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If we are just going out, what can I do to get her in the mood for sexual things?

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Question - (22 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 October 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

How do I sexually turn on a girl???

for example, my friend and I were hanging out together, and me being a guy, i was basically turned on by looking at her, lol. However, she did not want to do anything sexual that night. My question is, if we are just hanging out, is there anything i can do to turn her on and get her in the mood to wanna do sexual things?

I unerstand i shouldn't force her, and that each girl is different and can get turned on differently, but in general, what makes a girl get turned on? what is different about the days that she wants to have sex?

Thanks

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2008):

If you are asking how to seduce a girl into sleeping casually with you or a friend then you are out of luck.

If you want to turn on a girl then the best bet is to date her, get to know her, fall in love with her, make her fall in love with you and BAM - hot sex.

If you want to get a girl to be a slut then you just have to flirt with her, get her chatting about it and then ask her. Alcohol will loosen you all up but do NOT get her drunk as that means she is not able to give informed consent and it will count as rape.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, claris rtg United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2008):

hi the best advice i got to give is a women is always turned on by her man when he not affraid to express his feelings.do you have feelings for her? take things slow at her pace she may not be ready. just remember the best things come to those who wait. take care x

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A female reader, PsychicDove  +, writes (22 October 2008):

PsychicDove agony auntHi Dude,

Ummm, there are millions and millions of girls, all unique but then they are all classified into 12 groups or ZODIACS - sun sign/moon sign/rising sign.

If you know her date of birth, go to this all free website wherein they help lovers knows how to turn on their mate and how to understand their mate's weakness.

www.cafeastrology.com

If you know her date of birth, then look for her SUN SIGN and match her's with your SUN SIGN.

You will discover her secret sexual and romantic longings as well as yours. Once you know this, she can't stop gazing at you LOL.

Take care okay?

~PsychicDove

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