I fancy my much older teacher and I want to tell her how I feel.
Q. Ok, I’m very nearly 16 and go to an all-girl’s school. I’m in my last year there (yr11) and will be leaving in June to go to another school to do A-levels. So basically, there’s this one teacher who I absolutely love. We have loads in common,...
A. 21 May 2009: Well the school will have a policy on keeping in touch with former pupils.
They wouldn't be very happy if a teacher started shagging one of their students the day after they left so they will have a rule on how much contact is appropri... (read in full...)
I fancy my much older teacher and I want to tell her how I feel.
Q. Ok, I’m very nearly 16 and go to an all-girl’s school. I’m in my last year there (yr11) and will be leaving in June to go to another school to do A-levels. So basically, there’s this one teacher who I absolutely love. We have loads in common,...
A. 21 May 2009: She will probably mention it to someone to cover her back.
She won't get in trouble for something you do so that is fine.
She would only get in trouble if she broke the school policy on keeping in touch with former pupils.
If you are neve... (read in full...)
How can I find a boyfriend?
Q. Ok i am a girl and i have not had a real relationship ever. My sister try to help me find a guy but he liked her so he used me. My things is i feel like i my never find a guy because when i try it ends up blowing up in my face i cry at night now so ...
A. 24 October 2008: I think you need to relax first of all. Guys can smell desperation on a girl from a mile and it will either scare them away or give them an easy way to use you.
Go out and make new friends, join a local club or volunteer somewhere. The more you... (read in full...)
This seems odd, or is there a logical explaination?
Q. I have a weird question to ask. Can someone explain this behaviour, Im so confused! My friend (guy) is acting odd in the past while and Im not sure why. We talk for a little while, almost constant online and texting, and then they will all- of-a-s...
A. 24 October 2008: It's just the way he is. If you don't like being ignored then don't get so invested in staying in touch when he does text you.
Ignore him for a day or two and see how he likes it. or jsut find a new friend who isn't leading a double life.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend finds me unattractive because of my small boobs and thin body structure...
Q. My boyfriend(for 3 yrs) feels that i am too thin for him and he is not that attracted to me since i have small boobs. It really hurts me when he comments harsh things about my body. He says that i need to become a little fat to carry on with the ...
A. 24 October 2008: Any man who tells you to change the shape of your body to please him and says hurtful things does not deserve a girlfriend.
If he does not like you the way you are then he does not like YOU.
Leave him. Are you going to risk your health and ... (read in full...)
I feel that now I am older, no one wants a man with no money and no looks, feel left out and it's frustrating.
Q. I am 43 years old male, I have been in four major relationships in my life that OCCURRED on their own and the same way they ended. I have never been able to meet the woman I want, so I have to accommodate whatever comes my way on its own. It is ...
A. 24 October 2008: I'm sorry but there is no way that all 4 women in your life simply disappeared without a word or a reason.
If you do not know why your relationships failed then ask one of your ex's and I am sure she will explain it to you if you tell her you want... (read in full...)
He cheated, caught an STD, but I don't know how to leave him...help!
Q. Hello, I have been married for six years. At first like every relationship everything was ok. But now my husband always critisizing everything I wear or do I seem to get on his nerves. He recently caught an STD but I got tested and havent got it I ...
A. 24 October 2008: Tell him you want him to leave. You and the kids can stay and he can go and use someone else's computer to line up all his disease ridden dates.
Kick him out.
If he refuses to leave then pack a bag and go and get a solicitor to tell him that si... (read in full...)
This girl at school spreads rumors about me and my friends. How do I stop her?
Q. There this annoying girl whos adopted and goes to my school. She makes up fake rumors about me and my friends. One day she came up to me asking if my parents are getting divorced (they're fighting a lot lately but they never mention a divorce.) I ...
A. 24 October 2008: The first thing that you say about her that she's adopted, and then you are horrible to her about that. I bet everyone else is horrible to her about it as well.
Have you thought that she might not like being bullied by everyone about this all the ... (read in full...)
How do I help someone that can really only help herself ?
