My 100 pound girlfriend is trying to lose 20 pounds so she can be a model.I caught her throwing up, what do I do?
Q. My girlfriend (she's 18 and I'm 19) wants to loss another 20 pounds (she's about 100) with diet pills. That just doesn't sound healthy to me. I am willing to the gym with her but the pill idea has to go. I once came home early cause I didn't feel ...
A. 30 October 2008: Go to the papers about the agency, take her to a funeral home, keep taking her to counselling, don't let her change the subject, change it back.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my very good friend's
Q. Okay, I'm in love with my very good friend's girlfriend. She and my friend have been going out off and on for more than two years. She loves him definetely (most of the time). However, I talk to her every day through text, and then im, and then on ...
A. 27 October 2008: Well first of all stop hanging around girls that are taken, and secondly stop waiting for so long to make a move.
Girls will stop seeing you as boyfriend potential after a while so be supportive and lovely by all means but flirt and touch at the s... (read in full...)
Horrified to wake up to his best mate giving me oral
Q. A few days ago, I woke up to my boyfriend giving me oral underneath the bed sheets (which we ocasionally do) but was horrified to find out after it was over that it was his best mate!! Since his best mate has told me I have to keep giving him what ...
A. 26 October 2008: This is harassment and blackmail, and sexual assault.
Tell him you are keeping a diary of everything he says and if he says ONE MORE thing to you about it then you are going to the police. That should shut him up.
Do you have any threatening ... (read in full...)
She used to be a prostitute!! I just found out and I'm trying to get past it...
Q. Hi Everybody, I have been with my girlfriend for almost two years now. We have been long distance for one year. I just proposed to her a month ago and we are happily engaged. However, a few days ago, she told me that to pay for school, she had ...
A. 26 October 2008: This must have been a shock but you just have to suck it up.
My husband had ex girlfriends - he was even engaged once before. But I don't think about it because I don't really want that image in my head.
It has to be the same with you. You ha... (read in full...)
I sent a letter saying how I felt - but was it the right thing to do?
Q. I'm still in love with my ex. She wants us to remain friends so we have been hanging out and talking on the phone. We have a child together so we see each other almost every day. I feel like she has been stringing me along. I feel like I'm th...
A. 26 October 2008: It was exactly the right thing to do. She probably had no idea she was hurting you by being a good friend. She was probably just glad you could get on so well for the sake of the kid.
Even if she doesn't want to get back with you and you have to ... (read in full...)
Why does he only want to see me alone, never with my friends?
Q. ive been talking to this guy, alot!!!! we get along very well!! im really busy at the moment so he told me to call HIM when i can see him. you know, girls it dont work like that. but anyway. ill do that when i get the time. but when im going ou...
A. 26 October 2008: He is trying to take you out on a date. He can't do that if your friends are around, and you won't take a night off from them so he's given up and told you to call when you want to see him.
Give him a night when you are free and go out with him... (read in full...)
I need reassurance - people are saying I am not really in love with him.
Q. Someone has said that because I am not shouting out my love for my boyfriend to the world that I am not really in love with him. I don't know if I should believe this or not because they haven't taken into fact that I am an extremely shy person a...
A. 26 October 2008: Do you know what I call people who go on and on about how much they are in love with their boyfriend and how perfect he is all the time?
Annoying!
Your younger sister isn't in a position to cut you off and never see you again. She can hardly l... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong during sex?
Q. Sometimes when my boyfriend and I have sex, I'll get on top. But a few times when I was on top, out of nowhere, he said "owe". I immediately got off. Then he asks what is wrong and I don't answer him because I'm confused. Then he says that he thinks ...
A. 26 October 2008: Yes you are doing something wrong, you are not saying anything.
Why don't you answer his questions? Why do you let him think you are mad at him?
If he says what's wrong then just tell him. "You said ow so I thought I'd hurt you. Did I hurt ... (read in full...)
How do you know that you're bi-sexual?
Q. How do you know that you are bisexual?...
A. 26 October 2008: When you have a boyfriend, and then you have a girlfriend, and then you have a girlfriend, and then you have a boyfriend.
If you want to date and do sexual things with both sexes, then you are bi-sexual.
But as a teenager it is quite normal to ... (read in full...)
Can this girl be trusted for marriage?
