taste ...
A. 22 October 2008: I think she has suddenly realised that you are nearly a teenager and this is her way of holding on to you and being your mum.
Smile sweetly at your mum, say thank you and then go to school and put the cookies in the bin, or give them to someone ... (read in full...)
Is it legal and okay for me to move in with him when I'm not 18 yet?
Q. Hi, I am a girl of 17 in a wonderful relationship with a 27 year old guy. I am planning to leave home, transfer my college and move in with my boyfriend in 2 weeks time. My parent are not so happy with my decision but I have been with him for 6 ...
A. 22 October 2008: Wow, 6 months is Not a long time to know someone before moving in.
And I have no idea how I would have got through my a-levels if I had to work / pay rent / bills / do washing / cooking.
Don't risk your future just because you want the romance... (read in full...)
I can't stop using the adult chat room!
Q. Hi. I am 15 and have got many problems. Firstly I can't stop using this adult chatroom. This chatroom is mainly used by men and of course is only for people over 18. When I'm on it I completley reinvent myself and make up story's as I go along. ...
A. 22 October 2008: Dude you are just a teenager. Chillout and breathe.
It is TERRIFYING when you hit your age and suddenly realise that you have NO idea who you are. Now is suddenly the time when it hits you. You are on the starting line and ready to start heading ... (read in full...)
How do I get my girlfriend to stop pressuring me?
Q. Hi My name is Jenny i am a lesbien who has just come out to my family and my girlfiend keeps pushing me further she wants to move in together i have told her that this is going to fast we have only dated for two months and i just dont know what to ...
A. 22 October 2008: There's an old joke on the gay scene:
What's the difference between a lesbian second date and a gay second date?
A lesbian woman will bring a moving van on the second date and a gay man will... wait, what second date?
Women are far more in... (read in full...)
Is it possible to change someone's mind about being single?
Q. In what way is it possible to change somebodys mind about been single at university? This girl inparticular isnt like alot of other girls. She wants to be single to have fun with her mates, be able to only have to think about herself and not ...
A. 22 October 2008: You can't force her to change her mind.
If she wants to be single then the only way she will change her mind is when she realises that single life is not as good as she thought.
However, it may be just as good as she thinks it will be.
It's... (read in full...)
I don't want to break his heart...
Q. Hi, I wrote before about my boyfriend, and I am sure I want to break up with him. The thing is, he loves me like hell and I don't know how to do it! I know I sound desperate, but is there a way to break up with him without breaking his heart? xxx...
A. 22 October 2008: Nope, you are going to have to hurt him if he loves you and you don't love him.
Tell him that you don't feel the same way and you don't want to be with him. You can't lead him on or suggest that it might work out with time, you have to tell him... (read in full...)
Meds for sex...
Q. Please suggest some medicine by which any lady gets horny and ready for sex?...
A. 22 October 2008: Are you planning to date rape someone?
There is no magic juice that makes a woman want to willing have sex with a man who she does not like.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
His ex is a pathological liar--I am sick of dealing with her! Advice?
Q. Hey every one, have a bit of a dilemma.my husband's ex is a total bender, i am sick of dealing with her.i want some help. let me start. she befriended me as soon as she found out who i was and as our children went to the same school i wud see...
A. 22 October 2008: I don't think starting a text war. She does have a problem but no she is not going to talk about it with you.
You just need to back away from her. Let your husband pick up the kid for visits and then treat her exactly as you and he think is the r... (read in full...)
My gf doesn't want sex that much...has the spark gone?
Q. I have been with my partner for 5 years and at the moment I feel like we are an old married couple. We only have sex once a week, when we do it is amazing but it leaves me wanting more. We are only young after all! We have tried all sorts of things ...
A. 22 October 2008: All you get in the media..... yeah, and the media is a very accurate way of finding out about what your girlfriend wants. Questions have been raised in parliament about lads mags and their portrayal of girls as "gagging for it" and as sex objects.
... (read in full...)
Is he using the excuse of phoning his daughter a smokescreen for talking to his ex?
Q. i have been with my boyfreind nearly a yr.but the problem is his ex!!!they have a little girl together and he says he never rings or txts the ex any more.but when we first met i find out that he had rang her 43 times in 1 day and when i asked him ...
A. 22 October 2008: The other answers may well be right but I thought I'd give an alternative.
It's sounds like the Ex is not over him and hates you for "stealing her man" so it could be that he is stuck in the middle.
