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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Why is he looking at sites with girl's underwear???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I know I'll probably be raked over the coals for this one because snooping is such a big invasion of privacy and betrayal of trust but here it goes. My boyfriend of four years has been over my apartment recently and he uses my laptop when I go to ...

His sweet words to me, so romantic, well, he's used them before with his past girlfriends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - my boyfriend was very romantic when we first got together. he used to send me loonggg text messages telling me how he felt about me and how he had really fallen for me and i loved it. as we got further along the line these messages died down, though ...

She constantly believes I'm cheating on her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - Hello people Now I have a really really big problem I love my fiancé to death I never ever want to lose her but the problem is always that she constantly believes I'm cheating on her. The problem here is that she says her proof is her friends...

I don't want to be that jealous girl but I still feel so jealous and insecure. How do I get over this feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Hello I need some help or advice to get over my jealousy. I am with a guy, we have been together 2/3 months officially. We were seeing each other earlier in the year but it didn't work out as he had just come out of serious relationship but...

Suddenly he wants Fridays to himself, leaving us with only Saturday! I don't like this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Okay so me and my bf have been together for about 1 and a 1/2 years, and for the longest time we have always spent time together on Friday and Saturday, but the following week my bf likes to host a poker game where a bunch of guys come over to play ...

I keep dreaming he's cheating, how can I make the dreams stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I keep having dreams of my fiancee cheating on me! It normally happens if we argue and don't resolve it that night, but yesterday it happened randomly. It starts with some girl in bed with him, and me being really hurt crying, etc. and him telling ...

Should a married woman accept a drink from a man at a bar?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1900 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Do y'all think it's OK for a married woman to accept a purchased drink from a man at a bar? My wife often goes out with her girlfriends. Sometimes they sit around a table like a bunch of hens cackling for hours - men run for the hills. But other ...

Should I dump this guy and get on with my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Ive being in a relationship for the last 15 month. He is 7 years older than me not that you would think it as he quite immature for his age. He told me he has being in a relationship and lived with someone and that he got hurt. I have no evidence...

I think I caught him out with his ex wife, but he wont explain what has been going on! I feel so used....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Dear all, please help!! I have been seeing this guy for a year. it has been a rather rocky relastionship, and he had seperated from his wife sometime back - around three years ago. Anyway, I had a funny hunch that things were somehow still 'cosy' ...

Worried by my boyfriend's taste in porn, does he have a problem?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I have a question regarding my boyfriend's taste in porn. We have been together for over three years, and ever since the beginning of the relationship I knew he watched porn, and I didn't have a problem with it whatsoever. He was honest ...

I'm scared that things are going to change when my boyfriend goes to college, or he'll fall for some college girl, or his feelings will change

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - So, I'm now 17, and my boyfriend is 18. As everyone should know, school will be coming to an end soon, and he will go to college. The thing is he will be going to college out of the city, (155mi away). I know it's not a big number, but I don't know ...

He has a female friend who I feel is inappropriate.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - My and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years and have lived together for a year. He is currently in Afghanistan with the military. He has a female friend who I feel is inappropriate. She often sends him pictures to his phone of lit...

He stood me up for no reason

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

26 February 2012 (?) - Me and this guy friend arranged to meet up this weekend; his idea actually. We do have a bit of a history. We've never dated but we did have a bit of casual "fun" when we were both single. I ended up developing feelings for him but I think that was ...

My boyfriend gets upset when I don't answer the phone

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - i am 46 single and live in uk and my muslim boyfriend is 26 years old, we met on a dating site. I look much younger than my age,we are planning to get married. My boyfriend gets really upset with me, when he cant get hold of me on the phone. He se...

Should this change how I feel about my husband to be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - My Fiancé is a very inspiring person: born very poor single mother who had troubles with "the drink" (one Christmas he told me all he got was a black eye). Yet, he's now finishing a medical residency and has put everything behind him from his past, ...

What are your thoughts on what he really meant, when he said (possibly not sober at time) that he loves and hates me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - Hi, So I've met a very sweet shy guy who I've been out with on 7 dates and we've been texting daily so in total 3 months. I received a message stating that he hates me but loves me at the same time! Then an hour later another message apologising ...

Need to break up with my LDR. But how do I tell this other guy in a subtle way that we should be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4689 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for approximately one year and eight months. For a year now, it's been a LDR. I made it rather clear to my current bf that if he moved away, this relationship will most likely fall apart. I said this because I know myse...