Q. Can a girl who is engaged to a boy, but makes out with another guy (often), be trusted enough to marry, or do you think it likely she'll cheat in marriage?...
A. 26 October 2008: Well if she's cheating on you now, then what difference is a bit of paper and another ring going to make?
Don't date someone who cheats on you. Let alone marry them.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship, a guy and his emails. I'm confused.
Q. I've being having a long distance relationship with a guy I met a year ago as a customer. What it was supposed to be a simple email contact has become into a very special email relationship. We have talked on the phone once. He's in the air force...
A. 26 October 2008: Sweetie, he is in the military, and this means that sometimes he will disappear for a few days off the face of the earth.
Perhaps a part fell off a plane and they've all been working 24 hour days to get them back up to readiness.
Perhaps he's ... (read in full...)
What can I buy to get rid of this cold, I cant afford time off work?
Q. How can I get rid of this stinking cold. Its been here a couple of days now, horrendous nose, cough, sore throat, headache. I started a job just over a week ago, I am really struggling with it as its a physical job and the hours they have me doing ...
A. 26 October 2008: Good Luck with it all then...
Why not give learn direct or your local college a ring and do some kind of computer course once you get sorted out?
I used to do quite a bit of temp work in offices and it was just photocopying and shredding but yo... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and have suffered from depression for a few years now and lately it seems worse than ever.
Q. I'm 18 and have suffered from depression for a few years now and lately it seems worse than ever and I dunno if i can take it anymore.. The problem is that noone knows about how i feel because I have never been able to tell anyone but I really nee...
A. 26 October 2008: If you are suffering depression then you are suffering an illness.
Some people have a chemical imbalance that means their blood sugar gets low and they get angry.
You have a chemical imbalance that means you feel very very sad and think irrati... (read in full...)
Is he going to be disgusted when he sees me naked?
Q. I have been dating this guy for about 3 months and I'm ready to have sex with him. I'm a virgin and he's not. He loves me so much and i love him back, but I'm not comfortable with my body AT ALL. I find it ugly, but he says that I'm beautiful every ...
A. 26 October 2008: I agree with the other poster. You are far too young to have sex and 3 months is not long enough to to go out with someone before you lose your virginity to them.
You have to built up trust and love before you give it away to someone and that mea... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed between periods whilst on the pill?
Q. Ive been on the pill for a week now, I've finished my period and i keep bleeding, its dark and blotchy and has happened about three times now, is this normal? ...
A. 26 October 2008: Yeah some pills can make you do that.
If it doesn't settle down after 3 months of taking the pill correctly then go back to the doctor and ask for a different pill.
Everyone is different and some girls get on brilliantly with one pill while o... (read in full...)
am 22 and I have this thing for big asses.
Q. I am 22 and I have this thing for big asses.I just can't like a girl without a nice big ass no matter how i try i just cannot get aroused. Sometimes, I can like a girl just because of her ass and it has nothing to do wit her or how she looks.Does ...
A. 26 October 2008: You just have a fetish - we all have them.
I used to be the tallest girl in school so I would find myself attracted to ANY guy who was taller than me, even if he was horrible and ugly.
You have to learn to accept the fact like you like girls w... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my very good friend's
Q. Okay, I'm in love with my very good friend's girlfriend. She and my friend have been going out off and on for more than two years. She loves him definetely (most of the time). However, I talk to her every day through text, and then im, and then on ...
A. 26 October 2008: She led you on. She probably didn't mean to but she was flattered by your attentions so she let you carry on seeing her as more than a friend.
You know now that she is never going to leave her boyfriend. She is just going to let you cheer her up a... (read in full...)
I want us to touch each other in a more intimate way. I want him, and I know he wants me too. How can I give him a "sign"? Am I rushing things ?
Q. Hello everyone! I'm a girl, almost 20 and I'm really happy, i'm dating an amazing guy who really makes me laugh and I feel great when I'm around him. We started as friends, we already liked each other but decided to see if what we felt for each...
A. 26 October 2008: If you want more then get in a position where he can do more.
EG. Make sure you have some kissing sessions on his / your bed and then pull his top off and take your top off.
It does not have to lead to sex and you can stop him if you think he'... (read in full...)
This is really embarrassing.. but my vagina smells gross!