Q. ok i have a problem with a friend of mine. she is 22 and almost acts and dresses like a 13 year old girl. she has never had a relationship, but really wants one, but she can't talk to guys or even flirt. i've tried to match make her with some guys, ...
A. 24 October 2008: I think it's only a really good friend (or a stranger on the internet) that can be brutally honest and come out the other side with the same level of friendship.
You can either stand her in front of the mirror and tell her you think it's her dres... (read in full...)
My husband stopped having sex with me a few years ago...
Q. My husband stopped having sex with me a few years ago. I tried many thing to make him excited, but no success. Now I have enough of this, and started to feel humiliated to initiate, with no result. I do look good, as I always took care of myself.....
A. 24 October 2008: If you are happy without the sex, then you need to tell him that. He's probably terrified that as soon as he opens up about it you will leave him.
Also have you considered there could be a medical problem physically stopping him from having s... (read in full...)
How can I tell my teacher that I admire him?
Q. i admire my teacher and i want it to express or say it to him. when i was reading some of the questions, i noticed that the people who are responsing says that the student-teacher relationship is forbidden. i want to tell him that i admire him. wh...
A. 24 October 2008: What ever you do, please remember that he will have to report that it happened and tell the head master or your parents.
So if you write a letter, they will all get to read it.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I fancy my much older teacher and I want to tell her how I feel.
Q. Ok, I’m very nearly 16 and go to an all-girl’s school. I’m in my last year there (yr11) and will be leaving in June to go to another school to do A-levels. So basically, there’s this one teacher who I absolutely love. We have loads in common,...
A. 24 October 2008: You tell her in anyway you want. She will then tell the head and if you are still going to see her in school next year then they will bring your parents in to discuss how to handle it and if you need to move classes so you don't see her.
If yo... (read in full...)
What to do after a one night drunken fling?
Q. Me and this guy goes to university together, he is in some of my classes, and recently we got closer. we been flirting and stuff, and one time we went clubbing together and we kissed and spent the night together, but we didnt do anything else apart ...
A. 24 October 2008: Well that is the standard thing to do after a one night thing that meant nothing - you enjoy it but don't bring it up again so you can continue your friendship.
Ask him to go for a drink with you again and then tell him how you feel after a couple... (read in full...)
How important is sex in a relationship?
Q. Opinions sought -- how important is the sexual portion of a relationship?...
A. 24 October 2008: To me, very.
To my friend, hardly at all.
Everyone is different, if you are not compatible then don't marry her.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Can a man and a woman be friends when he finds the woman attractive?
Q. Can a Man and woman truly be friends especially after the man says that he finds the woman beautiful?...
A. 24 October 2008: Yes, if they keep their distance and respect their partners.
However if they start getting close, his wife will probably tell him not to see her again.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why is sex so important to men?
Q. Why do men love sex so much? And dont try to tell me that women love it just as much. I mean sure if feels great to have that connection with someone is amazing but we dont think about it 24 hours a day and dont lie or say anything just to get laid. ...
A. 24 October 2008: They are genetically programmed to try and reproduce their line. Why do you think male animals are willing to fight, quite literally, to the death over the chance to have sex?
And yes some women love sex lots and lots, while some men don't li... (read in full...)
A virgin male, a girl, and her boyfriend... going mad!
Q. Hello! First time poster here! This is about, well, two problems really. I’m posting here to get it off my chest because this is never the sort of thing I’d talk about – or at least not all of it – with people I know. OK, first I’ll give you so...
A. 24 October 2008: Drunk rant much?
Everything will be ok in the morning.
x... (read in full...)
Is coitus interuptus rude?
Q. I know a long list of people are going to tell me to use a condom but will ask this anyway. Is it rude for a guy to pull out and cum all over you if birth control wasn't discussed before sex? I say it is and he says it isn't....
A. 24 October 2008: Yes it is rude, but if you are having sex with a guy who knows that little about you that he doesn't even know about your birth control situation - and you let guys that hardly know you have sex with you without a condom then he is hardly going to ... (read in full...)
What is a sexual fantasy? What are the advantages/disadvantages?