I'm a guy and like one of my straight friends. What things should I do to manage this situation tactfully?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - Hello. I like one of my best guy friends, and I too am a guy. I've been close friends with him for 3 or 4 years. We didn't really talk to each other for the first few years, but became close as we had classes and talked to each other more. It w...

This is an Unwanted Love Triangle. How should I be reacting in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4686 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - My good friend, C, introduced me to a guy friend of hers, M. Apparently M started liking me. He would ask me out almost every week to hang out. I just go with the flow and went with him. Unknowingly, it seems that C likes M. I had that feeli...

How do I get over this breakup when I have such strong doubts that he has been flirting with other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - it hurts me a lot that i broke up with my boyfriend yesterday, because i ve loved him so much.. but i can't also live with a doubt because I think he flirts ...

My ex and I split 2 years ago. I've always loved her. Should I contact her or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - I split with my ex just over two years ago. I still think of her and I sent her a message just before xmas a couple of months back and she replied the same day telling me she wasn't so good and that she started a new job and didn't feel herself ...

What was he thinking? What was this kiss all about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4689 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - Not sure if he was trying to kiss me or take advantage or what. My best friend and I were hanging out at his place when it happened and we have dated before, but it didn't work out and we were better friends than lovers. Well I was at his place a...

He has the ring. When will he find the right moment? Should I wait?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years this June. We have a great relationship and have lived together for the past 2 years. I trust him and he has never given me a reason not to. We are very close and are best friends and lovers. 2 1/2 years ago ...

Which one? The one who likes me? Or the one I'm kind of into?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - There is this guy X who's in a class I'm in. And I’m kinda into to him. We talk in class sometimes but he’s extremely shy. We talk on Facebook at least once a week and he is the opposite of shy when we talk then. But I feel like I’m always the one ...

Is it to be expected that I would be insulted by his disbelief in me? How can I also suggest new things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4689 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now, we're not official but things are getting more serious between us as time goes on... He's the first guy I've ever been sexual with, I've given him a handjob and a blowjob. Now I've ...

He doesn't answer if I use my phone, but did when I used a phone unknown to him. Is it over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I need advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over two years. He is currently studying for the bar exam. He's had an attitude with me for the last week which I let go because he's under a lot of stress lately. Yesterday, I had my gran...

He's amazing, but he belittles me and doesn't trust me. Calls me goody-two-shoes. Do I end this relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - This is hard for me to write, its hard for me to come to terms with, but i think im near the end of my 20 month relationship. Since the day i meet him we became inseparable, he is my first serious boyfriend and its been a wonderful and life changing...

How to fix this after the cheater was cheated.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

25 February 2012 (M) - Well, let's start it this way. I met this girl nearly half a year ago, and when I we started an official boyfriend/girlfriend relationship for nearly 4 months already. We have always been in a long distance relationship since the start, and I k...

I've compromised so much he now thinks he is always right!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Sometimes one thinks the best way of dealing with disagreements is by compromising, so much that you change a lot of what it is "You" in hopes that the other would do the same. It's like that Fergie song, "Meet Me Halfway", but what happens if one ...

Should I ask him why he is ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - We had a fling, we're friends (or at least I thought we were) and recently he stopped texting me, if I ever try to contact him he never replies after the second text. The last time I saw him he seemed a bit weird and I didn't know why. The time we ...

I've fallen in love with another man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Did it turn out how you wanted Or were you left with regrets? Did you the love the person more than your spouse? What happened and how did things turn out? I fell inlove with another man and its not infatuation i belive I love him. My husband is a ...

I am worried it is over.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I feel so helpless and depressed and lost. I started dating a guy and we went out on a few dates..everything was going well now he has stopped calling. Before then we emailed each other a lot for a few months before we met (we had met online). ...

How do I change my man's perception of me of being a club/party girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I need your help to get my man to commit to me like he was in the beginning. We have talked about marraige since we met and we know we both want. However, we have had some ups and downs which is attributed to long distance and me having trust issues ...

If he wants sex he has no chance!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - *We made out a couple of weeks ago (drunk). Told me he had feelings. *I stayed at his place (didn't have sex) *It was awkward the next week in college oddly *He jetted off to France for a week (student exchange) where apparently he DID THINGS...

