What I want to know is should I give this another shot? Do I have the right to know if she had sex with this guy?
Q. About 3 1/2 weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me. We had both become stressed from living with my parents, working, going to school, and raising our young son. The relationship unraveled. She says she loves me emotionally but not physically. ...
A. 1 October 2008: If you love her and want to be with her then you have to let this go, and move on. It's all in the past so can't be changed so it doesn't matter.
Move on from this if both of you want to.
You were broken up, she didn't cheat, she was having i... (read in full...)
What do I do or say to get her to be with me?
Q. ok me and this mykala girl i like a girl were talkin we started likin each other and she said she lke this other guy but she didnt tell me who it was andshe sad she liked me more tan him everything was fine and i found out who she liked not by her ...
A. 1 October 2008: I'd say from the way that you type that you are quite young.
It could be that if she is that young too that she just doesn't want to have a boyfriend.
Be her friend and get to know her. She may decide she wants to start dating you after all.
... (read in full...)
Help! I need tips on how to win my ex back!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been arguin 4 a while now and things went a bit OTT and we split up. Does anyone hav any tips on how i could win him back? X...
A. 1 October 2008: Figure out why you were arguing all the time and change it.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
If I get pregnant what would I do?
Q. Hi another one form me My boyfriend keeps suggesting sex. But as I am only 15 and it is against the law at the moment, I am scared of what people will think or if I get pregnant what would I do? I do want to but above are my worries. What shall I ...
A. 1 October 2008: So lets say all his mates have hit their girlfriend. Does that mean you should take a punch?
If he was so desperate to be like his mates, he could have gone out with a slutty girl.
But he chose you. So he has to respect your boundaries and i... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to do better in Math?
Q. I have problems in Math since the start of my 7th grade. I'm now a Sophomore and I see the difficulty. My first language is French,I live in Belgium.I passed the Math exam in 7th,8th,9th grades with a percent of 55.I took courses with a special ...
A. 1 October 2008: I don't know how it works in America but I am a radio journalist in the UK, and here, as long as all your other grades are ok then you should be able to get on a good course at university.
Journalism schools are more interested in your English ... (read in full...)
Do I have to tell him the truth to save our relationship?
Q. I really need help! Ive been with my so called boyfriend for 2years now, wll I say "so called" because 9months into the realtionship he told me he had a girlfriend he had been with for 7years!!! I obviously finished with him but some how he worm...
A. 1 October 2008: This guy is accusing you of cheating on him because he has a guilty concscience and can't cope with the fact that you are clearly a better human being than him.
Since you aren't bothered that he's clearly abusing your trust and treating you with... (read in full...)
Boyfriend in control....
Q. Dear cupid, I love my boyfriend very much. But when ever I go to visit him or if I go to his house he only wants to play computer games unless were out. Also he likes to control me whenever he doesn't get something when I don't want him to have it ...
A. 1 October 2008: "I wasn't allowed to watch my own tv."
He's being an idiot and acting like a spoiled little boy.
If you allow him to treat you this way then he's going to treat every girlfriend he ever has like this and they will all leave him and he will die ... (read in full...)
Should my wife mourn me for the rest of her life or move on? I'm terminally ill.
Q. I don't know how to start, but I've been diagnosed with a 'potentialy terminal illness'. There is about a 50% chance I won't live more than a year. If I go into remission, then I guess we take it month by month from there on. We have 3 kids, alm...
A. 1 October 2008: The reason you wife doesn't want to think about anyone else and doesn't think she'll want anyone else is because YOU AREN'T DEAD YET!!!
It's not up to you what she does. It's not up to opinion of what's best. It's her choice. She may choose t... (read in full...)
Why am I obsessing over this guy?
Q. Ok I have a problem which some people might think is a waste of time but im really confused and i dont know how i feel. Theres this guy that i cant stop thinking about, I literally spend every second thinking about him and wishing we could be ...
A. 1 October 2008: You've created an imaginary boyfriend for yourself. This is exactly the same as when teenagers say they are "in love with" their teacher. They don't know the teacher at all. They only see a tiny part of their life and the professional personality ... (read in full...)
Do I confront my boyfriend about being gay?
Q. not really sure where to start but here goes..... i had been with my boyfriend for over 3 years and thought he was 'the one' i then discovered he had stolen all my savings and spent them on some online computer game. i also found out that he had ...
A. 1 October 2008: If he managed to steal all your money and pretend he had a job for year when he'd been sacked then don't you think it's possible that he was into all this dressing up and going with men all along?
His sexuality is no reflection on you. The only... (read in full...)
Do I ask her out on Monday or is it okay to wait until I'm on holiday?
