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I don't understand why he broke up with me but still wants the emotional connection? What's up with this guy?

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Question - (22 October 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 October 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My BF broke up with me two months ago, and we didn't talk for five week, but now he is calling me two or three times a week and if I didn't cut off the conversation after 30 or 40 minutes, he would just keep on talking. I'm confused. He said he wanted to end our relationship after a year and one half together. When he broke up with me we had reached a point we had developed a good intimate relationship - physically AND emotionally. We had truly become friends. So I don't understand why he broke up and I don't understand why he wants to continue the emotional relationship.

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A female reader, Miss Potter United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2008):

Miss Potter agony auntAsk him what he wants, if he hasnt got the answer then he should stop calling. You are no toy to play around with. If he wants a friendship he should say so and you should think whether you can cope with having him just as a friend.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2008):

I think you need to ask him what he wants from you.

Ask him if he keeps calling because he wants to get back together? He may have no idea that he's leading you on and thinks you are fine with just being good friends.

Tell him that since he dumped you, he has to stay away and you will call him if you want to be his friend.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (22 October 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntMaybe he was just afraid of getting to close to you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008):

That is a good Question and I wish I had an answer. But, I would like to ask the same question. I my self am going through that. He broke up with me and he still want to have an emotional relationship. It's pissing me off

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