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writes:Alright, so I have PRACTICALLY been dating this girl for about 13 months (we have never called each other boyfriend and girlfriend). We do a lot together, especially talk on the phone, haha.She had gotten her phone taken away by her father 2 weeks ago, so we could not talk on the phone anymore. Then later I find out why she has turned me down every time I ask her out. It's because her dad is a strict mutha fucka xD. This girls mother on the other hand, she does not mind if her daughter dates.She isnt allowed to talk to me on the phone anymore, or even hang out with me. All of this week now she has been ignoring me and not looking at me when I talk to her. Today I found out why, it's cause she's scared to and these are words from her mouth:"I'm scared to fall for you again and have my dad find out about it."I'm willing to wait for this girl to be allowed to date 'till shes 18. The thing is, I'm not sure if she's going to stick around me until then. I have tried to move on from this girl plenty of times, and I can't do it. Hell, I've tried to ignore her for 2 hours and I can't do it. That's how 'attached' I am to her.I just want to get opinions from you guys. I want to know, what should I do in this situation? It really makes me feel bad that she's ignoring me because her dad doesn't want her to date.Any help would be greatly appreciated,Nick. :]
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (22 October 2008):
You just need to back off and be her friend.
And try and get her to invite you round to her house for tea so you can meet her dad and show him that you can just be a male friend to his daughter and respect him (fear him) enough not to push that.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): Have some respect for her father and stop calling him names.If its meant to be and you both are willing to wait, then its all good.But if you think she is not that attached to you and she won't stick around..then you need to move on.At this age, even if she dates you without her dad's consent, it won't go anywhere except your dear friend will get into trouble one day because of you.So if you care for her, then let her take her own decision and support that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): Maybe you shold try to introduce yourself to her Dad, if you build a relationship with him you never know he might really like you and let you date his daughter.
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