Q. Ok,, I'm having a bit of a problem. Theres this girl I like and I think she does me, thing is, I can't bring myself to ask her out, or even ask for her number, I do talk to her quite a bit and I really believe that shes meant for me. Now, 2 th...
A. 1 October 2008: Just do it!!!
If she's going to say no then she will. It doesn't matter whether you are on holiday or not.
It doesn't really affect anything if you do it on monday or wednesday or the weekend.
Good Luck!! xx
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I know I should break up with him, but it will be harder to do it the second time!
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend a couple weeks ago and last friday he tried to make me jealous telling me that he had a new gf. i really didnt care but it still bothered me. he keeps asking me to go back out with him and i just felt soo annoyed and ...
A. 1 October 2008: Well you can either live a lie for the rest of your life because you haven't got the guts to stand up for yourself.
OR
You can get some self respect and tell him it's not working. Tell him that you wanted to give it a try but that you only go... (read in full...)
I don't know what to think anymore. Everytime I leave the house I feel like she is talking to someone else. Any thoughts?
Q. Hi. My situation seems like a pretty common one. But I don't know what to do. My girlfriend and I have been dating 8 months and we moved in together after 3 months. At first everything was great and it only seemed to change a month ago. She now ...
A. 1 October 2008: You moved in together very quickly.
I think you need to sit her down and ask her about these things. Ask her what has changed.
It could be that your relationship is just winding down. 8 months is not a long time to be together and to be having... (read in full...)
This woman sent a picture of a semi naked woman to her boss, my husband! Am I to believe this was a joke?
Q. I recently found an e.mail from my husband's receptionist displaying a photograph of a woman who had her boobs hanging out. He said this was a joke but why would she send this type of thing to her boss? Do you think she's having some kind of...
A. 1 October 2008: Did she send it to him and him only, or everyone in her email address book?
I suggest you call her and ask her what she meant by this email.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
We took a break during which I had sex with two guys. Should I tell him or not? He said he would not talk to me if I did this!
Q. ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month but we're really serious im in college and i stay with him... we are so in love..but, we recently took a break and i had sex with 2 other guys...1 which i regret and the other i'm happy it ...
A. 1 October 2008: So he doesn't want to commit to you or even call you his girlfriend.... and you take breaks in the relationship but you are not allowed to see anyone else?
You say he hasn't given you a title... I'll give you one.
"Door Mat."
He walks all ov... (read in full...)
Would a guy get jealous when you talk to other men even when he says he is not interested in you?
Q. Would a guy get jealous when you talk to other men even when he says he is not interested in you?...
A. 1 October 2008: If he's a fruit cake / your big brother then yes he could be bothered.
Or he could be interested in you but only for sex.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Do I have a right to ask her to stop smoking, or should I just deal with it?
Q. Ok.... My girlfirend...who i love so dam much, and we are as strong as ever....I made her quit smoking after being with her and smokes for about 8months...i had enough of it by then and she knew i didnt like it.we talked...she told me she had no ...
A. 1 October 2008: My husband smoked when I met him.
I HATE SMOKE. It smells and it hurts my contact lenses and it's disgusting.
So I told him. He can smoke any time he wants, but if he smokes around me then he cannot kiss me, or come near as he'll stink.
... (read in full...)
Boundaries with my boyfriend?
Q. I am (was) dating a guy that I knew had a "past" (prison "stuff") and I still went out with him. I have a habit of saying "I'm Sorry" and he told me to leave and respect his boundaries. Then the other day I tried to surprise him with a home made ...
A. 1 October 2008: If you go out with a mental bloke then you will have to deal with his mental issues.
He's a nut job.
You did nothing wrong.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Should I leave my wife or not?
Q. I'm not sure how far to push this, or if I should leave my wife or not. I'm really pissed off, not only at what she did, but her attitude that it was no big deal. That just makes me think she will do something like this again. We got married, and...
A. 1 October 2008: If she thinks that not cheating then either leave, or start going out and getting all the hand jobs you want.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How should we split up the bills?
Q. I have been living with my boyfriend for many years. He owns the house free and clear, and has since before I moved in. Since moving in, I have paid various bills, all food/non-durable items, half the property taxes and given him money monthly to ...
A. 1 October 2008: Pay half of everything but no rent.
If you are paying rent to him then he's your landlord. He's not. He's your boyfriend.
He shouldn't be making profit off you as a girlfriend.
Sit down, get it all down on paper together and come to agr... (read in full...)
The guy I used to hook up with when younger asked me to sleep with him, I'd like to but I have a boyfriend, should I do it anyway?
Q. This sound so terriable and I know that before even asking. So please don't be to mean. I've been with my b/f for six years. I love him very much and he's a wonderful person. But were both young I'm 22 and he's 20. I have this friend whom I did used ...