Q. this is really embarrassing.. but my vagina smells gross! I produce a lot of discharge, clear and white. its gross. it smells nasty. I probably produce more than the normal amount. what can I use to clean it? I wash it everyday. should I douche? I'm ...
A. 26 October 2008: This is normal, it's your bodies way of cleaning itself out and learning how to get all turned on.
Don't use normal soaps down there. They can irritate things and make it worse. Try to just use water and shower there every day, even if you don'... (read in full...)
Am I the "Back-up" girl ?
Q. He broke up with me for someone else but he says i can still talk to him on the phone if i wanted to why does he still want to talk to me if he didnt want me anymore, i'm not aloud to meet him just talk on the phone Is it as I'm a back up if thing...
A. 26 October 2008: Yep sounds like he wants to keep you onside so he can come running back if it all goes wrong with his new girl.
Tell him that he broke up with you so he doesn't get to speak to you.
He's an idiot for leaving you and you deserve better t... (read in full...)
We finally got our lives straightened out, but now there is no time for me...Help !
Q. we have been married for 17 yrs and i was an alcoholic and he was a drug addict(wont admit it). after he was caught and spent 3 yrs in prison he was still abusive and i still drank. we split up for 11 mo. then got back together. things were ok but ...
A. 26 October 2008: Gosh this is not exactly ideal is it?
Have you spoken to him about spending more time with you and the kids?
Why not just announce that you are organising a family day out to the beach / camping in the woods / theme park / whatever, and th... (read in full...)
How do I break up with him and get over it? Or how can I make him want me the way he used to?
Q. I’m 18 years old, my boyfriend is 20. We’ve been dating for two years, with our share of ups and downs but lately he’s been acting a lot different. It all started when I left for college, it’s 2 hours away from home. The first week was fine an...
A. 26 October 2008: I think you are smart enough to know what you have to do. There is no magic wand to make your relationship go back to how it was.
I know this is not what you want to hear but it really sounds like he only liked you because you were there. As soon ... (read in full...)
I suspect my boyfriend could be bisexual, what do you think?
Q. I thought my boyfriend was gay when i first met him,he asked me out and we have had sex,but he wont come inside me,he sometimes has problems keeping an errection,could he be gay?...
A. 26 October 2008: It says you are nearly 60 so perhaps he is having a medical problem rather than a sexual one.
Does it matter if he is bi-sexual?
Would that make a difference to how you feel about him?
Ask him why he doesn't come inside you. Perhaps he j... (read in full...)
We even talked about marriage but recently, she says she does not know if she still wants to be with me... what can I do?
Q. Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for over three years now, I thought everything was going great, we looked at moving into together, we even bought items for the house, we also talked about starting a family and gettingmarried, we even went looking ...
A. 26 October 2008: it sounds like you were one of those couples who were very much in love because they spent every second together and were in a routine and never had any thing to compare it to.
Now she has gone out, she's realised that actually there is a wider wo... (read in full...)
My first sexual experience turned out to be a big mistake and now I feel guilt and self-disgust, what can I do to stop feeling like this?
Q. Im 19 and i first had sex when i was 18. I regret it so much. My bf at the time guilted me into it and pressured me. I wish I was stronger. Everyday I feel disgusted by myself because of what I did. I regret it because he turned out to not be wh...
A. 26 October 2008: What you need to do is forgive yourself.
You made a mistake. You were young and you did something stupid. Lots of people do stupid things. Accept it and learn from it and move on.
As for your family. Ask them why they feel so strongly about i... (read in full...)
My mom hates my boyfriend and me, because weve had sex, she's going to kick me out of her life, help please!
Q. OKay um, im 14 and my boyfriends 15,ive been having sex with him for about two months now, weve been together 3months.My mam found out about a month ago and asked me directly if i was having sex with him. (my mams 8 months pregnant after a condom ...
A. 26 October 2008: She's 8 months pregnant and she is mental on the hormones. She is also TERRIFIED that you, her baby girl, are going to get pregnant.
Why not stop having sex with your boyfriend and tell her that you are have stopped and will not do it again.
... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to move in with me and so do I, but her mom doesn't approve. What shall I do to make this happen in the best way?
Q. Hi, I seriously need ur help and advice on my love life and will appreciate every bit of it. I am seriously in love with a girl of 17, just 17 and she is seriously in love wit me. She is ready to do anything to make me happy and im also ready to...
