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writes:Okay, so I met this girl awhile ago, and we didn't really talk until about a week or two ago. The fact is, we both really matured and we both REALLY like each other, I mean I have never ever felt this way about a girl before. I just want to be around her, I don't want to do anything inappropriate, I can't really even think of a word for it.Well, we both like each other, and we would text message each other 100+ times a day and then, her dad found out.Her dad is very overprotective, and won't even let me speak to her anymore. I asked if I could speak with her parents, and they would not let me.I can't stop thinking about her, and I can't think of what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): Sorry babes, but please don't sneak behind her parents back, if you get caught it will make things worse. She will be punished and there is no way you'll ever be allowed to talk to her again. Protective parents can do all kinds of things, they might even take her away and move house, so she can't see you any more. Listen to Emily, try to be just a friend, or speak to your parents and ask if they can speak to her parents for you. Her parents think she is too young to have a boyfriend, and they want her to concentrate on her studies rather than spending so much time with you. You must respect their wishes, if you and her sneak around, she will get punished. You can still be friends, you'll have to be satisfied with that. Wait until she is older and then try again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): See her secretly.Don't let them stop you and even if you do get caught keep seeing her despite their knowledge.The only way this is going to work is if both you and her stop listening to your parents and start listening to your hearts.Go for it,encourage her to go for it as well and do it against there wishes.You don't deserve this and neither does anyone under the unfair/unfounded age of consent.And fight no matter what(not physically though).You have absolutely nothing to lose so you might as well try.Good luck!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (23 October 2008):
Are you the same kid who keeps asking for advice on this?
My advice is to take the advice you've already been given. Back off and be her friend.
You are too young to be able to get around her parents. She has to respect what they say for a few more years.
Good Luck!! xx
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