Q. what is sexual fantacy,plz let me informed,advantages and dis advantages of it and how to over come this and enjoy life with wife...
A. 23 October 2008: A sexual fantasty is a day dream about sex.
You can have sexual fantasies about your wife all day at work and then go home to her full of love and good feeling.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My partner is in Iraq at present and I am missing him so much!
Q. My partner is currently in Iraq at present and I'm missing him so bad its unbelievible! We love each other and we are the practically the same person we are that much alike... The problem is the intimate times we have together are mind blowing, ...
A. 23 October 2008: Heya matey!
My hubbie is in Iraq too. Don't you just end up wandering around feeling lost?
I think agreeing not to masterbate while he is away is romantic... but stupid. I am sure you want to last him more than 5 seconds when he's home and th... (read in full...)
My parents arent supporting my decision to have this baby
Q. please help me! im 15 and i am 38 weeks pregnant. my parents arn't supporting me at all and they are threatening to throw me out once the baby is born unless i have an abortion. my boyfriend died just after i became pregnant as he got ran over so ...
A. 23 October 2008: Not being very happy that you are pregnant is understandable... but leaving you stuck in the middle of no where with no way to call for help is criminally negligent. What if something went wrong? Are they going to be happy to come home and found you ... (read in full...)
He fantisizes about me when we are apart. Does that mean he only wants me for the sex?
Q. hello, thanks for read my question, I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months, I think we have a nice relationship and strong feelings for each other. He has a very high sexual energy, so do I, the sex between us is great, sometimes we do it for ...
A. 23 October 2008: What would you rather he said "I fantasise about the girl next door when we are apart."???
It's a compliment.
He only has thoughts about you and can't stop thinking about you.
You are a lucky girl!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do I get over being afraid of a relationship?
Q. I'm 16. It's been 3 years since my last relationship.I think I'm afraid of being in a relationship. How do I get over it? =\...
A. 23 October 2008: You are 16 - no wonder you are scared of being in a relationship! They are big scary things at your age.
You do not have to commit at your age.
Have fun! Enjoy being young!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My 11 year lies all the time!
Q. i am a mother of 5 kids and i have not had to deal with this problem before that im having with my youngest who is 11. my oldest is almost 20 with a baby of her own. The 11 year old lies over the stupidest things and will not confess until he has ...
A. 23 October 2008: It's probably just a phase.
Make sure you reward him when ever he's honest (although he's obviously got to be punished for doing what ever it was he's lying about) and don't just have a go at him for taking this long to come clean.
It coul... (read in full...)
Could his rejection just be a sign of depression? How can I help him?
Q. Hi, About two months ago, my boyfriend went on holiday with his single friends. A few days before returning, he text me and told me he wanted to be on his own. Then he told me that 'He loves me but he is not in love with me.' I asked him how lo...
A. 23 October 2008: He may need help but there is no gauruntee that he will get back with you if he gets that help.
I think you've just got to let him go for a while. You can't keep chasing him or he'll just run further.
If he gets to the point where you are co... (read in full...)
I am so sick of being the only single one in the group!
Q. I'm so fed up of being alone. Every single one of my mates are either in a relationship or have been in one. I feel so left out of it, yet I just can't find anyone who is interested in me. I know I'm only young, and I'm not asking for some to marry, ...
A. 23 October 2008: Wow, I think you are getting a bit paranoid here and depressed.
No one pities you, and no one is bothered that you are single.
We all go through stages where we are single and alone, you'll come out the other side just fine. But you are not ... (read in full...)
Should I pursue my profession or stay here?
Q. pls will anyone help me to enlighten my mind with the situation im into right now? im living with my boyfriend right now in an apartment, for the reason that my family hates me for loving him especially my father, because he wanted me to marry an...
A. 23 October 2008: If you do not want to go abroad then don't. Stay where you are.
Just ask him why he wants you to do these things?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My guy friend and I are really close and in the past couple weeks I've been developing feelings for him.
Q. My guy friend and I are really close and in the past couple weeks I've been developing feelings for him. A week ago we were talking and he started asking questions that he's never asked before. For example, "what do you look for in a guy, what ...