She threatens to deny access to the kids unle... (read in full...)
What should I do to make this right?
Q. my best friend is kind of obsessed with this guy we go to school with named ''todd'' who's a year older than us and is a sophomore. she knows practically every single thing about him: his hobbies,b-day,class schedule, middle name, everything. well, ...
A. 22 October 2008: So you let her make a fool of herself chasing this guy and all the time you were dating him behind her back and laughing at her?
Or was it that you knew she really liked him already but he asked you out and you thought "meh, why not? I don't ca... (read in full...)
We can't stop fighting, how can we get better?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 9 months now and i am completely in love and i know that he is too, but we fight almost every couple of days, and not little fights, most of the time we say we are going to break up (even though we both know we wont ...
A. 22 October 2008: Things will never magically get better.
As a couple you may have feelings for eachother but this is it. A nasty circle of shouting and hurt.
This relationship is not a good one to be in and I think you should call it quits for both your sakes.... (read in full...)
If we are just going out, what can I do to get her in the mood for sexual things?
Q. How do I sexually turn on a girl??? for example, my friend and I were hanging out together, and me being a guy, i was basically turned on by looking at her, lol. However, she did not want to do anything sexual that night. My question is, if ...
A. 22 October 2008: If you are asking how to seduce a girl into sleeping casually with you or a friend then you are out of luck.
If you want to turn on a girl then the best bet is to date her, get to know her, fall in love with her, make her fall in love with you... (read in full...)
My boss says he loves me, but its more of a sick infatuation.
Q. I have a boss that frequently hits on me and claimed that he loved me. It's very uncomfortable and I tried to make it clear i was not into dating him. he write messages with strange "i love you's" or things like "When we are married in vermont,...
A. 22 October 2008: I agree with the other messages, they think they can scare you because they are older than you and you won't stand up for yourself.
Keep a note of what happens and all the notes and things you are sent and then threaten to sue them if they don... (read in full...)
Why is it, that middle age men lose their sex drives?
Q. Why is that ,that middle age man loses their sex drive? Are they losing it only with their wifes? Why is that, when they get a new relationship they get it back? So is this their hormones,or just boredom ? Why is that that this is more likely t...
A. 22 October 2008: He's probably just getting to the point where he sees you more as a respectable woman in your own right, and the mother of his children. He no longer sees you as the sex kitten you used to be.
It's not about dressing up as a prostitute to compete ... (read in full...)
I have personal issues about this woman from his past! Why am I like this?
Q. I love my Fiance, and we are getting married in 5 months. There is a relationship in his past that really bothers me. She was divorced and with a child. She was a bartender at a trashy young bar and lived at home with her parents. She also ...
A. 22 October 2008: You are feeling threatened because he went for a girl who was so different to you - does she have something that you don't?
So hearing details from him about how horrible and low she was makes you feel better about yourself because you can feel... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he broke up with me but still wants the emotional connection? What's up with this guy?
Q. My BF broke up with me two months ago, and we didn't talk for five week, but now he is calling me two or three times a week and if I didn't cut off the conversation after 30 or 40 minutes, he would just keep on talking. I'm confused. He said he ...
A. 22 October 2008: I think you need to ask him what he wants from you.
Ask him if he keeps calling because he wants to get back together? He may have no idea that he's leading you on and thinks you are fine with just being good friends.
Tell him that since he du... (read in full...)
Is having a virtual gf, with the intent of meeting her in real life....a good thing or not?
Q. ok,well lets see who can help me, many of you might know what a Vworld is, many might not, here is a link to one of the many www.kaneva.com i want to know, Is have a virtual g/f is a good thing or not? eg: getting ego boost so you can go fo...
A. 22 October 2008: If you are paying a girl to be nice to you then you will never have a chance with her in real life.
That's not her... that's a persona she puts on to make men like her enough to pay to speak to her.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
What are the most reliable tell-tale signs that a man is attracted to a woman?
Q. What are the most reliable tell-tale signs that a man is seriously attracted to a woman? I've read books, magazines, web stuff etc. etc. over the years and I'm still none the wiser! Sometimes I think a man is attracted to me or fancies me only to ...
A. 22 October 2008: Unfotunately there is no idiot proof guide... you just have to watch the way they look at you and see if they pay extra attention to you over all the others.
