Should I follow my sister's plan and get away from him?
Q. Hi. I hope there is some advice you guys can offer me. Ive been with my boyfriend now for nearly 2 years. We were kind of set up at a party and one thing lead to another. We really began to like each other. After 3 months of meeting. He asked me ...
A. 9 December 2010: KC has given you all the answer, and advice you need. Listen to her, and to your sister!
Good luck to you and your little one!... (read in full...)
I treated her so badly she has finally snapped, will she ever come back?
Q. Hi Everybody I need some serious help and please don't say things like that's what I get because I already know it's all my fault. I just loss my gf and I'm I think for good this time. I took her for granted and not once was insecure about h...
A. 9 December 2010: Pasting your question directed at me here: "Aunty BimBim I know I made her snap but why today? Do you think she's been cheating and influenced or do you think she was to be single so she can meet a guy who won't treat her like I do? I want to do ... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to send my ex a Christmas card or even a gift?
Q. So my ex girlfriend of one year and I broke up back in September and it's been almost three months since we've seen each other. As far as I know she's been dating somebody else almost a week after we broke up. It wasn't best of news when I heard ...
A. 8 December 2010: Why would you want to send her a gift or card, what are you hoping to achieve by doing that? Be honest, does she want a gift from you, what sort of gift were you considering, a tin of cookies or something a little more personal?... (read in full...)
I treated her so badly she has finally snapped, will she ever come back?
Q. Hi Everybody I need some serious help and please don't say things like that's what I get because I already know it's all my fault. I just loss my gf and I'm I think for good this time. I took her for granted and not once was insecure about h...
A. 8 December 2010: Cheering at Linda Blair, and on the inside I am yelling "YOU GO GIRL"!. However, you are the person who has written and you are the person who is expecting a magic wand, and all those words you have spouted about how you understand, how you were an ... (read in full...)
He told other girls I was good at giving blow jobs?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months and I can honestly say we love eachother. He has told me since the begining that I give awesome blowjobs. Today we were joking around and I asked if he ever told anyone how good I am. He said yes I told 2 ...
A. 7 December 2010: I think you need to let him know that what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. I wouldn't like it if a partner was telling other girls either ...
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He makes up crappy excuses when I ask to meet up, is it time to dump him?
Q. He annoys me so much now, it's like he's playing hard to get with me and I'm sick of such childish games when we're into 3 months now. I'm the one who sends the texts and messages, who organizes the dates. He takes more than a day to reply and he ...
A. 5 December 2010: I'm sorry your week has been crappy, but in answer to your question: no don't wait for him, have you heard the expression life is what happens while we are deciding how to live our lives.
Just get on with living, he really isnt a decent sort, his ... (read in full...)
I may be infertile! What can I do??
Q. I think I may be infertile. My periods have never had a pattern. Sometimes they are on time, Others they don't come atall. 4 months I went without a period at one stage. And I definately was not pregnant. Others it comes 2 often like once a ...
A. 5 December 2010: The only way to get the answers is to see a doctor, you may need to see several. If you dont want to see a doctor you dont really want the answers. Its your choice!... (read in full...)
He makes up crappy excuses when I ask to meet up, is it time to dump him?
Q. He annoys me so much now, it's like he's playing hard to get with me and I'm sick of such childish games when we're into 3 months now. I'm the one who sends the texts and messages, who organizes the dates. He takes more than a day to reply and he ...
A. 5 December 2010: Save your breath and don't bother ranting at him, before you dump him, it sounds like he isn't worth any extra effort.
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We've been seeing each other for 7 months, but she doesn't want a relationship!
Q. i started seeing a girl from work 7 mths ago. 1st 3 mths was great then the her mother fell ill with breast cancer. She has a daughter than has been unwell as well so shes had loads on her plate. Ive been there for her to lisen and help her. The ...
A. 5 December 2010: Just to reassure you a little, my phone is often in the bottom of the handbag, I dont always hear it. Sometimes I forget to check for voice mail for several days.
This lady sounds like she might be overwhelmed with all that is happening in her l... (read in full...)
Husband treats me badly and I don't know why
Q. I have been married for under a year but I have known my husband for 8 years before that. We have always gotten along and everything started out great. I have a daughter which makes him a step father, she's almost a year old. Recently he has been...
A. 5 December 2010: Good luck with your counselling, I am glad to hear you are willing to give it a shot, and also happy to hear that if things dont improve you and your baby will be out of there!!... (read in full...)
Husband treats me badly and I don't know why
Q. I have been married for under a year but I have known my husband for 8 years before that. We have always gotten along and everything started out great. I have a daughter which makes him a step father, she's almost a year old. Recently he has been...
