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*ace123
writes:My boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time very soon, I asked him what is the one thing he wants me to do... He said he doesn't know, but I really want to know so I can please him. Please help (we're both virgins)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): Its natural to worry, but he has more to worry about then you. In most cases you can just lay there and try to cope with the feelings of sex and sometimes, the pain.
All you need to worry about is when giving a blowjob be careful of your teeth - that is the difference between the worst and acceptable.
Dont think too much about pleasing him. You both can feel good separately - him wanking his cock off and you rubbing your clit. All you are doing is bringing those feelings and sensations together, as a couple.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 You just have to go with the flow and be gentle with each other, and make sure the other is feeling comfortable and good. There's no "special" thing other than having sex for the first time with each other is a very special thing all by itself! There's no need to add anything extra.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): If he's a virgin, he doesn't know what he wants yet. Since it's both of your first times, just try things out. Neither of you knows exactly what to do, so figure it out together. Have fun and be safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): On the first time you guys have sex you don't really have to do anything for him- he should do something for you. Just relax and do it. Thats what we did with my boyfriend and if hes a virgin too then it will be something like- 10 minuets or something. Don't worry. You are gonna be pretty freaked out by the fact that you guys did it. You just have to be relaxed. Kiss him, hold his hand, make it romantic, its your first time but its his first time too, so be cool. :)
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