A. 23 October 2008: Well it could go either way.
The only way to find out is just to flirt with him slightly and go out and have fun and see if anything happens between you.
If not then you may just have to back off and get over him for a while.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I try to start a conversation with him to be civil and I always end up embarrassing myself.
Q. how can i stop making an idiot out of myself when i see this guy? we have a past,though not a very long one.but definetly a personal one.i work in a very public place,and i see him come in there often.sometimes ive ignored the fact tht hes there and ...
A. 23 October 2008: Oh dear, it sounds like you've got it bad. It's amazing how some people can still turn you into that 14 yearold stuttering school girl again.
Avoiding him is a good idea, but when you see him then try not to let your body tense up and get in a sta... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend back home, but he said he has fallen in love with me.
Q. Okay this is my problem: I have been with a man for 8 months now.He is 9 years younger then me,and never told me he had a girlfriend back home that he has had for a year and a half.One day he finally broke down and cried and told me he had fallen in ...
A. 23 October 2008: All these questions will be asnwered when he comes back.
If he has not broken up with her then he is leading you on.
Until he is a single man you will never be able to say for sure whether he loves you or whether he's just leading you on a... (read in full...)
I am so frustrated with my daughter's dad.
Q. I am so frustrated with my daughter's dad. He's given up his rights in which he regrets doing and now wants it back. He said he'll help with our daughter. When I said I needed help with our daughters daycare bill, I told him how much, he said, I'm ...
A. 23 October 2008: I think it's time to take him to court for maintainance, or just tell him that if he doesn't pay up then he can get out of your lives and never come back.
If he's causing you nothing but stress then get rid of him.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why not bask in this love now?
Q. My boyfriend and i have the most unique connection. We've been good friends for over 2 1/2 years, and have had and on again-off again relationships. I worry constantly as to how people perceive me, struggling to comes to terms with how i feel. ...
A. 23 October 2008: Why won't people accept it? Well you don't say what they say so I can't tell you.
Do you have constant drama and go crying to people who are now sick of it? Does he beat you? Do you beat him? Are you planning to run away together and live in ... (read in full...)
How do I know if this girl likes me?
Q. well.... I've just moved to a new country and new school. i have never really liked any girl in my old school and ive been to ALOT of schools, im only 14.. i dont think i should be worrying about love and things like that.. but i keep feeling t...
A. 23 October 2008: There is nothing wrong with likeing a girl and even having a girlfriend at your age.
You aren't going to get married and have kids - or even have sex, so it's really nothing for you to worry about.
As for if she likes you, there is no way ... (read in full...)
Does he care or does he just want someone there?
Q. I'm just trying to understand this guy. This guy, who was with 3 girls at one time, decided to get into a new relationship at the end of the summer. They went on a couple dates, he met her parents and then she went back to school in September in ...
A. 23 October 2008: This guy, who was with 3 girls at one time....
Yeah, he is a user of women. He is probably just as sweet and lovely to all of them, but as soon as you were out of sight, he was a slave to his trousers to find a new girl within a week.
He prob... (read in full...)
She's accepted a teaching job in the country and is leaving in three weeks.
Q. How do you deal with this? I've been seeing someone for nine months, we've been getting on very well and she's enjoyed my company. She's finishing a teaching degree and I haven't seen a lot of her in the past 1-2 months, but it is an important tim...
A. 23 October 2008: She's going about this in the wrong way and it's such a common mistake.
Yes her career is coming first and the fact that she didn't even mention this to you before accepting it shows you that she doesn't value your imput.
However she f... (read in full...)
Five years together and sixteen years between us... Does he still want me?
Q. Hi. I have a partner (we're supposed to be engaged) we have been together for over 5yrs. Its a 16yr gap between us but he is one of them big-headed ppl. He also loves being center attention and has alot of confidence. I have non at all,very shy ...
A. 23 October 2008: Why don't you ask him if he wants you?
I am sure he just thinks you don't want him.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I'm not 18 yet - will this relationship lead to trouble?