A. 26 October 2008: Her fighting with her mum is NOT a good reason for her to move in with you.
Tell her that you want to get her mum's respect and you are not willing to be the reason that a mother and daughter fall out.
Tell her you want to move in with her but ... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with my ex for a last goodbye or not?
Q. hi i was wondering if anyone would be able to help me ive decided 2 meet up with my ex one last time to say are goodbyes we both like eatchother stil and he said he allways will but its the age diffrence hes 15yrs older than me i dont know whethe...
A. 26 October 2008: Yep if you meet him it will signal to him that you are not over him and he has a chance.
If he is 15 years older than you he will have had 15 years to learn to manipulate teenage girls.
Tell him you can't meet him and then cut contact with him... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left me after 8½ months to go back to his ex, what can I do to make him come back to me again?
Q. Hi im so confused with myself at the moment, i really want my ex bf back we split 2 weeks today his choice, he wanted his ex back we where together for 8 1/2 months, i still talk to him and everything seems fine, hes now back with his old ex gf an...
A. 26 October 2008: Without killing her, kidnapping him and breaking his legs to keep him in your basement, you cannot make a man come back to you.
He left you for someone else. I'm sorry but why would you want to be with someone who could hurt you like that?
... (read in full...)
Is he giving up on us? I'm confused.
Q. Okay, Well Im 15, dating this 16 year old guy. My first time dating, hes been in previous relationships and I haven't. I had an accident and I wasn't able to leave the house for 6 weeks. Over those 6 weeks, things started getting a LITTLE weird w...
A. 26 October 2008: Sorry hun but he sounds like he's a moron.
He has had to wait for 6 weeks to see you (OMG! 6 WHOLE WEEKS!!) and his tiny brain just can't cope with that.
You are best rid of him now as if you chase after him you will only get more hurt.
Go... (read in full...)
My 100 pound girlfriend is trying to lose 20 pounds so she can be a model.I caught her throwing up, what do I do?
Q. My girlfriend (she's 18 and I'm 19) wants to loss another 20 pounds (she's about 100) with diet pills. That just doesn't sound healthy to me. I am willing to the gym with her but the pill idea has to go. I once came home early cause I didn't feel ...
A. 26 October 2008: Ask her who told her that she had to lose more weight to be a model?
It could be that she went into some agency and they told her she needed to lose weight. If so then go to the local papers about how this agency could be literally causing ... (read in full...)
How do I express my desire for my classmate without being punished by my school?
Q. in our school, we are forbidden to have an affair to our schoolmates or classmates because they may ruin our studies. there is called PDA or Public display of affection. it is a rule that if someone sees you in the campus with your boyfriend or ...
A. 26 October 2008: Talk to him. Talking is allowed.
Even if you can be together and do nothing more than talk then it is still better than not being together.
If you can meet off campus then you can hold hands and kiss and do all the rest then.
If you are stuc... (read in full...)
What can I buy to get rid of this cold, I cant afford time off work?
Q. How can I get rid of this stinking cold. Its been here a couple of days now, horrendous nose, cough, sore throat, headache. I started a job just over a week ago, I am really struggling with it as its a physical job and the hours they have me doing ...
A. 26 October 2008: Well that is not your problem hun. It is not your job or your resposibility to worry about staffing levels.
People like you who worry about this are the reason that evil bastards get away with abusing their staff.
If he wants to make sure all... (read in full...)
How come men seem to have more sexual urge than women?
Q. Do they males have more sexual urge then females.generally males show much interest on ladies and sex. similar desire is not seen in females, Is it gender variation or indidual variation...
A. 26 October 2008: Women do have the same urges but we hide it. What would you think of a woman who openly wanted sex all the time like a man. You'd call her a slut and all kinds of horrible names.
It is in a woman's genetic interest to be more controlled about ha... (read in full...)
The breakup felt so right at the time so why am I still missing her so much after 6 months??
Q. Hi Guys, about six months ago I ended a relationship that was on and off for two years. I broke up with my gf 4 times in the 2 years we were together and mostly for the same reasons. We'd be together for 3-5 months and seperate for 3-5 months. ...
A. 26 October 2008: Answers to questions:
1: you know that if you get back with her now it will be perfect for a while. You are in a cycle of doing that and you want that perfect month even though you know it will get miserable after a while.
