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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a boss that frequently hits on me and claimed that he loved me. It's very uncomfortable and I tried to make it clear i was not into dating him. he write messages with strange "i love you's" or things like "When we are married in vermont," or other strange things. I stayed over his place with my fellow co-worker so we could all go to a wedding together and he was petting my hair when i awoke. i have dropped doing anything outside of work with my boss and my coworker because of this infatuation he seems to have with me. I have told him that i don't care for him that way and i have a boyfriend whom i have been with for six months, so the constant barraging needs to stop. I have tried quitting, but im on contract and my friend has close ties to the both of us is threatening me about leaving. now think, I just turned 18, and my boss is 40. How can i get him to leave me alone and not feel threatened?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (22 October 2008):
I agree with the other messages, they think they can scare you because they are older than you and you won't stand up for yourself.
Keep a note of what happens and all the notes and things you are sent and then threaten to sue them if they don't stop / let you out of your contract once you have found a new job.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (22 October 2008):
 Tell him that if he doesn't quit, and leave you the f*** alone, or you're going to sue his ass. And your friend's threats can get him jail time, and he's just as much involved in it, therefore he is not your friend.
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