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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Both virgins, on birth control pills.... do I REALLY need a condom?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (?) - Me and my girlfriend are both virgins but we are planning on having sex in a couple of weeks. She's started taking birth control pills so there is no chance of her getting pregnant. We havent had sex so STI's are also out of the equation so do i ...

He's my friend but I really like him and he thinks I'm not a virgin...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - So i'm at University and I have this great bunch of friends. Within this group is a guy who I really like, I can't go a day without thinking about him. I have a feeling that he likes me as well, he treats me nicer than the other girls in our group ...

He gave me a hug and a kiss, but I think he was wanting more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - heeeey Right i have known this lad for about 7 months now were like friends but you can see their is something more. Anyway he is 19 and i am 16 bit of an age gap but i think thats alright! I always see him out in town (clubs)as i go often and so ...

At 26, I have a fear of losing my virginity!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - i have been unable to get aroused, as im very scared of losing my virginity because of the pain. yes i love my partner and am absoloutely ready. just need suggestions on how to overcome the fear. im getting old....

I'm almost 20 and totally inexperienced in life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - I'm a guy and in my first year of university. I've never even been on a date and i've only kissed one girl in my whole life and that was when i was drunk and in a club. Is that a turn off?? If a girl liked me now then i wouldn't know what to do ...

How would I suggest we have a FWB relationship? And is it a good idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Okay so, me and this guy "D" were dating for about a week before I found out he had been cheating on me with two girls. This happened around 6 months ago. ''D'' and I really haven't talked much since then until a couple days ago when I decided to a...

Why do the girls I like seem more interested in guys way less successful than me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Help, I need major help getting on track! Hello all. I am 27 and for all intents and purposes I consider myself a virgin (the one night of 5-hour attempt where I got no pleasure doesn't count). I can't find anyone compatible and I try eve...

Request for any ideas on how to spice things up please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - How to "Spice" it up? My boyfriend said he wanted to experiment, do new things. He is tired of the same ole same ole. We will do anything but actual full on intercourse, we are waiting on that one. Well we are kind of out of ideas. We tried the ...

My lesbian friend suggested we have sex before I can be her gf. Is this how it operates?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I'm a virgin and a lesbian. There's this girl who goes to the same college as me and she's also a lesbian. We met in our history lecture and have become tight. She's been out for 6 years and has had lots of girlfriends. She keeps telling me that...

Is this pain normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Any time my boyfriend fingers me I feel pain; I am a virgin. And after the act I get this burning sensation and it lasts for about 3 days. I want to know if this is normal?...

Am I big enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I'm about 5.5 inches, maybe a little smaller but I was wondering (as i am a virgin) if I'm big enough for vaginal sex with my girlfriend? And what position would be best for my length to get the most in?...

The issue that broke us up isn't an issue any more ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up on 5 days ago and were together for 3 months. He was 23 and I am 19. We split up because, since I was a virgin, and after a couple of times of trying to have sex it was so uncomfortable it put me off. He was extremely ...

How do I get rid of this nervous feeling for my first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I were discussing what would we do, for our first time having sex. We're both virgins so I'm a little nervous... How can I get rid of this nervous feeling?...

I want to be sure to please him on our first time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time very soon, I asked him what is the one thing he wants me to do... He said he doesn't know, but I really want to know so I can please him. Please help (we're both virgins) ...

Looking for love, don't know about the rest ...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Hello all. I have a pressing question but don't know quite how to word it, so I guess I'll just shoot from the hip. I'm still a virgin. I would like to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, but, I don't know about sex. I keep vac...

Are my personal standards for my performance in the bedroom over the top?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - Um I'm 15 years old and a dude and me and my girlfriend who I've been crazy for for well over a year and who I've been with for about a month having been talking a lot about sex lately and we've decided that we both want to loose our virginity to ...

Where can I learn more about contraception and find information on what to expect if my LDR friend And I take it to the next level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I'm really hoping I can get some good advice. Well story is I am in a LDR and my boyfriend is planning on coming to visit me soon. We have nothing particular planned, however, depending on how things go there is the possibility we will sleep ...