A. 4 December 2010: You need to get some help before this marriage deteriorates any further, you and he need to sort out this marriage and he needs to know that calling you dumb and stupid is verbal abuse.
If he is not the baby's father and she is less than 12 month... (read in full...)
Slept with someone after husband abandond me now he wants back
Q. Several months ago my husband walked out on me and my kids. He abandond us and left us with no money and than tried to take my car and informed me to moved out of our family hom so i had to move across contry. I actually went without eating for a ...
A. 4 December 2010: you werent married when you had sex with another man, but for the life of me I cannot understand why you are considering taking yourself and your kids back to that man.
What has your ex husband done to show that he is changed? What makes you thin... (read in full...)
Girlfriend has problem with texting! How do I get her time?
Q. I need help I have a gf when she gets off of work she has either her niece,sister or bother or her ex husband niece texting her alot at times it gets annoying cause I feel like she cares for them more than she does me. And what makes it worse is ...
A. 3 December 2010: what she is doing by spending 45 minutes texting other men when she is with you is saying that you are not as important.
Me, I wouldn't like that, and would probably have walked away by now. You need to decide if you are prepared to spend yo... (read in full...)
Am I going to be too small for the guy to fit?
Q. Hello all! this is my first time writing asking any questions! but i was wondering if u guyz might be able to help :) I'm a virgin and i've notice that my vagina is pretty small...i honestly can only get one finger in... is this normal? and when...
A. 3 December 2010: Imagine the size of a baby, its head, its shoulders etc. Then imagine how much your body will need to stretch to give birth to a baby, even a tiny one.
You will not be too small, and providing your partner takes his time and your body is ready it... (read in full...)
Am I a virgin even though I use tampons?
Q. I have never had sex, no penis have enter my vagina, but I have used tampons so my question is am I still a virgin???...
A. 3 December 2010: yes, you are.... (read in full...)
My bf's a drug dealer and also very agressive but I still love him
Q. My bf and I have been together for 9 months. I thought I'd be happy with him but guess what? I'm not! I want him to stop dealing with drugs but no one on earth could stop him. The more i try to stop him the more agressive he gets. I love him so much ...
A. 3 December 2010: You are unhappy, that much is clear, and you dont like the fact your boyfriend deals drugs ... instead of sitting there worrying that he is going to dump you for your opinions why not get in first and dump him .... its a sure fire way to stop the ... (read in full...)
My bf's a drug dealer and also very agressive but I still love him
Q. My bf and I have been together for 9 months. I thought I'd be happy with him but guess what? I'm not! I want him to stop dealing with drugs but no one on earth could stop him. The more i try to stop him the more agressive he gets. I love him so much ...
A. 3 December 2010: You are unhappy, that much is clear, and you dont like the fact your boyfriend deals drugs ... instead of sitting there worrying that he is going to dump you for your opinions why not get in first and dump him .... its a sure fire way to stop the ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my new partner want to see my ex wife's child when I raised him as my own for 8 years?
Q. i am wondering if any one can explain why my new partner doesnt want me to see my ex wifes child even though i bought him up for 8 years since was one and he is my sons half brother ? confused...
A. 30 November 2010: Is your new partner really that thick or so jealous she doesn't care about the feelings of this child or young person?
Tell her, you are a package deal and that you would appreciate it if she would attend counselling with you so that you can,... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he understand?
Q. I have been with my fiance for almost 7 years and known him for longer than that! We were also business partners and the best of friends suring our relationship. He cheated, I forgave him, then I found out he kept cheating on and off for 3 years! ...
A. 29 November 2010: He is malicious, angry and frustrated because you are not falling for his line of lies anymore.
His cosy little world where he could go off and cheat and come home and pull the wool over your eyes is disintergrating.
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Are there anyone who has been in this same situation? The jealousy is eating me alive.
Q. Before me and my girlfriend got together, she was at a party at my house. My friend is a typical womanizer, and has had sex with over 30 girls altogether. At the party he got a good vibe with her, and when the others had left they asked to use my ...
A. 29 November 2010: You need to change the picture in your head. He didn't "break her in" he took advantage of a drunk 15 year old girl!
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How do you get past the hurt after being cheated on?
Q. For all those who have been cheated on, how do you get passed the hurt and get on with life again? I feel so empty and I can't seem to find a way forward. After having been with my husband since I was 19 (now 31), I feel so lost. I don't even ...
A. 29 November 2010: It is hard to get on with it when you have been lied to and cheated on, and find yourself a single mother, when that had never been your life's goal. Because you wont be able to deal with emotional issues for a while, concentrate on the ... (read in full...)