A. 1 October 2008: Tell him to buzz off. If you love your boyfriend then you shouldn't just be with him because he's there and it's been 6 years. You should be with him because he's the only one you want.
You can't have your cake and eat it.
You can't have your ... (read in full...)
I messed it up once; do I have a second chance, you think?
Q. OK sorry if this becomes a bit long, but I want to put the whole story across! Thanks in advance for your patience Back in January I was on a work lunchbreak so went to get some food down the road, and whilst I was queuing this girl came in who...
A. 1 October 2008: I think it's pretty clear you two have a connection and if you are sharing a bed then I think you should just kiss her and see what happens.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
We all work at the same company but who should I date?
Q. It seems this guy #1 I really like at work is giving me more attention lately after his relationship went sour with his girlfriend of 2 months. He liked me before this other girl but for some reason went with her. Meanwhile I had gotten flirty ...
A. 30 September 2008: Have you heard of the phrase "don't shit on your own doorstep."?
Don't date guys you work with. When it ends horribly it will be awful to have to see them everyday.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Are Virgos able to forgive?
Q. Once a Virgo has had their fellings hurt and they ask for sometime to think and feel uncomfotable around the one who hurt them . Are Virgos able to forgive after an apology has been made right away or do they just eliminate the person out of their ...
A. 30 September 2008: My husband is a virgo and says "it doesn't matter what religion you are."
Everyone needs time to forgive. You can't just say sorry and expect it to be fine straight away.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How can I cover up the bruises and scratches I got from my boyfriend?
Q. How can i cover these bruises i got from my boyfriend and the scratches on my wrists that i did to myself because of him hurting me? They are fresh and just done today. Before u judge me about hurting myself. Its because my whole life from six years ...
A. 30 September 2008: Oh well if it's happened your whole life then that's ok then? Why should anyone be bothered that you are still getting hurt?
Will you listen to yourself?? I really hope this post is a cry for help.
Get out of any relationship that is... (read in full...)
I need gift ideas for this female friend. Any tips?
Q. Hey all, I'm just wanting to know gift ideas (preferrably comments from girls). I have a good friend I have known for almost 4 years. I've always liked her a lot, but thought I was out of her league, about this time last year I found out she ha...
A. 30 September 2008: Indoor skydiving!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out on a second date?
Q. Hello dear readers, well my story is that i dated first a girl who is my university, first date was great, we talked a lot , she laughed also...but all the time she didn't give me the opportunity to come closer to her, maybe i sad some stupid things ...
A. 30 September 2008: Try it!
The worst that can happen is that she can say no.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why won't he just come back to me?
Q. I was with my ex for almost 5 yrs and we were engaged to be married and have a daughter together. He left me over a year ago and started dating someone else within a couple months. For almost that whole relationship we've been sleeping together and ...
A. 30 September 2008: He's USING YOU.
It's no wonder his girlfriend is stalking him, since every time her back is turned, he's having SEX with someone else.
He's never going to leave her, he's going to keep stringing you along and using you for sex until you wise u... (read in full...)
Caught between my family and my forbidden lover! What should I do?
Q. I met this guy ( lets call him Mr.A) nearly a year ago, he's a tough guy with piercings and tattoos but as i got to know him i realised he is quite sensitive and sweet. When i told my family about him they had their doubts but were happy that i was ...
A. 30 September 2008: If you are running away from home and spending the night with him then it is no wonder they aren't keen on him.
You should be at school, he is an adult.
You shouldn't have this much drama in your life at your age. He should understand that ... (read in full...)
We want so much to be together. We can live in Turkey, but I want us to live here, in the UK. Please can you help?
Q. i was living in usa with my turkish boyfriend and we apply for a english visa, but he got refused by the english embassy from there. what is the chance of him getting one from turkey now they have stamp his passport ? we need to know what we can ...
A. 30 September 2008: Unfortunately Turkey is not in the EU so if they say no then he's stuck.
If they said his paperwork was in Turkish then you could try resubmitting it in English. But at the end or it all, if he is not allowed to live in the UK, then you'll h... (read in full...)
What is considered 'normal' in starting a relationship now?
Q. Hey everyone i’m an 18 year old Canadian living overseas...my question is regarding how to go about being in a relationship with a guy i am interested in...but i’m going to give a bit of background information to help out with my question....i moved ...
A. 30 September 2008: The best thing to do I have found is just to relax. If you feel like texting him just to say hi and that you are looking forward to seeing him, then do it.
As for your neighbour then you just have to ignore that, yes you kissed him but you just... (read in full...)
How do I approach a woman for a sexual fling with no strings attached?