I told him I'm not a virgin but I am

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Well im 14 and im going out with this boy and he is everything a girl can ask for and its like .... the worst part is wen i first met him i told him i wasnt a vigin ( which i really am) and now i think he dosent know what im waiting for its like i ...

She's lied about her virginity so I don't trust her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - I have been dating my girl friend for three years now and she has lied to me about her viginity for two years i love her and i cant live without her but i dnt trust her anymore what should i do please help ...

Married for five months and still no sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Dear, I get marrieged 5 months ago, but i can have sex with my wife, cause she felt hurt when i want to penetrate her. actually, i just put my gun front of her hole and she push out me immediate. i have to try with my best. oral sex or do anythi...

25, virgin, and don't want to scare guys away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - So I am going to be 25 and I am a virgin. It's by choice for the most part .. The problem is I'm very self conscious about myself .. I want to be with someone but because I'm not experienced it makes me even more self conscious ! I'm to afraid to ...

He doesn't seem to want to take things further?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - hey everyone, I am 18 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. Our relationship has been great and I know he loves me and I really love him but the only problem is that he doesn't seem to want to have sex with me. We cuddle ...

Does the guy I lost my virginity to still have feelings for me?

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20 January 2011 (F) - i am 16 years old and i just lost my virginity may of last year to a long time friend. we had been friends since the 7th grade. we had sex 1 other time but that was it. now we barely speak because he hurt me because of his lies and deceitfulness. ...

How do I stop myself from regretting losing my virginity after its done?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - So i've met this guy. it was through a friend of a friend and we met only briefly but i have him as a friend on facebook. So we began talking and the conversation quickly became sexual. We swapped numbers and have continued this to and fro-ing of ...

Why doesn't my girlfriend want to tell me if she's a virgin or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Hello. I have been dating this girl for almost a month already. I usually spend at least 1 day a week with her because we both go to different schools. I can tell she feels the same way I feel about her. She has told me before that she has had ...

Is waiting worth it to a woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I am also the authority of an other article '22 Year Old Virgin: Weak or Responsible'and this will be my second article on the subject matter. I am struggling with the issue of virginity. Because I am a very disciplined individual as my previous ...

We're attracted, she wants a relationship, and I only want sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - I met a chinese girl in my seminar group at university.We are both attracted to each other.The only problem is that I think she wants a serious realtionship whereas I would like sex.I don't see a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship because we differ ...

When is the best time to tell him I'm a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Hey. I'm 17 and in high school and I've been dating a guy in college for about a 2 months. His school is kind of far away so we aren't exclusive so he's not (officially) my boyfriend, but neither of us are seeing other people. I'm planning on going ...

Virgin and the Future

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Hello, I am 22 will be 23 in a couple months. I am dating a wonderful guy he is 21 and will be 22 this year. We met last year in Feb at work, he had a girlfriend at the time and would talk to me in getting my point of view on things. She was younger ...

Virgin wants to have sex but not with her boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Am a girl of 20, also a virgin i always feel like having sex but when am with my bf i hate him touching me, kiss or having sex . Pls what is the cause?...

I'm not sure I can forgive him for losing it with his ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I'm seeing this guy. We were both planning on losing our virginity to each other. He recently told me that he " unintentionally " lost it to his exGirlfriend. Itold him that if he ever did that, iwould move on and forget about him, but ijust can't. ...

Virgin at 22... thoughts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - Hi Guys, so im just wondering what people think. I'm almost(!!) 22 and im still a virgin. I mean i have done fooling around with guys and i have had lots of boyfriends but i have never had sex with any of them. Im not sure what the issue is, im not...

Is my girlfriend still a virgin, if she has been poked?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 and so is my girlfriend. We have been together for just under 11 morths and are thinking about having sex. We are both virgins. But, she is worried that she isn't a virgin because one her ex boyfriends poked in a past relation...

I find hard to imagine only having sex with my boyfriend for the rest of my life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now, he was my first boyfriend and I lost my virginity to him. I love him and can see myself spending my life with him. For some time now I have been finding it hard to imagine only having sex with ...