I don't think my wife will go for the "two wife thing"
Q. Ok I'm in.love with two women ones my wife the others is both of ours best friend . My wife is some what open about sex and we had a 3 som . Ok and then after me and her keeped in tuch and talked about eveything we ended up saying I love you and we ...
A. 29 November 2010: Sure. You love your wife so much you would take a bullet for her, but you don't love her enough to respect your marriage vows.
Your user name is "agoodheart" I think you are telling yourself lies, if you had a good heart you would not be hurting ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't the hot young guy ever say anything to me?
Q. I am incredibly shy and I am not a cougar. I had a crush on a Hot guy who rides my bus occasionally. I am way past the age when I should have a crush. Plus he is young, way younger than me. Yes, I know, I am clueless about men for a woman my age. ...
A. 28 November 2010: Maybe he doesnt want to talk to you, maybe he was just having a bit of fun seeing how far he could go, he might have a girlfriend or even be gay.
You've tried everything to open up communication, the eye contact, the speaking first, you even fel... (read in full...)
I want to help others but don't know how to go about it!
Q. Hi there.. I am 19..and from last few days a thought preoccupied my mind. I may sound silly or this may not be the right platform to ask for but any suggestions would be appreciated. Actually..i want to do some nice deeds like charity or helping ...
A. 28 November 2010: There are numerous charity organisations in the world, and I am sure most would have offices in India. Yu need to look and find one that will suit you, why not try your yellow pages or local government office as a start. See if there are any ... (read in full...)
I am used to being treated like a lady, not expected to pay for everything because his ex wife hurt him!
Q. I ask him for some time, he is 44 and since we started he asked me to buy him, coffee, lunch,etc. We spoke about it and after two months he told me about an airfare reimbursement situation he had with his ex wife. The airline reimbursed both tickets ...
A. 28 November 2010: I wonder if it was his ways with money that caused the marriage to fail, maybe he treated his ex wife the same way, maybe, if a ticket reimbusement did exist, maybe she kept it to make up for money he owed her.
He sounds truly horribile, and I ca... (read in full...)
Holding back so she shows me love
Q. i am happily married for 12 years now and i used to work abroad for almost 7 years now, sometimes i've questioned my wife's priority with regards to giving attentions only on my mind(our kids, her friends over me) ... so im thinking maybe it's just ...
A. 27 November 2010: Married for 12 years, away for seven years ... for seven years of her marriage this woman was on her own, she raised the children as a single parent, any of the little day to day crisis that normally happen to families she dealt with on her own. ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my mother? I don't have the money to move out!
Q. my mother is driving me absolutely crazy... i used to think she was just lazy or didn't care but i'm convinced she's really passive aggressive and does stupid things on purpose to piss me the fuck off.. she'll eat and leave dishes in my room gets ...
A. 27 November 2010: Bella is right, your life does sound deplorable, but it has taken years for your mother and you to get to this point. Her hoarding is an indication of that. It is going to take years to sort out.
As it seems you have no other family to approach... (read in full...)
I've fallen head over heels for a woman who is 20 years younger than me!
Q. In Love With a Younger Woman? I am hoping someone might give me sound advice. I have fallen head over heals in love with a woman of 39 who is younger than me by 20 years. I have been a happily married man for 35 years with 4 grown up children...
A. 26 November 2010: It seems you are not happy with the answers you are receiving.
You say you have no desire to upset your wife or family.
You say this young lady is going cold because you feel she believes that nothing will come of our friendship.
Y... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't want to go see my family. should I go without her?
Q. what do i do if my girlfrend dose not want me to see my famlly for the holidays . she dose not want to go with me and love my familly should i not go ?...
A. 25 November 2010: If you want to see your family for the holidays and she doesnt that's okay. You go see your family and she can see the people she wants to see.
If she is asking you not to go that is a different story, does it seem like she is asking you to chose... (read in full...)
Money is missing and all the signs point to my boyfriend!
Q. I recently stayed over at my new boyfriends house. The next day while shopping i discovered my bank card was missing. I had the bank close the card immediately. Later that day I discovered that the bank account was emptied. and also some cash was ...
A. 25 November 2010: If it was him you have him charged. naturally this will mean the end of him as a boyfriend, but would that really be such a loss?
If it was him you let his employers know, if they are employing a thief they have a right to know.
If it was him... (read in full...)
My gf wants me to have a bigger penis, how do I handle this??
Q. I've got a question recently me and my gf had a talk about my penis and she says that she wants it thicker I asked her why and she said why not. I know that all those pills are scams aswell as mentioned exercises but is there any way to make it ...