2: it depends why t... (read in full...)
Me and my gf are careholders of my 5 year old sister. Now she is getting into trouble at school and I don't know what to do, can anyone please help us with advice?
Q. My 5 year old sister *Tiffany* (she has trouble making friend) lives with me and my girlfriend for personal reasons. My girlfriend set up a play date with one of her friends. Her friend brought her son *Bryan* (also 5) the play started out fine ...
A. 26 October 2008: Dude you are on here with questions every 2 minutes and none of us are experts at childcare.
Why not talk to your social worker / doctor / school and ask if there are any parenting classes in your area. Also, get yourself down to the book shop and... (read in full...)
My 5 year old sister who lives with me and my girlfriend, has started asking me questions about birds and bees. I feel she is too young to know, what shall I do?
Q. My sister (who's 5) lives with me and my girlfriend (for personal reasons.) She keeps asking me sexual questions. Once she ask me what a blow job was. I told her that when its someone get paid to blow on stuff. She's way too young to know about this ...
A. 26 October 2008: They are talking about bringing in sex education over here from as young as 7 now.
I agree with the other poster that you need to ask her where she heard the term blow job. Either she has access to porn channels in her room, or you and your gir... (read in full...)
I dumped this no good for a boyfriend but why won't he get out of my head??
Q. Hi, I posted about 6 weeks ago about this guy I had been seeing. In a nutshell, he cheated, lied and had me believe we had something special going on. I walked away and we had no communication for a month. Then he mailed me, asking me if I had a ...
A. 26 October 2008: You are trying to figure out how and where you failed. As a woman, if we do not end up being the one to do the breaking up (and then continuing as friends afterwards), or marry the guy, then we get this natural feeling that we have failed in some ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a perfect guy and I feel I might never be good enough for him. Should I talk to him about it?
Q. Hello. I'm 17 and I met my first boyfriend, who's 19 a little less than a year ago and we've been dating for around 5 months. He's absolutely perfect! He's nice, smart, funny, and has a stunning body (bonus!) He is a type of person who is go...
A. 26 October 2008: Yeah cos "I'm rubbish and not good enough for you" is what ever boyfriend dreams of hearing.
You can tell him you are feeling a bit down about yourself and that you have not achieved as much as you would have liked to, and feel a bit inferior... (read in full...)
What can I buy to get rid of this cold, I cant afford time off work?
Q. How can I get rid of this stinking cold. Its been here a couple of days now, horrendous nose, cough, sore throat, headache. I started a job just over a week ago, I am really struggling with it as its a physical job and the hours they have me doing ...
A. 26 October 2008: So you are carrying round an infectious debilitating virus that can be passed through the air or by touching things....
Do you really really really think your employer wants you to bring that to work?
By battling through and going to a hard ... (read in full...)
I met a wonderful girl but after 6 months I see my feelings change and I feel trapped, why?
Q. Help, i've got myself into a right mess! I'm about 6 months into a relationship with this wonderful woman but my feelings have suddenly changed. When we first started dating it was great, we had fun I loved being around her and i thought this wou...
A. 26 October 2008: First of all can I just ask how much time you spend together? If you spend every single moment with her then it could just be that you think you are losing yourself.
Why not go on a lads holiday with your friends or go and visit someone you know... (read in full...)
Could he be embarrassed to be with me? What signs should I look for?
Q. what exact gestures, words or signs of him make you feel he is embarassed with you??? I am 15 yrs old an i have been with my 17 yr old boyfriend for nearly 5 months. i dont know why but i get the impression when we go out that he feels ashamed ...
A. 26 October 2008: Why don't you ask him if he wants to split up rather than driving yourself mad trying to pick up on minute bits of body language.
Tell him you get the feeling he doesn't want to be with you and you need to know what is going on.
Give him a ch... (read in full...)
We always end up fighting because he doesn't believe ANYTHING I say...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been with each other for about 7 months. In a past relationship he was cheated on and never expected it. Now he won't trust me and says it will be a while before he does. We work together, and if I say one word to another ...
A. 26 October 2008: It sounds like there is nothing you can do to MAKE him trust you. He has to be open to the idea of it and he's not. He's still too hurt to trust any girlfriend and until he agrees to try and trust you then you are stuck.
Tell him that he has to a... (read in full...)
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