A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:heeeeyRight i have known this lad for about 7 months now were like friends but you can see their is something more. Anyway he is 19 and i am 16 bit of an age gap but i think thats alright! I always see him out in town (clubs)as i go often and so does he.Last night i met him in town and i was chatting away to him and being my normall self and i was a bit drunk and then all of a sudden he asks if im a virgin? and i am i have done everything but sex! is that something to be ashamed about? i just felt so small and stupid.Then i had to go home and i was like byee i have to go thinking that maybe he might have kissed me but he gave me a hug and kissed me on my neck and said why do you always have to leave?Help me what does all this actually mean does he just want sex?
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Does he want sex? yes.Does he "just" want sex? probably not.Please to make the distinction.If he were after you as just a sexual conquest, he would very likely have made more of a move before now. On the other hand, it's pretty obvious he like being around you, probably finds you attractive, and is likely scared stiff of what "the world" will say and/or think about him being with you, with this particular age gap. Ironic that in another 5 years, a 3 year age gap will be completely inconsequential, but at the current age spread, society seems to think he's some sort of evil predator.
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