Q. my problem is that my family just moved from our former home to a new town to live by the sea, which is really hard for me and is killing me psycologically. Its been so hard for me to cope with this changes and the only joy i have is in my boyfriend ...
A. 23 October 2008: Wasn't it you who asked this yesterday?
Yes it's legal, but no it's not a good idea to move in with him.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He wants to court me after my graduation!
Q. I recently had my 'love of my life' once again after 2 1/2 years. But this one is strange, totally. For he's an HS teacher and I am his student. I'm only 17 and he's 24. I think he loves me more than I do, really. We do not talk whenever we're on ...
A. 23 October 2008: If anyone got a whiff of what you two were planning then he would be suspended.
It's good that he wants to wait till you are 18 but you don't seem to be sure if you even want to date him.
He is a grown man and will want sex eventually from ... (read in full...)
I love my cousin but don't want to upset the family! What should I do?
Q. I've liked my first cousin for 4 years now and only today i found out that he liked me to for the same amount of time. I thought it would be wrong if anything sexual should happen between us but if it did it would ruin the family and i dont know ...
A. 23 October 2008: It's not so much a problem with you getting together... but it's when you split up that the problems come. I mean what if he cheats on you? Your dad would want to kill him and you would have to see him and his new girlfriend at every family occasion ... (read in full...)
What to do with a disappearing, lying, stealing husband?
Q. My husband and I have been married for a little over 5 years now and our marriage has had some problems. when we first got married my husband drank a lot and did drugs I knew how much he drank but he tried to hide his drug use from me but I always ...
A. 23 October 2008: He's had chance after chance after chance... and he's not just getting drunk here, he is stealing your card and running away to do god knows what with god knows who.
I think you have to draw the line somewhere and when he disappears get the lock... (read in full...)
Sometimes I feel so unhappy with my boyfriend I just want to get out!
Q. I'm really so confused is it normal. Me and my bf (22) are dating for a year and half now, but most of the time he do things that make me feel so awful, sad and just unhappy, that I just want to get out of this relationship during these difficult ...
A. 23 October 2008: Well you can either stay for the enxt 8 years and put up with him hoping that he will marry you... or you can get out.
If you are unhappy in this relationship then get out!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Boyfriend hates oral: I can't cum without it!
Q. my boyfriend hates giving me oral sex and thats the only way i'm able to orgasm, i have vibrators and other various things. has anyone got any suggestions ...
A. 23 October 2008: If he's off sex all together then it could be a sign that your relationship is winding down.
Tell him he has to talk to you about it, as it's not a problem that's going to fix itself.
Don't be afraid to end things before they get too bad thou... (read in full...)
How can HE be happy?
Q. I am still sad, but finally angry. I was married 30 years. Five years ago, my husband walked out very abruptly. I didn't learn till after the divorce that he had met someone on-line from Malaysia and was going to bring her here. (This was a good ...
A. 23 October 2008: Are there any support groups that you cold go to locally?
Unfortunately your husband turned out to be a horrible man and I'm sorry but horrible people exist.
He's lost his kids, and his wife and I'm guessing his new dial a bride will not m... (read in full...)
Boyfriend hates oral: I can't cum without it!
Q. my boyfriend hates giving me oral sex and thats the only way i'm able to orgasm, i have vibrators and other various things. has anyone got any suggestions ...
A. 22 October 2008: He may hate it but he could put up with it for you every now and then. Find out what he hates about it... would it be easier for him if there was less hair or if he did it when you were fresh from the shower?
Also, fair is fair and if he doesn't ... (read in full...)
A virgin male, a girl, and her boyfriend... going mad!
Q. Hello! First time poster here! This is about, well, two problems really. I’m posting here to get it off my chest because this is never the sort of thing I’d talk about – or at least not all of it – with people I know. OK, first I’ll give you so...
A. 19 October 2008: Well you have to keep your distance until she sees the light and dumps this guy. She'll lose money and get hurt and then she'll get over it and be ok. When he makes comments to her on nights out, laugh at him and then say "you are an ungrateful tw*t ... (read in full...)
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