I'm getting tired of it, I really am!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I was asking for advice concerning my ex we broke up in August remained friends he visits on weekends and has times he stays in the week I see our friendship like being on a roller coaster one minute fine then look out. We are nothing alike y...

I'm too self conscious to have sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I havent had sex with my boyfriend yet but i'm worried about making a lot of noise during sex,like moaning and screaming and shouting lol.I'm also self conscious about my body.I really want to have sex with him but i dont know how to stop feeling ...

Am I just a way to pass the time when he is bored?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Okay, well there is this guy and we met through school.(He now goes to a different school) When the summer holidays came round, was when we got talking, we met once that holiday too. We flirt and have a great time when we talk to eachother. But I ...

I don't want to rekindle our affair but his son just died ...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I ended an affair with a married man 6 months ago. 2 days ago, I found out his son passed away at 21 yrs old 1 day ago. Although I avoid all contact with him, I feel bad for his lost. I want to know shld I call and give my condolences. Something ...

Would you believe a guy who had a one night stand but said he wanted a relationship with you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - How come men have one night stands with some women, and decide to have relationships with other women?. What makes the women that they have relationships with different to the ones that they have one night stands with?. I don't understand it. Also, ...

Wondering if my marriage is based on a lie?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - hey aunts and uncles, im so fed up at the moment, my husband lies to me so much, little white lies but im thinking if he can lie about something so simple, what else can he lie about. So hes been going to a martial arts class twice a week, so...

I don't understand this girl! If I am an important part of her life, then why am I being treated like this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

23 February 2012 (M) - Hi, I would really appreciate your advice on this, but first some background: I am 30 and my girlfriend is 28. We started dating 3 years ago, we went out for two months then she left me for her ex. I subsequently found out that they had never split ...

When would be the time to forget about him and accept it's not going anywhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - I went out with this guy and things went really well, we got along great and talked for hours about literally everything. He was so sweet and makes me feel like a schoolgirl, he kept holding me close and we kissed a lot this night!! We've met up a ...

He claims they are just friends but he has told me she is prettier than me, should he stop seeing her and stop texting her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - Dear all, I am in a serious relationship for a year now. 3 years ago in 2009 I broke up with my ex and was very depressed. During that time I even had to see a councillor. And he advised me on what I should have in mind for my next bf. that year, I ...

I know he is chatting to other girls but he denies it, is he cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - i love my boyfriend so much and we are mostly in on off relationship for 6months now..but for the past 2 months now we are in serious relationship than other 4months which when off on... but main problem is that i doubt him most of the time that he ...

I cant go to senior prom with my G/f because of the age limit and so her ex is taking her but I know he still has feelings for her. I don't trust this guy and I don't know what to do

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

23 February 2012 (M) - hi agony aunts, i am in a relationship with an 18 year old girl. I am 22. the problem is that her senior prom is coming up, and we can't go together because her school has a stupid age limit, you can't go if you're over 21. so anyway, a gu...

My boyfriend is seriously misinterpreting stuff from my Facebook

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is upset over a message he found on my Facebook. I went to starbucks a couple of months ago and a friend I had not seen in a while was working there, he asked to exchange numbers and then contacted me shortly on Facebook. We would ...

I'm not sure I trust my ex when he says he isn't using drugs anymore, we have a 10 year old I want to keep safe!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - Hi, new here. Question about addiction. My ex-boyfriend and the father of my 10 year old had, when we were together, a big drug problem. We split up 3 years ago. He used to smoke cannabis every day (had 'come downs' when he couldnt get any)...

I don't like my boyfriend going out with his friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I need some advice, i feel like im going crazy! I know this sounds bad but i don't really like my boyfriend going out with his friends. We have been together 4 years and i do love him alot, but ive always been really insecure and quite a para...

He's leaving his girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I've been hanging out with a co-worker friend of mine who is a guy 2 months ago. And we've got very attached to eachother, but the thing is that he has a girlfriend and a child with her. His girlfriend is bipolar with a very bad temper. He's told ...

Would you be put off a guy who said his son was "just a baby I made"?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I'm dating a man who is a lot older than me, and he has a son who is a year younger than i am . He hasn't had much contact with his ex wife since they got divorced 23 years ago. He also hasn't seen his son much since his son was three years old. He ...