Make your self available (being open and aproachable) if you like someone and hopefull... (read in full...)
Do I wait for him to kiss me...or what?
Q. this guy who i have known for about a month now at college is coming to my flat tommorow, we have been texting each other all the time and we are always flrting when we are together, we are going to watch a film and have a drink!! i want to kiss him ...
A. 22 October 2008: You just have to get him in a position where he will be close to you and then stare into his eyes and hope he doesn't get scared and break it off.
Good Bye hugs are good for this, or you can prod him until he grabs you and ends up holding you. You... (read in full...)
Can we continue to live together as a threesome?
Q. I have been married for a few years now and recently i met a girl and she moved in with me and my wife, i have got children with my wife and after sitting down and talking for a long while we decided it would be best that we stay together but ...
A. 22 October 2008: There was a documentary on about polygamy last night. Have a look on the net to see if you can watch it again online or if it is repeated. It was on Channel 4 I think.
If you can support both women then you could give it a go but very few people w... (read in full...)
I called my girlfriend fat, I apologized, she won't talk to me, will we get back together?
Q. My girlfriend (shes 18 and im 19) is through this phase thinking shes fat (trust me shes not). And because of it she wont let me see her naked anymore. We do make do but she lets got to the point where I cant control myself. We have been fighting a ...
A. 22 October 2008: I think you need to just back off this girl. You have heart her really badly and she's still to angry to even think about accepting an appology.
Leave her alone and let her be the one to contact you. You may have to face the fact you have lost her... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to a man who's as old as my dad. What do I do?
Q. I have started a new job with a great position, I think my boss is a wonderful person he has an amazing charisma, strong and powerful but he is 26 years older than I am married with kids:( I'm so confused I admit I like him, I know it is totally ...
A. 22 October 2008: You sound as though you don't want him to stop.. but you say you do.
If you want him to carry on then let him continue, and if you don't then dress more conservatively and do not flirt of let him get you into a situation where he can make a move. ... (read in full...)
Does he disrespect me because I was a lap dancer?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together 6 months. Well before i met my boyfriend i was a lapdancer which he has always known from the start of our relationship. I made an innocent comment about dancing the other day, which led him to call me a slag, a ...
A. 21 October 2008: He obviously has a problem and I think you need to tell him he needs to deal with it or you will leave him.
Tell him that he's said hw wouldn't be horrible to you like that before and he's broken that trust.
Tell him if he ever so much as think... (read in full...)
Should I stop paying the mortgage?
Q. My Ex-partner lives in the house we own jointly. I have moved out into another property and now pay 2 mortgages. She refuses to pay her half of mortgage and expects me to pick up her tab. I have asked that house be auctioned she refuses; the house ...
A. 21 October 2008: Go to the bank and explain the situation. They will then go harassing her for her half of the debt.
Other than that I think you have to start organising an auction and tell her that unless she starts paying the mortgage then you will stop paying a... (read in full...)
Possessive boyfriend that makes no sense!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have recently broken up but he seems to be really possesive over me. He always checks my texts and my phone call list to see who i've been talking to. When im out he'll call me up to see who im with and where i am. One day he'l...
A. 21 October 2008: He's obviously upset and confused about the break up so is acting strangely.
You need to be firm with him and tell him it's none of his business. Don't let him have your phone to check on your life and don't answer his calls when you are out.
... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to a man who's as old as my dad. What do I do?
Q. I have started a new job with a great position, I think my boss is a wonderful person he has an amazing charisma, strong and powerful but he is 26 years older than I am married with kids:( I'm so confused I admit I like him, I know it is totally ...
A. 21 October 2008: If you want to have an office affair then think hard about 2 things:
1: He's married. You will only ever be his bit on the side. You'll be a younger girl he goes to for fun and then goes back to his wife at night.
2: When it ends or a younge... (read in full...)
I called my girlfriend fat, I apologized, she won't talk to me, will we get back together?
Q. My girlfriend (shes 18 and im 19) is through this phase thinking shes fat (trust me shes not). And because of it she wont let me see her naked anymore. We do make do but she lets got to the point where I cant control myself. We have been fighting a ...
A. 20 October 2008: You basically just told her "all those times I said you weren't fat, and every time I said you were beautiful... well they were all lies." Send her flowers - roses - and grovel. If she won't speak to you then you will have to do it through lette... (read in full...)
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