I'm scared I might have hurt her when I chickened out of going further. I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Ok, so i'm 15 and my girlfriend and I are talking about sex. But i'm scared to because i might hurt her. we've reached really close to having sex, but i chickened out. I told her this reason and she keeps saying it'll be ok... i don't know what to ...

I'm not ready yet. But I seek your guidance on how to initiate sex for the first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Okay.. Please don't be mean with answers to this. I'm not planning to make an instant decision here. To start off, I'm 19. I am a virgin, by choice. I've had a lot of chances of "Losing it", but I didn't want to until I was ready, and with someone ...

My friend slept with another while I was away and now I feel I can't trust him any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - A guy friend of mine has been flirting with me for months, always telling me that I'm beautiful and special and how much he likes me. We aren't "together" but I thought it was understood that we liked each other and it was developing. But I just ...

Could this be all because I am still a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I am still a virgin, but my guy and I do do stuff. I am curious on why I act "wild and crazy" during our "fun time" but when my guy jokes with me about it any other time, I am extremely embarassed, and don't want to talk about it? Could it be ...

22 year old virgin: weak or responsible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

9 January 2011 (M) - I am a 22 year old man who is still a virgin. Despite the fact that I am a black belt, eagle scout, and college graduate I still feel like I am a failure because I haven't had sex at my age. I know several women my age that would like me but I am ...

I told him I was a virgin, then he stopped texting me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - So there is this guy and he is in the same organization as me at our university. We would never talk to each other mainly because we couldnt,we had to be serious and we were all busy doing things. After we went on break i noticed that he was liking ...

I want to have sex so I won't be the only virgin

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 January 2011 (M) - So I'm 16 and a half and junior in high school. I'm a virgin and this fact hasnt really bothered me really. Now im finding out that alot of my friends are having sex or doing other sexual things with either their girl friends or random chicks. I ...

How can I become a born again virgin

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - How do I become a born again virgin I've been with a lot of guys and I'm now really starting to regret it I really want to change but I don't know how to make it official ? Can someone help me please?...

Still no love for a 22 year old virgin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

7 January 2011 (M) - I posted a thread here about a month or so ago titled “No Love for a Twenty Two Year Old Virgin” and I just wanted to let you all know I ‘m giving up. For now anyway. I just don’t understand how or why I’ve been put in this position but I hope at ...

I still love my first!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - I broke up with my ex about who i went out with for a year and its been about 6 months. Im still not over her i still think about her every day she took my virginity as i did hers. It was primarly her fault she wouldn't stop texting other guys and ...

Planning on losing my virginity but scared about a lot of things!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - Im 13 year old and im planning to loose my virginity to a 16 year old soon ! Dont know what to do! I love him but i got doubts im scared he'll leave me or change towards me , i honestly am confused , his never offered for sex but i feel like i am...

Is loosing your virginity to another girl any different than loosing it to a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - Ok, so I have been dating this girl for like 2 years now. We were totally best friends before we came out and were each other's first real kiss. So far in our relationship we have kept it to the minor stuff, like snogging after school, cuddling ...

Girls reject me because I'm waiting till marriage for sex!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - I a guy, just turned 32 last month, and I've never had sex. The thing is, I have a sex drive, and I want to have sex, but I'm the kind of person who does not want to have sex with just anyone; I only want to have sex with a woman I am truly and ...

I'm worried I wont make her happy when we do eventually have sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5100 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - okay, so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while, and I really love her, and we both want to get married, and her being a virgin is really important to me, she says she's a virgin and a lot of me beleives her because she's the most ...

Why does everyone have to say "Keep your legs closed" since I'm a virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Okay, so im a virgin. When I first meet people, sadly, that's one of the first things they ask me. I usedto be honest and tell them I was a virgin, but its like once I tell them, their impression of me changes. Either they'll be like, "Your ...

My older brother said I can, but should I go for it?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - I'm a 14 year old male and am still a virgin. My older brother is 17 and has been sleeping with a couple girls since he was 13 and said I could sleep with them if I wanted. I have never seen her but I know she's hot. Should I go for it even though ...