A. 25 November 2010: Time to get a new girlfriend!... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for them not to pay me even though I've worked every weekend for the past five weeks?
Q. Hi agony's :) im looking for abit of help/advice on my job problem. ok so i live in the UK and ive recently acquired a christmas temp job. they needed certain ID from me, i gave them my birth certificat (the small one - the only one i have) and ...
A. 25 November 2010: Contact these people for advise:
http://www.adviceguide.org.uk/index/life/employment/basic_rights_at_work.htm
or call the information line: on 0845 345 0055
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I want this to be our flat not his childrens
Q. my boyfriend and i are moving into a one bed flat together soon - our first home together. he has three kids and has a family photo on his wall currently but i want one of me and him in our new flat. i don't get on with his children and want it to ...
A. 25 November 2010: wow!
I am sad to say you have a very perverted view of what being a father is. It is very important for his emotional and mental well being that he be able to love his kids, enjoy their company and also to display their photographs, handiwork, badl... (read in full...)
I feel abused by this woman
Q. I work with my ex girlfriend. We went out and things were find but she didnt want anyone to know about the relationship at work and even lied to people that we were only friends not lovers. we went on holiday together and all the things that you do ...
A. 21 November 2010: You feel abused because you were used and abused.
The fact she now avoids you is an indication of her feeling, if not guilt, uneasy about what you might say or do.
Sadly there isnt a lot you CAN do ... if you start announcing to al... (read in full...)
I have applied to his college so I can win back his love
Q. Dear Cupid, what do I do? I met the love of my life two years ago, and although we're young, I know for 100% that it has to him. Problem is, he just doesn't love me. Before you tell me that I'm young, before you tell me that it's puppy love and...
A. 20 November 2010: It certainly doesn't sound much like true love to me, especially on your part, it sounds possessive and self indulgent, manipulative and destructive.
It seems to me he isn't into your sort of love and has, very wisely, taken a step back.
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Moving in with my boyfriend, how do I break the news to my housemate?
Q. Hey Guys and Girls Me and my boyfriend have decided to move in together in a few weeks time and we have found the perfect house. I currently live with a housemate of 3 years and I am wondering if anyone has any tips to break the news to him th...
A. 19 November 2010: If you and your housemate currently share costs, such as rent and utilities etc you need to give him time to find somebody else to share house with, or he could end up with a massive jump in living expenses.
One of the easiest ways to ruin a g... (read in full...)
FWB doesn't want to "ruin the friendship." What does that mean?
Q. What does it mean when a guy you've been friends with for 7 months,but have also been intamate with says that he doesnt want a relationship because he doesnt want to ruin the frienship.Is this just a nice way of saying I don't look at you like that?...
A. 19 November 2010: It means he only wants you for sex, but not to be his girlfriend.
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Things started out complicated and now he won't marry me because of it!
Q. I have gotten myself into a pickle. I have two close friends who used to be a couple. They broke up about a year ago, though they were always more of friends than a romantic couple. I'm not sure how they even lasted as long as they did. They ...
A. 18 November 2010: Not stupid, no, you are just hooked into a bad situation and cant see your way out of it.
I dont know what this guy is up to but he surely isn't showing you any respect, as for his sleeping in her bed occassionally, but not knowing if they hav... (read in full...)
For all the young mothers, will I be throwing away my life by having kids at a young age?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend and am madly in love with him as when i first laid eyes on him, it sure was love at first sight for both of us. I never wanted kids but am getting really broody lately - he tells me he wants me to have his baby and it ...
A. 15 November 2010: The age difference thing isnt so critical when it is the man who is older. I had kids young, and on reflection waiting a few years would have meant a little more maturity on my part when it came to making very important decisions, a few more years ... (read in full...)
For all the young mothers, will I be throwing away my life by having kids at a young age?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend and am madly in love with him as when i first laid eyes on him, it sure was love at first sight for both of us. I never wanted kids but am getting really broody lately - he tells me he wants me to have his baby and it ...
A. 15 November 2010: The age difference thing isnt so critical when it is the man who is older. I had kids young, and on reflection waiting a few years would have meant a little more maturity on my part when it came to making very important decisions, a few more years ... (read in full...)
My married lover skipped town!
Q. I was involved with a married man for 3 yrs.He always said he does not want to be committed to me.I did not believe him because his actions spoke volumes.He wanted to see me all the time. He became very possessive of me and was extremely jealous of ...
A. 15 November 2010: To answer your question no I dont think he ever loved you, and if you are scared of him you need to talk to somebody, I udnerstand you would probably prefer not to let family members know how you have been taken in and manipulated for the past three ... (read in full...)
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