Q. I am a female, but I am posting this for a MALE friend. So keep in mind while reading this, it's being asked by a male, not me. I'm a 24 yr old virgin (because of where I'm from) and want to know how to approach a woman for a sexual fling, wi...
A. 30 September 2008: Oh well thanks.
You're welcome.... (read in full...)
What makes a woman marriage material?
Q. I just wanted to know what makes a woman marriage material...what do guys really look for when the want to marry a woman....would a guy marry a woman who was promiscuos in her past if she had changed???...
A. 30 September 2008: Well that depends on upbringing and culture and the the guy.
Some men will want a perfect virgin with good bone structure and breeding who is willing to floof around the house with a duster and want nothing more than to pop out babies and give blo... (read in full...)
I need help with my husband's child's mother before I hurt her!
Q. Hi, everyone! ok i have a big problem. im married to a great man who has a child by another women. they had him when they were teenagers and now we are in our early 20's. the childs mother is crazy! my husband didnt have any parental rights {wasnt ...
A. 30 September 2008: The problem really is that you can't do anything. It's between him and her. She's only going to get worse when you get involved because she knows she can hurt you and make you jealous, and she'll enjoying having that power.
It's not up to you or h... (read in full...)
Should I move in with him? My boyfriend says it's over if I don't....
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He wants me to move in with him, but my family don't really like him and don't want me to. They say that I'm too young and that they don't think I'm ready. I originally said yes but when I told my Mam she ...
A. 30 September 2008: I'm going to disagree with hlskitten.
At your age it is perfectly east to be committed to some one without moving in together.
It's SO Hard moving in with someone and dealing with bills and buying everything and working out who is going to do t... (read in full...)
How do I try and stop my friends from having sex?
Q. One of my 14 year old friends and his girlfriend (also 14) are thinking of having sex... they dont know that i know they want to and i want to try and stop them. They are both very close to me and they are not thinking of using contraception. Any ...
A. 29 September 2008: I really think as their friend you have to give them some hard facts.
NOT USING CONTRACEPTION AT 14 IS THE MOST STUPID THING IN THE WORLD!
Do they never want to go out to a bar? or ever have a boyfriend till they are 20?
Because when yo... (read in full...)
How do I approach a woman for a sexual fling with no strings attached?
Q. I am a female, but I am posting this for a MALE friend. So keep in mind while reading this, it's being asked by a male, not me. I'm a 24 yr old virgin (because of where I'm from) and want to know how to approach a woman for a sexual fling, wi...
A. 29 September 2008: Advertise on Adult Finder or some other sex finding website.
Either that or hire an escort.
If you want a one night stand then go out and get drunk and flirt and go for it, but if you want a longer term fling then you are going to have to adver... (read in full...)
I'm worried my friends will start gossiping if I ask this girl out.
Q. every week, i attend masses and participate in our church's youth group which consists of many teens from various towns and we meet about good 4 hours every sunday. recently, a new girl joined and we became friends ever since. as time went on, we've ...
A. 29 September 2008: I'm not going to tell you that they will all act cool and mature about it.
They'll gossip and tease you both and be annoying. That's what kids do.
But they'll stop once something else comes along so you'll just have to put up with it.
Good... (read in full...)
What to do about a cheating friend?
Q. My husband is good friends with a guy who lives close to us, and I am friends with his wife. We have always thought of him as a decent person who will help out when he can. However, he has recently confided in my husband that he cheated on his wife ...
A. 29 September 2008: I think your husband has to tell this guy to cut contact with this girl or he will make sure the wife finds out.
You can't carry on being silent.
If you do decide things aren't changing and you have to tell her then just tell her straight and... (read in full...)
All he wants is oral sex to satisfy himself - what should I do?
Q. been with my partner for close on ten years ,i have always had to ask for sex and all he wants is oral sex to satisfy himself ,he drinks far to much and we just shout and scream at each other ,i want to leave but my problem is we have property ...
A. 29 September 2008: You shouldn't stay in a relationship because of financial reasons.
Tell him you want to break up. If the house is yours then help him to find a new place. If he gets nasty then throw him out. Call the police if necessary.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My best friend keeps asking me out, I've rejected him before, but he won't leave me alone.
Q. My best guy friend keeps asking me out. I just want to be friends. I rejected him before, but he won't leave me alone. I'm trying to be nice and sweet but it's not working.I really don't want to hurt his feelings. Any ideas?...
A. 29 September 2008: Being nice and sweet is what any girl would do and it JUST DOESN'T WORK.
You have to tell him that if he doesn't stop asking you out and trying it on with you then you don't want to see him any more as a friend.
You have to be cruel to be kind... (read in full...)
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